hbsztsyx

@hbsztsyx (85)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Do you find it easy to start discussions or reply to them on myLot?

X18PRS @X18PRS (114) • Canada 16 Aug 10

I usually find it more difficult to start discussions. I mean, I know that you can pretty much start a discussion on almost any subject and have at least 1 response, but it is hard to start something popular. I find it much easier...

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hbsztsyx Yes,posting a discussion is tracing our thoughts and feeling.It is not valued to post by breaking the brain to think a topic.Happy days for you,my friend.

2 Sep 10

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Do you believe that life is a dream?

narayan sahoo @narayan2006 (2954) • India 30 Aug 10

There is a small section of people who believe that life is a dream. The phenomena and objects one experiences during the state of dreaming appear real and true for the period he/she remains in the dreaming state only.As soon as...

life

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hbsztsyx Maybe it is,acturally,if life is a infine long dream,the death can be seen as waking up. :) The most important thing is, if the life is a dream, we should dream better. If it is not, we also should persuit happiness. So, real or not real is not the most...

30 Aug 10

Are you a critical thinker?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 24 Aug 10

Do you question everything? Do you answer with your own answers, or do you answer because that is how things flow? When you answer mylot questions, do you think about the question and answer with your own opinion or do you say...

critical thinking

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hbsztsyx I think I am,so do you,judged from your series of questions. I have majored in Physics in my University,this subject affected my way of thinking.I enjoy it. Happy for you.

24 Aug 10

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how do you deal with jealous people?????

abj163 @abj163 (1036) • India 22 Aug 10

hello mylotters..... i am sure that all of you know atleast one person who is jealous at you.... i also know some people like that..... so how do you deal with them??? what do you do ??? i mean do you avoid them or reply them...

jealous one person people deal

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hbsztsyx I would keep far away from them.Most time,we make a person jealous because we are too close to challenge his position.Just go away from him,and keep a light relationship with him. If you can't avoid dealing with him due to some reasons, you'd better to make...

22 Aug 10

study for fun

miracle49 @miracle49 (36) • India 22 Aug 10

i have always believed that education should come from within and cannot be forced to to learn like the old saying" you may take a horse to the river but you cannot make it to drink" ..... yet it is becoming difficult nowadays as...

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hbsztsyx hi,friend,maybe you are right.Actually,we have never tried to educate the student to be what he wants to be.I think this won't happen when polulation is big. Imagining you are a teacher,how would you teache them, actually, you can only care most of them,...

22 Aug 10

Suicide.. IS IT REALLY A SOLUTION?

Absinto @Absinto (2385) • Portugal 21 Aug 10

For a while many people have been taking their own life for various reasons. Some people just feel lonely and dont want to feel that anymore so they just kill themselves to fade away the pain, other think that by doing this they...

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hbsztsyx Sometimes I thought life was boring and painful. But I think that could not be a reason to kill myself. If I have no dignity anymore, maybe I will end my life.Acutually, I don't really undertand what I am living for.So,Maybe someday,I can't get any answers any...

22 Aug 10

What is the best response to 'How are you?"

soulsshine @soulsshine (488) • Bangladesh 21 Aug 10

What is the best thing to say when someone asks how are you? I usually say 'fine' but is that rude or too formal? Please don't be overly fancy or something by telling me 'kissing on hand and bow'. Or 'give a worm...

answer

question

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hbsztsyx It depends. Most time I will say"Not bad,how are you?" Sometimes I will say"Some busy.How about you?" Even sometimes I will say"I am dying of XXX,can you give a help?"

22 Aug 10

How can you differentiate a good friend from a bestfriend?

sharie16 @sharie16 (2212) • Philippines 21 Aug 10

Do you have any categories with your friends, I mean they were your good friends but they were not your best friends? Me, I do...I do have good friends but I know they were not my best friends. I mean those good friends are those...

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hbsztsyx Just ask something occasionally from your good friends and feedback the same mount.If they always help you without asking why.They will will be your best friend.Good Luck!

22 Aug 10

Effects of Positive Thinking

Aditya Kulkarni @adit4money (183) • Pune, India 22 Aug 10

Hello Friends, I want to share some of my experience in my daily life since past few days... My week started with a bad result, then one of my friends told me to keep a positive attitude towards everything... After that day, I am...

positive attitude

positive thinking

think positive

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hbsztsyx Yes,positive thinking gives a person motivation.Absolutely,everything has two sides,bad one and good one.We should not take the extreme.If we think too much negtive,we live in dark.If we think only positive,we would make mistake too.Just like there is rainy...

22 Aug 10

Why do women always look after the kids?

tessvalencia @tessvalencia (23) • Philippines 22 Aug 10

We went to a birthday party this afternoon and the celebrant was a Chinese. They all have their yayas excluding me. Sunday is a day off for my yayas, so I end up being a babysitter to my kids. I was hoping that since it is a...

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hbsztsyx Because you are more thoughtful and considerable than your husband,you can take better care of your children.After all,women and men have some inborn differences. When the children grow up,they will depend on farther more.So,the world is fair. However,you can...

22 Aug 10

were you detrmined to what you want to become from young age

sarath49 @sarath49 (761) • India 21 Aug 10

i was not aware of what was to be done, what shall i have to do, i don't even know what will i do in future. were you aware of what you wanted to do when were grown old, or you just taking it for granted and let life take it own...

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hbsztsyx Yes,life needs certainty also uncertainty.I want to be a freeman without responsiblity so that i can do everything i like.But it is a dream after all.We should have a plan to make sure our family won't starve tomorrow.

21 Aug 10

Question instead of answer.Is it polite?

silvercoin @silvercoin (2101) • Lithuania 21 Aug 10

When i ask someone directly and he/she doesn't want to answer my question, I usually get another question instead of answer.I ask for example:why do you criticize your husband so much?She answers:Why do you defend him so hard?This...

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hbsztsyx Hi friend.Maybe you should change the way of asking.When you ask "why do you criticize your husband so much?",she may think in heart"it is none of your business".She doesn't want to give an explanation to you.So she just give you a quetion back to stop the...

21 Aug 10

Why don't you want to earn online?

Just an Ordinary Owl? @owlwings (43900) • Cambridge, England 21 Aug 10

We are frequently asked why we want to earn online and the answers are pretty predictable but what did you think about online earning BEFORE you started? I have often spoken to friends about how one can earn money online but...

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hbsztsyx Obviously.Earning online is so slow that I often lose my patience. I never dream to earn some money online.I write in mylot because I want to improve my english as I am chinese. Good Luck for you!

21 Aug 10

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I am not going to give advice anymore

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 20 Aug 10

There are friends that seem to want or need advice sometimes,so in the past i have given it to try to help,but as i have found out they do not listen.The way i see it,is that when you tell them something for their own good aswell...

advice

family

soft touch no more

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hbsztsyx Hi,friend. You should take action by context. If you give advice to someone who always doesn't accept, you needn't to give to him/her any more. However,we have real friends,we should give advices,and they will consider our advice if they are real friends of...

21 Aug 10

Can we trust a friend?

figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 20 Aug 10

How often do we get disappointed with friends and colleagues? We thought we know the friend well enough when suddenly ... Oooopppsss! The friend does something that takes us by surprise big time and in a negative way! We don't...

behind the mask

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hbsztsyx Abosolutely it depends! You really good friends will nerver meant to hurt you but help you, Luckily, I got some this kind of friend. I think so do you! An ordinary friends is hard to tell whether they are truthfully for you. Just be cautious and try to make...

20 Aug 10

Keep Me Motivated!

X18PRS @X18PRS (114) • Canada 20 Aug 10

So basically my goal of trying to earn money online is to get my life started and pay for a house. I have enough money to put down, but probably wouldn't be able to keep up with all the monthly expenses. This is obviously...

help

making money online

motivation

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hbsztsyx Good Luck for you! Why not use your brain to earn much online? Here I will give you a suggestion! To be an english learning parter of an english learner online. For example,if you would like to talk with me on line,you will get paid online! By the way, I...

20 Aug 10

What do you want to be when you grow up?

ip5217 @ip5217 (1655) • Philippines 20 Aug 10

When I was a child, up until the 5th grade, I always wanted to become a teacher. Suddenly it changed when I was about to enter college. Well, in college I didn't really regret my course, in fact I enjoyed it. Then, I worked...

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hbsztsyx Most people have dreams! But they are dreams after all, not realities! We have to survive, to be admitted by others. That is the mission for humans. We should have dreams. They give us motivation to survive. However,we shouldn't stand still while the world...

20 Aug 10

fame and fortune.......................... or!!!!!!!

saphrina @saphrina (31551) • South Africa 19 Aug 10

Okay, sweeties here we go again. Money, fame, fortune and all that other boring stuff which people think can make them happy is NOT THE THING TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. Got that? Good, let's move on here then. Would you give up that...

poor and happy

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hbsztsyx Hi friend,I'd like to say you are in Utopia. If you really saw the life of the poorest people in the world, I swear you are absosultely not going to live in such kind of life. No food, No water,Much less medical security. What you are going to do priorly is...

19 Aug 10

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