harlydudesn

@harlydudesn (16)

United States • Age 72

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Do you remember your appointments or do you set an alarm on your mobile?

mercuryman3a @mercuryman3a (2477) • India 13 Dec 08

I am very forgetful. I often forget an appointment.Once the management committee meeting of a school was scheduled at 4 PM. i organised every thing as the secretary and fixed up with the Chairman that we would start sharp at 4 PM....

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harlydudesn I always write my appointment on my wall calendar in the kitchen. I also have my husband doing the same thing. We all seem to check the calendar now and since we have been doing that we have not missed any appointments. I also carry a pocket size calendar with...

13 Dec 08

have you lost any one

pooh81007 @pooh81007 (16) • United States 9 Dec 08

have you lost anyone to cancer and who was it i just lost my mother and grandmother to cancer and it was soooo hard and still cant get over it

canecer

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harlydudesn Sorry for your loss. Yes I lost my father in law, my mother in law and my brother in law. It is very very hard. Then to add more stress my husband and myself both got cancer. Thank God we are both cancer free. I will keep you in my prayers tonight to help you...

9 Dec 08

Ferral Cats

DCMerkle @DCMerkle (1281) • United States 8 Dec 08

Has anyone ever taken in a feral cat? My hubby and I did once. We both knew what we were in for, but where we lived there was a woods near by and it had more cats in it than trees. At night when you came into the parking lot any...

into the woods

parking

sofa

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harlydudesn What a touching story. I love cats too. I have 4 living living with us that were all feral. Mr. Kitty was here when I moved in crying on the deck in the rain, so we took him in he is 23 years old. Baby Jet kept coming here to our house since he was born. Then...

8 Dec 08

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A Tradition (death in the neighborhood).

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 7 Dec 08

My neighbors son was killed in a car accident. It is a tradition here to help the family out by taking things that are useful during this time of grief. Things like food for the family and friends that are visiting the relative....

lend a helping hand

towels

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harlydudesn I feel so very sorry for the mother that lost her son in such a tragic way, especially around the holidays. I know how she feels alittle I just lost my father about 6 months ago. Yes our neighbors have a tradition. They always bring over a large basket of...

7 Dec 08

What are some natural remedies for anxiety that you have been successful with?

heyurock @heyurock (85) • United States 4 Dec 08

I have recently been having stress induced seizures and panic attacks and take a seizure med, but how do I get past the anxiety? Is there something I can do at home?

anxiety

home remedy

remedies

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harlydudesn Sorry to hear about your panic attacks, I too have them. Here a few ideas that I use. Calming herbs such as valerian, chamomile, skullcap, hops and passionflower. Also there is a product called Anxiety Control by Metabolic maintenance that also seems to help....

7 Dec 08

Why is it not good to propose in Christmas time?

katrhina23 @katrhina23 (1282) • United States 6 Dec 08

I heard this yesterday from the radio. They said, December is the time where a lot of guys propose marriage to their gf. But they said, it is not a good idea. Here are some of the reasons given that I could remember: 1. If...

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harlydudesn Hi, On the first reason it sounds like a immature person gave that answer. So what if you have to still buy her a gift you cheapskate. On reason #2, that answwer sounds like it came from a 10 year old kid. On reason #3, your divorce is most likely not going...

6 Dec 08

The sure fire way to get a bum a job.....

LuvBr0wn13s @LuvBr0wn13s (765) • United States 5 Dec 08

My 3 stepsons are interesting to say the least. One in articular is giving me pause. He has been fired from every job he has had (all in the fast food/food service industry) and seems to think that in each case it was someone...

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harlydudesn Hi, It sounds like he could have a low thyroid function. My nephew who moved in with us about 9 months had the same problem. He was 18 years old. We took him to our doctor to have it checked out. Sure enough he had a low thyroid, low adrenal function and low...

5 Dec 08

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Is Marriage Really Important, or it is just a piece of paper?

chupangina @chupangina (90) • Philippines 4 Dec 08

I've been through several relationships and none of them have lasted, on the average about two years of being steady. Until now I am still single at 40 years old. But you what? I think I am blessed because I realized that it was a...

is marriage really important

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harlydudesn Hello, Sorry for the unsuccessful relationships although I am sure you had some very good times. Those are good thoughts that you are blessed not to have entered a bad marriage, but who knows if all would have been failed marriages. Many times couples get...

5 Dec 08

did you have a traditional marriage or did you just go to the court house?

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 3 Dec 08

so amny people dont believe intraditional marriages now. i mena people would rather spend less money and just go to the court house. i would love to have a big fancy traditional wedding but in my case the only person that is...

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harlydudesn My husband and I had a very unusual wedding. We were married in a Kiehi Mauii Hawaii in a church. We decided to take 30 people with us. It was our families and a few very close friends. We rented condo for everyone, cars, etc. The only thing they paid for was...

4 Dec 08

Sound relation between Cancer survivors and caregivers makes a huge difference..

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 4 Dec 08

Cancer is a social disease and I remember writing long essays as a child as a part of our curriculum. But, I only got to the feel of it recently when my uncle was diagnosed with lung cancer. I have great regards for this person...

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harlydudesn Yes I agree with you. I am a cancer survivor myself and so is my husband. Since we both have had this horrible disease I have learned much. It is not easy for family and friends to deal with the fact that you have cancer. I had a very close friend for 15...

4 Dec 08

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How far along are you in your gift buying for Christmas right now?

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 3 Dec 08

I just finished up my gift shopping! Yippee!!! This is the earliest I've ever finished it up. I've got the wrapping paper out now and will be wrapping the gifts today to get that out of the way. Normally, I'd be finishing up...

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harlydudesn I;m usually done with my shopping by now, but this year I just am not in the mood, as my father passed away about 6 months ago. I have alot of people to buy for, the count right now for purchasing gifts is 2. I'm looking more and more on the internet and...

3 Dec 08