gavinjayanand

@gavinjayanand (61)

Guam • Age 35

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If You don't buy your kids an EXPENSIVE Birthday Cake, they mean NOTHING to you

betsyraeduke @betsyraeduke (2670) • United States 29 Nov 09

This year, on Thanksgiving day, my oldest son, Gabe, turned 9 yrs. old. Yesterday, Saturday the 28th, my yougest son, Adrian, turned 8 yrs. old. Yes, they are 1 yr. and 2 days apart, but anyways...Because their birthdays are so...

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gavinjayanand First off, wonderful cakes. I don't think a store could ever make a kid happier. I agree that your friend was rude, but maybe she has a reason for being so? Maybe she suffers from insecurity, and feels elated when crticising others. In any case, if this...

30 Nov 09

What is easier to manage, a saltwater aquarium setup or a fresh water setup?

selina0625 @selina0625 (1379) • Philippines 3 Dec 06

I would like to put up an aquarium setup but I was thinking what kind of setup would I pick. Will it be a fresh water or salt water. For those who are into aquariums, what is easier to manage, a salt water or a fresh water...

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gavinjayanand I would suggest a freshwater aquarium. Read plenty of books about the subject, surf the internet, and get as much info as possible about fishkeeping, it really is the best way to get the most out of this hobby. Saltwater aquariums require near daily...

17 Feb 07

Aquarium Question - How Can I Get My Aquariums to Grow Green Algae?

clownfish @clownfish (3272) • United States 16 Feb 07

Hi! I know there are people here who have great knowledge about aquarium and fishkeeping. I need your help! My aquariums grow brown algae instead of green algae. I know there are very few, maybe only 1, algae eaters who can...

how to grow green algae

keeing fish

types of algae

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gavinjayanand Wow, this is a first, most people try to get rid of algae! Haha, I had a real problem CONTROLLING the amount of algae in my aquarium! Ahh, the irony of it all! OK, the main thing I noticed in my aquarium when it bloomed with green algae was the fact that...

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bare feet or slippers?

shelagh77 @shelagh77 (3643) 17 Feb 07

I have been fighting battles with my family ever since I was a child. I simply HATE having anything on my feet. I accept that I have to wear shoes outside the home but once at the doorstep, off they get kicked and there they stay...

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gavinjayanand Haha, the infernal battle! Here in Malaysia, as in most Asian countries, it would be extremely disrespectful to wear any shoes or footwear(slippers included) into a persons house, even if it is your own. This is because it would seems to suggest that that...

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Help

Asafbs @Asafbs (154) • Israel 17 Feb 07

My aquarium got fulled with little snails! I searched a bit and I found out that their name is "California Horn Snail". Did you ever had this problem, and do you know how to solve it? Thanks!

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gavinjayanand Hi there, I have had the same problem with those extremely irritating snails. The best thing to do would be to put a small dish with a piece of boiled spinach into the aquarium. Do this for about a week, at night, just before you switch the aquarium lights...

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Religous Believers, please help

Gigglygrrl @Gigglygrrl (362) • United States 5 Feb 07

First let me say I am an atheist. I am not "angry at God," "hate God," etc. I simply don't believe. I was around 11 when I thought of myself as an atheist for the first time. I grew up going to Christian churches, attending Young...

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gavinjayanand Wanna know a fact? Christianity is the only religion that requires it's followers to depend solely on faith. As if the fact that my personal Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ died on the cross for me is not enough, the prophesies about Jesus' birth, life and death...

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how did your parents choose your name

shelagh77 @shelagh77 (3643) 4 Feb 07

My Mother told me that she was at a fair and one of the gipsies had a daughter who was very attractive and lively and she was named Sheila, and that is why she chose the name. She didn't tell my Father and his family lol. It is...

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gavinjayanand Of the 4 kids my parents have, my name is the only one not taken from the Bible. My brothers (Jared, Aaron and Isaac) all have their names taken from the Bible, I'm the only odd one out. Upon questioning my mom, she said, when I was going to be born, my dad...

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What kind of fish do u like and prefer?

rein2410 @rein2410 (809) • Australia 16 Jan 07

I prefer gold fish, fantail would be great for me. How bout u guys?

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gavinjayanand I like angelfishes, neon tetras, ramirezzi's dwarf cichilds, and black neon tetras. Basically, these are fish from the amazon region of South America. These fish have beautiful colours, very interesting to look at, especially in a beautifully planted aquarium....

5 Feb 07

salt or fresh water

pudgles @pudgles (414) • United States 4 Feb 07

I want to start my fish tank up, but which is better? salt water or fresh water fish? I like the colorful fish like neons, but husband calls them sissy fish..What is the best kind of fish to get when I decide fresh water or...

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gavinjayanand Since you are a beginner to fishkeeping, PLEASE do not start off with a salt water tank. the cost of setting up one of these tanks itself is quite a burden to bear, and, since you are a beginner, and are probably unfamiliar with filtration, feeding and the...

5 Feb 07

Crazy man

sucess @sucess (49) • India 31 Jan 07

men always want to marry beautiful girls even if they are the worst looking guys while girls always look for boys with a good heart.Why such a contrast???????

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gavinjayanand I don't think SUCCESS is right in generalising men like that. I personally do not go for only beautiful looking, supermodel types. I have dated many plain janes, and they can come up with wonderful conversation! We can talk for hours and hpurs, and that is...

5 Feb 07

define love in one word?

alokmis @alokmis (224) • India 5 Feb 07

Hi i define belive

love

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gavinjayanand In one word.... No sweat JESUS

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How is your attachment with your father and mother?

earnlot @earnlot (99) • United Arab Emirates 1 Feb 07

I love my father and mother.As for me they are more a friend than like parents.They are so nice and i think iam one of the lickiest and blessed to get them as parents.

chldren

god

mother and father

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gavinjayanand I LOVE MY PARENTS!!! Haha, just had to uppercase that! My parents are the most selfless and thoughtful people I know! They have only instilled good in me and my 3 brothers, nothing else! My dream would be to make them proud, and I try my level best to achieve...

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makeup for male

datir1 @datir1 (503) • India 5 Feb 07

is makeup for male is eessential?

makeup

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gavinjayanand I only use 5 products to get ready in the morning... 1. Soap 2. Water 3. Powder 4. Deodorant 5. Cologne Ahhhh, it's good to be male!!! (This is not a sexist remark, just a remark stating how easy it is to get 'mad-up' in the morning for me!! :-)

5 Feb 07

is there only one god???

junior07 @junior07 (972) • India 28 Jan 07

what do u think abt God,is there only one God or there are many god for many religions????????????????

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gavinjayanand I believe that there is only one God, my personal Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, who died on the cross for my sins, because he loved me, and you, brother, so much.

5 Feb 07

Have you got a moody teenager in your house?

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 1 Feb 07

I do! This evening my daughter (14) asked me could she go to a teenage disco. I said I wanted to know where it was and who was running it. That was ok. She says to me "Can I go with my friend" and I say "No, I want to bring you"....

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gavinjayanand Let me get this straight... You actually let your daughter SHOUT at you, say 'I HATE YOU!' more than once, and are still questioning whether you are being too harsh?? Haha, my mum would have said no, and any talking back would have been greeted with a...

5 Feb 07