friendship4

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Does mistakes in life affect our success???

neha_jain @neha_jain (93) • India 2 Dec 09

If one is not able to achieve its dream..then one of the reason can be the mistakes done in past,even if the mistakes are not done deliberately..

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friendship4 They say to 'Err is human!' - in other words we are born to make mistakes because we are just that - human. We are being controlled a lot of the time by our emotions which sometimes leads us to take the the least helpful action. The important thing is to look...

22 Dec 09

Time to go back to old fashioned whippings?

fwidman @fwidman (11514) • United States 21 Dec 09

Every morning while drinking my coffee I listen to my police scanner. I am amazed at just how many calls the police must answer these days because a teenager is fighting with their family members. I blame it mostly on the...

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friendship4 I was brought up by a strong parent who would resort to physical beatings to get me to comply. However, I can honestly say that it made me more angry and determined to do the opposite of what they wanted. And all these many years later after bringing up my own...

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I'm a slave...a prisoner...

pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 22 Dec 09

I am some times happy with my current relationship and we've been together for more than 6 years. And, within that 6 years, I feel like I am a prisoner, not because I am not free to do what I want to do but because I allowed...

love

relationship

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friendship4 The first thing you do is stop apologising when it is not your fault. Instead of conceding to his emotional blackmail start 'standing up for yourself'. Do this by telling him calmly how he has made you feel, why you feel like you do and what you would like to...

22 Dec 09

Facebook.....Do you add people you don't know?

adamc151 @adamc151 (476) 22 Dec 09

Sometimes when im on facebook i notice that many people have loads and loads of friends. Like sometimes, into the thousands, and it made me think....does that person even know who most of their facebook friends are? And sometimes...

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friendship4 I am sure that lots of people see the number of Facebook friends as a status symbol for their popularity. I would question the size of their 'egos'! It's a bit immature to have loads of people you don't actually know because they ask to be your 'friend' and it...

22 Dec 09

Have You 'Gone Green'?

sahsports4883 @sahsports4883 (441) • United States 22 Dec 09

In the past year or so the slogan 'Go Green' has become quite popular in the United States, I'm not sure about other countries but I'd be surprised if it hasn't. I personally love the idea, I think it's great for the Earth and...

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friendship4 In England we are heavily into 'Going Green'. The buzz words are 'Reducing your carbon footprint' and everyone is obligated to do their bit. We recycle all our rubbish into garden, food, plastic, cardboard, paper, bottles, cans, old clothing, etc. This all...

22 Dec 09

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What can you buy to somebody who 'has everything'?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 22 Dec 09

I must go in visit to a good friend because is her birthday, but i am really confused, just because she have everything what she need; I don t know what i can buy for her as gift, just because she never apreciate a good book or...

questions and answers

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friendship4 How about a subscription to a quality publication or magazine - she must have a particular interest such as antiques, jewelery, houses or cooking?? Another idea is (if she has a garden) what about a small tree which she can watch grow. An apple tree is...

22 Dec 09

Will you drown your sorrows by drinking alcohol?

pengyachu @pengyachu (296) • China 21 Dec 09

It is inevitable to meet the trouble in life,and there should be a way to convey it.Otherwise,it will do harm to body and mind.You can choose either taking a walk or talking with a friend.However,drowning the sorrows with wine...

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friendship4 I don't think I will be drowning my sorrows by drinking alcohol. That doesn't mean I don't drink at all, just that your problems are still there haunting you in the cold light of sobriety the next morning. The effects of alcohol take their toll on the...

22 Dec 09

I really don't care!

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 2 Oct 09

Wednesday night my brother called to say our dad was in the hospital! It had to do with fluid around the lungs. The doctor said he would be in the hospital for a few days. My brother left me the name of the hospital and the number...

father in hospital

need to pull the thorn out of my side

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friendship4 Your dad must have really caused you grief and pain for you to dislike him so much. However, he is still your dad and if you don't meet with him in his hour of need you may regret it for the rest of your life. Maybe now is the time to address with him how you...

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In the midst of life, we are in death...

tinsky @tinsky (163) • Philippines 2 Oct 09

Living and dying is part of our life cycle and we can't have one without the other. But the thought of dying or losing a loved one is terrifying.. when someone we love actually dies, it can be devastating...

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friendship4 I agree that living and dying are all part of the cycle of life. Birth, living and dying are the three things we are all going to experience and our loved ones too. I feel this a lot when I spend time with a small child and the reality of myself getting older...

2 Oct 09

Family vs. Boyfriend

kadosa @kadosa (16) • Philippines 28 Sep 09

My mother dont like my boyfriend because he is 12 years older and she thinks he's bad for me. We've been hiding our relationship for 5 years now. We were caught by my mom because someone told her about us and the sad thing was the...

relationships

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friendship4 It's difficult because you give no indication of your age. You must be an adult by now so it is up to you who you see but you need to get your Mum to take your relationship seriously if you want to keep your relationship with her. Mums do get a bit scared when...

28 Sep 09

What is the most important thing in a relationship?

EARLZHAN @EARLZHAN (934) • Philippines 28 Sep 09

What is the most important thing in a relationship? How do you maintain a good and harmonious relationship with your partner, with your family, with your firends and most of all wit GOD? All of us our own point of view. And for me...

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friendship4 I agree with you wholeheartedly that TRUST is the foundation stone of a relationship. Without trust then there can be no meaninful relationship because one or both sides will be hurting and insecure. With trust love can flourish openly. A close second is...

28 Sep 09

When will you add salt to your food, when cooking or after cooking?

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 27 Sep 09

Hi friends, This discussion is only for the persons who cook themselves not for the persons who go for multi-cuisine restaurant. How often do you cook yourselves.. my question is, when will you add salt to your food, when...

cooking

salt

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friendship4 Whoops! It's ROCK salt not sea salt. The other might have been a bit foul!!

28 Sep 09

When will you add salt to your food, when cooking or after cooking?

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 27 Sep 09

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friendship4 It's better to add salt during the cooking of your food as that way it blends into the food through the heat process to give added flavour. Adding it afterwards means the salt particles just sit on the top surface of your dish and you lose the full effect of...

28 Sep 09

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Do you really know your neighbor?

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 26 Sep 09

We all know time is changing so fast. These days people move faster, a lot busier than it was before. Not mention the internet really change the way we are living. Back when I was young ( hope that not long ago ), we really do...

community

neigborhood

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friendship4 When I lived in the city I did not know my neighbours very well but now I live out in the country I know most people at least by face recognition and to say 'Hello' to. I think the smaller the community the more likely you are to know your neighbours. However,...

27 Sep 09

How Many Types Of LOVE Are There?

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 26 Sep 09

A male friend of mine told me the other day that he believes there are two types of love, there is the type of love where you are "in love" with someone, meaning(according to him) that you fantasize about that person and could see...

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love

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friendship4 Well Singlemommy there are two types of love as I see it. Conditional love and Unconditional love. You could say that when you fall in love it is conditional because it has to meet your expectations and the other persons as well. If it doesn't then one party...

27 Sep 09

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Romantic disapearing after marriage?

karenkarenkk @karenkarenkk (1121) • China 26 Sep 09

My friend complain with me that her husband forgot her birthday this year. She said before marriage, her husband never forgot it and always send her gift. Now the romantic of her husband are seems disappeared. What do you think...

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marriage

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friendship4 I don't think romance disappears after marriage - it just has to be worked on by both parties in the relationship. If you wait for the average husband to come up with some great romantic gesture then you could be waiting a long time. I find you have to do a...

26 Sep 09

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Why Children are eating so much junk food

vingyan06 @vingyan06 (2486) • Malaysia 26 Sep 09

Junk food today is accessible. Too accessible. We can find it in every supermarket, corner store, video shop and cinema. It's impossible to get away from it. Children can even buy it in most schools. With such easy access to junk...

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friendship4 Yes, junk food is very accessible but also very popular and cleverly marketed. Most modern children have no idea where their food actually comes from in the first place other than from the supermarket shelf or the fast food shop down the road. Parents are...

26 Sep 09

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Can be internet a substitute for social real life?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 20 Sep 09

"For each minute spent on the Internet during the last 24 hours, there is a reduction of approximately one-third of a minute spent with family members,"profesor Erbring say; so....is good internet for us? And if is, how much...

internet

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friendship4 I think the internet can make us feel that we are part of a community. Social networking sites enable us to communicate with people we may not have ever interacted with in real life. It broadens our social network with the least imput or effort from us. It is...

20 Sep 09

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