donski

@donski (132)

Philippines • Age 55

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find yourself by doing a little bit of what you hate.

nomisaleng @nomisaleng (8) • Philippines 10 Apr 11

finding one's true self is experiencing a little bit of what you hate. Don't settle to avoid it. Expose yourself by doing it. A person's perception tends to change. You don't hate forever, it's unhealthy. Expect the unexpected....

find self do what you hate

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donski sometimes we have to do the things that we hate doing, in some cases we cannot avoid them. so all we have to do is try to experience it, whatever maybe the outcome, positive or negative result, at least you've tried. there's no harm in trying, instead think it...

12 Apr 11

if something might go wrong... it will!!

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 11 Apr 11

So, if it actually went wrong... are you prepared to take it on and move on to your back up plans? Are you the kind of person who is always prepared for anything to come his/her way or you are the kind you gets surprised by...

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donski There are times that even we are too prepared for something, there still unexpected thing to happen. if that occurs, think positive, be optimistic always. think of something to overcome the situation. sometime we don't have back up but we must be always a...

12 Apr 11

positivity is a wonder drug!

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 12 Apr 11

"A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug." (by Patricia Neal) so, do you always fill your mind with positive thoughts or do you welcome negative thoughts often especially when you feel...

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donski i agree with that. you are what you think. that when you feel down, all you have to do is to think that something good might happen, you never notice as time passed by all positive things you thought might come into a reality. positive thinking will give you...

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My best friend is mad at me, what should I do?

Bambi09 @Bambi09 (227) • United States 12 Apr 11

My best friend Brittani is really pissed off at me for a stupid reason. Because I didnt go out with her on Saturday. I find it really stupid, but she's making it a big deal. I was extremely tired and wasn't feeling good and I told...

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donski I don't understand why your best friend was still mad at you after explaining your reason of not going out with her. the best thing that you should do, i guess, is to ignore her. She should understand you, she's your best friend anyway, right? Sorry to say but...

12 Apr 11

Which is worse, failing or never trying?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 3 Apr 11

I always say never be afraid of rejections. First, at least you tried. Second, it's their lost not yours. For me it's better to try than not to try at all. I think what's worse for me is never trying at all...

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donski I think never trying at all is worst than you tried then failed. At least when you failed you learn how to stand up again. because for every failure we learned so much, we learn how to move on, to walk through the ups and down of life and be able to handle...

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Every day is a happy day or no!

baressi43 @baressi43 (458) • Romania 4 Apr 11

In each day we meet some different situation in family,on the street or at work place.So in a each day how you fill all events in various situation?

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donski Let us face it, not everyday is a happy day. We experience different situations on different occasions, but being happy is a choice that we make everyday despite all the troubles and problems that we encounter everyday.

4 Apr 11

Saying "I'm sorry"...

oasis_9 @oasis_9 (831) • Philippines 4 Apr 11

Why is it so hard for some people to say those words whenever they made mistake or made some minor error to someone else's. One example my friends yesterday went at a mall and eat a little snack at one of the fast food chain...

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donski some people find it very difficult to say sorry because they are perfectionist, they could hardly accept that sometimes they commit mistakes . or sometimes they knew they commit mistakes but because of pride and ego they just ignore it.

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why we keep on experiencing this problem?

mrbrownedeye @mrbrownedeye (781) • Philippines 1 Apr 11

what happen to us people? war here war there!? earth quake here and there? aren't you afraid of what is happening around you? i hope we can learned from all of this for at least or perhaps we can make a good change for our nation...

bad things happend

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donski What is going on around us is something we can not prevent. We don't even understand why hings like these happened. God has plans for every one of us. I think this is the best time to be united, irregardless of our religion and nationality. We must lend a hand...

3 Apr 11

Do you know anyone outside your country? Why are they abroad?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 2 Apr 11

I was watching the news just recently, Here in the Philippines, I think one of the problems we are facing are due to the number of overseas Filipino workers… They are thousands and thousands from different countries around the...

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donski Yes i have a lot of relatives and friends abroad. Some of them stayed there almost their whole life and just visit us once in a while. Some of them worked abroad because they believe they can find a greener pasture overseas. and will give them a better life....

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would you dare leave your family and work elsewhere to earn big enough money?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 2 Apr 11

I don't think i can ever do this. Even if the need for big money, or even just enough money to send my kids to school, and send money to my parents, or family.. i don't think i have such guts to be away from them just to give...

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donski If you want yo give a better life to your family probably yes. A lot of people do that because we always want the best for our family. We don't to deprived them of things that we think will make them happy and contented. And when you see them happy that gives...

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What's the difference between a boss and an employee?

adnileb @adnileb (5287) • Philippines 2 Apr 11

I've been to three bosses in my 3-year work period and each of them are different when it comes to attitude. I work as a Design Engineer in one shipbuilding firm and all the staffs are in front of computer for the whole day to...

boss

boss and employee differences

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donski The boss is always the one in command of everything. He is your superior so you always have to follow all his instructions according to his will and an employee is the one who receives the command. An employee does all the works. A boss has time to relax while...

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Evrything comes from the Lord

gelayagui98 @gelayagui98 (1336) • Australia 26 Mar 11

People work hard to enjoy a comfortable and happy life. They spend years striving to get an education with hopes of starting perfect career that will bring prestige, power, and money into their lives. In the business world, many...

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donski All things that we have, material or immaterial, everything comes from the Lord. So we must learn how to appreciate everything. God's wisdom guides us to make right choices in the confusions of life. God is the author of life. he is the reason why certain...

2 Apr 11

I am dying ...

srinivas2036 @srinivas2036 (188) • India 2 Apr 11

Hi friends... I have been loving a girl fom three years. I love her alot . But not able to express. I was worried about whether my friend ship will broke if I I propose my love her. I am almost dying. What to do.? pls give me a...

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donski Why don't you tell her that you love her. Who knows she is also in love with you. she's just waiting for you. You better give it a try. don't just sit there and wait. just be yourself. tell her how you really feels about her. if she got angry at least you have...

2 Apr 11

I am not a fashionable guy

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 2 Apr 11

Oh gosh, when people mentioned about going to shopping at the mall, or the nearby stores, I would easily get bored by going along. I don't go shopping a lot, so I don't follow up much about the trendy stuff, or the most "hot",...

clothing

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donski I don't think so. you don't have to do what others want you to do. just be yourself. If you are happy and contented of how you look then be it. there's more important things to do than mind what other people say about you. Enjoy what you are doing snd live...

2 Apr 11

Friend what does it mean

umabharti @umabharti (3972) • India 27 Mar 11

hi ,mylotters, Why do any one require friend in life.Do childhood friends last forever.Is friendship between a girl and a boy can be healthy.Does friendship last throughout our life for everlasting.Do any one have such...

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donski a friend is someone who is will be there for you, whether rain or shine, through life's ups and downs. Someone who is will accept you no matter who or what you are. Someone who will not betray you but comfort you in times of troubles.

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Life is meant to be lived... AND enjoyed!

LaLa Leo @mrscallands22 (2851) • United States 28 Mar 11

Right now..... today..... currently...... or however you want to put it... are you living life?? Most people will say yes as they are... living and breathing. But are you living life... and enjoying it?? Are you?? I know that...

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donski Indeed! Life has a lot to offer, it has it's ups and down, though there may be tough times but still we have to move on and enjoy life. What and who we are right now is the result of what we do to our lives. We live because we love our life.

28 Mar 11

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How would you describe your current life situation?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 28 Mar 11

Would you say your pretty happy with your life right now and the direction that it's going in? Or are things not going good and you hope that they will improve? For me I feel things could be going a lot better. So I'm working on...

current life situation

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donski My life right now i can say is not pretty well. there's a lot of things that bothers me like financial problems, my work and my family. but i don't let my depression ruin my life, i believe that no matter how hard life maybe i can still manage to handle it...

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How do you get over Depression?

katie0 @katie0 (5203) • Japan 28 Mar 11

Hello there people, Let's go, let's help people who have depression by telling tips and ways to get over it. I think that happiness it's a decision really. Sure there's times that serotonin is not being produced and a person...

depression

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happiness is decision

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donski If i feel depress, i pause for a moment. then i try to concentrate on my work, i kill my time just working the whole day. or go to the mall and take time to relax, or go to the church and pray, ask God's guidance on what to do with my life. i turn to God and i...

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gift to yourself

lingaypaculdar @lingaypaculdar (337) • Philippines 27 Mar 11

what gift would you like to give yourself? For me, I have been wanting to have a laptop. But it seems hard to get it. I set aside that thing and now what i want is a rosary. I'm planning to have a regular rosary prayer with my...

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donski i think the best gift that i could give myself is a good vacation. after a very exhausted and toxic day of work, i deserve a good break and relax. I have need a great vacation with my family. enjoy every minute of it and have fun.

28 Mar 11