flance101

@flance101 (137)

Philippines • Age 40

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would you get yourself pregnant just to hook a guy?

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 19 Oct 08

i am just wondering, to what extent would you do if you really like a guy? will you just wait until such time that the guy would take notice at you and like and love you as much as you do or would you do anything just to hook a...

getting a guy

pregnant

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flance101 My answer is one big NO! Definitely not. Why would I force someone to get to love me? I'd prefer to be loved honestly. Also, I dont flirt, in fact I dont know how to flirt! I'm a girl, and my friends of my age know how to, and some of them are quite into that...

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can you handle not seeing your gf or bf for a months or years?

mrcupid21 @mrcupid21 (200) • Philippines 21 Oct 08

i believe i can handle it but my thoughts will be playing my mind. somehow, ill be thinking that my gf is already cheating on me or maybe she doesn't really want to come back to me.. its hard but ill live with it.. if she really...

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flance101 I dont know. I have into a long distance relationship, but my boyfriend then makes time for me and makes sure he gets to visit me. Everything was fine then. I trusted him. Our relationship lasted for four years, and there was no problem about us not being...

22 Oct 08

If you get two love proposals, which will you accept?

sivanj @sivanj (1263) • India 22 Oct 08

Assume you get two love proposals. Which one will you accept? What criteria will you adopt to accept the love? Is it beauty or personality or intelligence or characters or attitude?

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flance101 I'd chose the one I love. :) As simple as that. But if you are saying that I happen to like two people at the same time, and the way I like them is about of the same depth, I'd say personality and attitude. Let me explain, psychologically, it is possible that...

22 Oct 08

how do you make yourself tired

babytaffster @babytaffster (2236) • Chatsworth, California 22 Oct 08

i can never seem to get myself to be tired at night (at least not long ennough to get myself to bed)

sleep

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flance101 I have mild insomnia, so I have learned how to get myself to sleep when I know I need some. I look for something I can stand to watch, or play games in my computer. But since I am sitting in front of a computer most times, I get tired just from looking at my...

22 Oct 08

Is it normal to not like someone no matter how much you try to

babytaffster @babytaffster (2236) • Chatsworth, California 22 Oct 08

There a couple people who i am expected to hang around with and get along with, and i try to, but i just cant. They drive me insane. Especially one of them who is bossy over dramatic and annoying

enemies

freinds

trying to get along

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flance101 I do find it normal. Well, people will not change just so we will learn to like them. And even if I use the term acceptance, I still find it hard to try to like others who have 'those' attitudes. I am nice and I know that. But I hate those who think they are...

22 Oct 08

What Insect You Disliked Most?

mjmlagat @mjmlagat (3170) • Philippines 22 Oct 08

Do you dislike insects because i do, well not really all of them but quite a few. I hate mosquitoes and bees most. I don't really have phobias for them but I think they're disgusting and dangerous. The former, sucks...

insects

pests

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flance101 Yeah, I do hate a lot of insects. Aside from those two you mentioned, I also hate flies. They spread diseases. I hate spiders, specially the BIG BIG ones. They have those long legs that look so creepy... wah..

22 Oct 08

life is meaningless

isanybodylistening @isanybodylistening (2) • United States 20 Oct 08

At this point in my life i can tell thta right now to me it's pointless. i dont feel that i mean anything to any one not even to the one i so call love. im 18 and so far since i graduated from highschool my life has been a reck. i...

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flance101 Hi there. I understand how you feel. I am the eldest child, and I was seen to be the brainiest and nicest. In fact I was so nice I followed my father's choice for me in college. At first I was doing fine, but seeing him disappointed with an average of 84-85...

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being dumped

ChloeStrawberry @ChloeStrawberry (285) • Philippines 20 Oct 08

What are the signs that your girlfriend/boyfriend is about to dump you? What's the best thing to do? Confront them and ask directly? Or ignore and leave it at that and just move on?

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flance101 The signs? Im not familiar with the signs though. I had one boyfriend and I was the one who broke up with him, but he DUMPED me after. I wasnt after him though, he just did dumped me in a way. :D Sorry, I cant help with the signs.. But here's my advice. Ask...

20 Oct 08

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love relationships

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 20 Oct 08

What do you do when your best friend, lover, starts looking around for someone new?

loves

people

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flance101 okay, do you mean an exlover? If so, and you are still in love with the person, you have to let go. It will be so painful, I know, believe me I do know how bad it feels. Let go, move on, and be happy for him or her, wish him or her happiness. It will be hard,...

20 Oct 08

Whts your goal in life?

bhushanbodkhe @bhushanbodkhe (819) • India 20 Oct 08

do u have any goal?do u keep working for it to achieve it?do u really devoted towards ur goal?do u feel sometime tht ur goal is not achievable? Hello guys lots of question but your one answer will make other motivated to set...

aim

goal

life

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flance101 Hi! I have a lot of dreams, goals in life. :) My life may be too short for all of them, but it wouldnt hurt having a few more than one to give myself a few more reasons to smile. :) My goals define my life.. :) I am dedicated to my goals. I am that kind of...

20 Oct 08

How many best friends you have?

vimaal @vimaal (3361) • India 20 Oct 08

Hi friends, how are you.? How many best friends you have.? I have three best friends with me. I share all my feelings and happiness with him. And all are share his feeling to every one and solve all problems. what about you...

friend

love

miss

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flance101 best friends? ok, i have a lot of friends, and i actually thought before that they see me the same way they are to me. actually, it doesnt really matter that much. they became my friends, and i dont care if they see me as their friend. i will be here and there...

20 Oct 08

Does Love Related with Pain somehow?

mrcupid21 @mrcupid21 (200) • Philippines 20 Oct 08

sometimes, being in love can cause me too much pain in my life.. it can lead me to depression. but somehow i can consider love and pain is more on co-partners... cause every time you love, pain is near by. when there is pain im...

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flance101 yes, i can somehow relate my experience with you perception of love and pain. but here's the thing. when we fall in love, we need to prepare ourselves to get hurt along the way. let us face it, we get hurt. even though the reason is not caused by you or your...

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luck or hard work?which one you will choose?

bhushanbodkhe @bhushanbodkhe (819) • India 19 Oct 08

all keep saying i had abad thts why i couldn't do tht n blah blah blah...in my opinion luck is one side of success but hard work is main thing which gives us succes...wht do u think u will choose between these two?

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flance101 I go for hard work. :) Honestly speaking? Hmmm, it is because luck hasnt been on my side for the past 6 years now. Haha.. I agree with you, luck seems to be a factor to some people. However, it is with hard work that you can reach your goals. It is with...

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Do You Think Habit of Reading Books Has Got Reduced In Today's Youth ?

AKRao24 @AKRao24 (27422) • India 19 Oct 08

During our childhood Reding Books used to be a common hobby amogst the Students! School Library used to be the place where students used to pass the time in the leisure periods! Same thing used to be there when we were in...

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flance101 Hi! I think so. Well, I am a reader, and I do know some people of my age who loves to read, too. However, I admit that most of my age are not fond of reading. Most would rather go out and 'chill' as they say. Many are also so into watching, chatting, and video...

19 Oct 08

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Do u date your friend?help me out?

albino001 @albino001 (154) • India 17 Oct 08

i have a girl who n me are thick friends since my school days. we use to talk for long hours in night and often fight, play etc. together . she knows that i have an affair. here comes the problem i find her more attracted towards...

love

lust

relationship

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flance101 how do you feel about her? are you attracted to her, too? if not, better keep your friendship. be honest and tell her that you just want to be friends with her. it will hurt her yes, but you just cant keep her hoping for something. if you are attracted to...

17 Oct 08

do you ever just want to run away ?

ndaniel229 @ndaniel229 (419) • United States 17 Oct 08

Maybe i'm just a bit down today -- I feel like taking a long drive and not come back... and then reality hits and I remember I have responsiblities yadda yadda... Ever want to run away? Run away with me lol

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flance101 hmmm, yeah, i can relate with you. :) there have been a few times when i felt like running away and planned not to return for a long time. but just like you, i have responsibilities, most of all i dont want to leave those who still need me. im the kind of...

17 Oct 08

Are you an organ donor?

sudalunts @sudalunts (5523) • United States 17 Oct 08

When you pass away would you like for your organs to be donated for other's who are on organ transplant lists?

organ

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flance101 yeah, if possible i would want to be an organ donor. if i can be a way to help others it would make me feel so happy. the problem is that i have always been a sickly kid, and i am not quite sure if i have healthy organs. though i consider myself healthy, i...

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does love increases selfishness?

albino001 @albino001 (154) • India 17 Oct 08

i have been in love for 2 years but i have found that my selfishness has increased day by day and now reached a new horizon. i never wanna her to speak with others. i never want her to sight at other boys whereas i do . is this...

love

relationship

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flance101 ok, i'll be straight and honest with you. i do think this kind of selfishness isnt gonna do you any good in the near future. i understand that you want to keep her to yourself, but to not let her talk to other? i think that is a little too much. you dont want...

17 Oct 08