eljayo

@eljayo (1105)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 15 years ago

All Activity

Responses (488)

eljayo's Responses

how to forgive our enemy? it is really hard..

atwilson @atwilson (540) • Indonesia 25 Mar 12

forgivin could be the hardest part in life. moreover if that person has hurt us crazily. how do you deal about it guys? can you forgive someone? please suggest me.

enemy

forgive

hard

27 responses •

3 people

eljayo Hi! It is really hard to forgive someone who has hurt you badly. But we must really forgive.Time heals, just don't meddle on it too much. Forgiving is possible. God can forgive us ,how much more we humans. We must learn to forgive. Just make sure its...

26 Mar 12

•

1 comment

work after vacation

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 25 Mar 12

I've been off from work for 9 days now and have to go back tomorrow, I always have to prepare myself to go back to work especially after being off for more than a weekend. My clothe are already laid out and my lunch...

18 responses •

2 people

eljayo Hi! Having a vacation makes you refresh before going back to work. At least you had a vacation and I hope you enjoyed it.

26 Mar 12

•

1 comment

What's in a name?

gurujee @gurujee (216) • India 25 Mar 12

Honey will be as sweet as it is now even if it is known by any other name. We are not born with any name. Funny, the name we are given long after we are born cling to us long after we are gone. One may be great or small but one...

honey

name

12 responses •

1 person

eljayo Hi! My father was the one who chose my name. I may not love my name but I am contented with it. Alt least I have a name.hehe. I never thought of changing my name.

26 Mar 12

•

1 comment

i want to give up on buying shoes

hotsummer @hotsummer (13995) • Philippines 25 Mar 12

i bought a pair of shoes for the third time but still i was not feeling comfortable in the style that i chose. that i felt that the color and the style is not suitable with my get up. so it is just sitting on the shoe cabinet. but...

shoes

8 responses •

1 person

eljayo Hi! I think you are an impulsive buyer. I suggest that you really think about it before you buy something. Because its a lot of waste if you buy it and you still do not feel using it.

26 Mar 12

what do to with relationships?

aubrey @averygirl72 (38835) • Philippines 25 Mar 12

I am looking for opinions. What if you want a person as a friend but the person does not like you? obviously you won't become friends. What if you like to join a group of people but they don't seem to like you, obviously it won't...

friends

friendships

people

10 responses •

2 people

eljayo Hi! Real friends reciprocate your kindness to them.You cannot be friends or have relationship with people who do not like you. Like for example can you marry somebody who does not love you?of course you may but your relationship won't work and worst won't last...

26 Mar 12

•

1 comment

girls with trash mouth

celtickimba @celtickimba (28) • United States 11 Mar 12

It seems like girls are getting more vulgar my the day. When I was in college the girls still had some refinement. Swear words were not being thrown around every time they opened their mouths, and they used some judgement when...

cute

foul mouth

girls

12 responses •

1 person

eljayo Hi! I really don't like hearing trash words. It makes my ear ache. I think it is not proper for anybody to have a trash mouth it will just ruin their reputation personality and relationship with others.

12 Mar 12

Is tourism a good way to develop local economic?

dandan07 @dandan07 (1906) • China 11 Mar 12

My hometown is famous for its natural beauty. So the local government want to develop the tourism instead of local industry. I know tourism is a good way to make money for it has less pollution, but i do not think give up local...

tourism

13 responses •

2 people

eljayo Hi! I think tourism will help a bit but the most important thing for an economy to elevate is to eliminate corrupt officials.

12 Mar 12

•

1 person

My brother-in-law passed away.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 11 Mar 12

My brother in law passed away last Thursday, he was 95 years old and had been a member of our family all of my life. He married an older sister the same year that I was born and about two months before that event. My sister passed...

friend

16 responses •

1 person

eljayo Hi! I am sorry for your loss. I think He is still blessed to be able to reach that kind of age. I hope he rests in peace.

12 Mar 12

•

1 comment

•

1 person

If I knew then...

ponyboy448 @ponyboy448 (38) • United States 8 Mar 12

You ever stop for a minute and think about the way things are going in your life right now? Then you think if I knew then what I know now would things be any different? Like when I was in the Marine Corp, now I think if I knew...

11 responses •

2 people

eljayo Hi! I feel the same way sometimes and at times I feel some regret but I manage to stay positive and go on with my life and try to make it a better one. Hopefully, you will also be able to cope with it.;)

9 Mar 12

•

1 comment

How is the rising price of gasoline or petrol affecting you and your family?

scorpiobabes @scorpiobabes (7220) • United States 21 Feb 12

It has drastically cut into our "pleasure" trips that we liked to take. We often have to 'group' errands together, and whoever is the closest to an affordable gas station gets to fill up. I've been forced to give up...

8 responses •

1 person

eljayo Hi! I think even if you do not have a car.If the gasoline price rises everything and everybody is affected. As you have noticed when gas prices hike there is also increase on fare and prices of goods. Since it is used in transporting products. Of course it...

22 Feb 12

•

1 comment

What Food Can Heal Wound Faster?

Lucas818 @Lucas818 (377) 21 Feb 12

Greetings to all myLotters, I fell pretty badly this evening when I was playing football. As a result, I got a wound at my knee, left leg. It bleeded immediately, unstoppable. I cleaned it, and luckily it wasn't a deep cut. It...

bleeding

wound

17 responses •

4 people

eljayo Hi! Eat foods rich in Vitamin C. Vitamin C helps heal wounds faster. Citrus fruits, like orange will do.Drink also lots of water and rest the affected part. Have enough time to sleep since cells regenerate when you are at rest and most of all clean it always...

22 Feb 12

•

1 comment

How can teens/kids earn without breaking the law?

SinfulRose @SinfulRose (3519) • Davao, Philippines 22 Feb 12

Here in my country, one can often see in news, kids being put under a government sector custody due to working and the owner(s) of the business/workplace that pays them to work are always imprisoned. (Yeah, I admit they are mostly...

6 responses •

1 person

eljayo Hi! Crimes nowadays are committed by underage people maybe its because they are protected by the juvenile law. However, they can still earn without doing this bad things. They can try baking some cookies and sell it at school or some dry goods like making...

22 Feb 12

If you have the choice to live in the Future or the past which would you choose?

edwarthefamily @edwarthefamily (42) • United States 21 Feb 12

It could be anytime in the future and anytime to the past. The sky's the limit. Remember if you go to the past you cannot take anything with you but your brain. Personally I would like to live in 2025, (pray this world won't...

25 responses

eljayo Hi! I think this is an impossible question but I will still answer it. I think I would like to live in the future, because I believe its a time where I have formed my own family,have a stable job ,be a mother and a wife and be able to support my parents and...

22 Feb 12

Are you religious in taking your vitamins?

airamtheb @airamtheb (370) 15 Feb 12

Many times I have bought some vitamins or food supplements which I supposed to take regularly but always fail to take them as prescribed that they would just expire in their containers. Either I forget them in the morning or in...

prescription

vitamins

12 responses

eljayo Hi! I really take my vit C everyday because for me it is very important to keep me fit and healthy and strong against diseases. Do it too and you'll see the good results.Maybe you8 can alarm your cellphone everyday to remind you of your vitamins. You are lucky...

16 Feb 12

Too many singing shows?

maezee @maezee (41896) • United States 15 Feb 12

For those of you in the U.S., or who watch American television - am I the only one out there who thinks that having 3+ television shows about SINGING - contest-wise, is a little overkill? Me and my boss were bored today so we were...

13 responses •

2 people

eljayo Hi! I am not from USA but I watched American Idol at times and some foreign channels. I don't know but maybe this is their way of discovering new talents or maybe they thought is American Idol got a lot of viewers then they could make another singing contest...

16 Feb 12

"The More We Learn, The More We Discover Our Ignorance"

craziestqueenever @craziestqueenever (1818) • Philippines 14 Feb 12

That quote stuck into my mind. The more I learn, the more I discover my own ignorance. The other day, I was cleaning my room because it is piled up with some papers. I was reading some of my written requirements when I was...

10 responses •

1 person

eljayo Hi! It is true. Sometimes I feel ashamed and at times feel funny for not knowing some things. Reading is really effective to fain more knowledge.I think its normal to feel ignorant once you discover the truth.;)

14 Feb 12

•

1 comment

Why Do You Skipped other Responses In Your Discussion?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39133) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

I saw one and read few mylotters who are questioning as follows: Mylotters who keep starting many discussions everyday(5 or more discussions) Mylotters who started a discussion/s and never response back (so called-...

30 responses •

12 people

eljayo Hi! I think I do this at time because I have nothing more to say. Maybe people do this too because the response does not interest them.But most of the time I really try to respond to all as much as I can.I never rate a response it always slips on my mind.

9 Feb 12

•

1 comment

•

2 people