heartmomjules

@heartmomjules (17)

United States • Age 57

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I never thought I would be in such a moral delema within myself...

Jannabis @Jannabis (29) • United States 24 Feb 07

A friend has asked me to take her to planned parenthood to terminate her pregnancy. I always felt that this was a choice of the mother,but now I am not so sure,as I am being directly confronted with my beliefs. She met a man and...

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heartmomjules I wouldn't do it. Sure, she would find another ride and that's fine, it's her choice to make, but I, personally, would not be involved in helping her destroy a baby she actively sought to create. And to go a step further, based on how you describe her to be, I...

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Would You Consider ADOPTION?

kokopelli @kokopelli (4842) • United States 24 Oct 06

If you can't have a child of your own, would you adopt?

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heartmomjules Yes, absolutely. In fact, we did, twice! And we're considering adopting a third!

27 Feb 07

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Should I adopt her?

ComputerK1ng @ComputerK1ng (79) • United States 14 Jan 07

My sister is 18 and had a kid at 16. She still is very immature and even with having a child she refuses to grow up. Now she has decided to go to the army. She told my mom that mom would either have to adopt the baby or she was...

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heartmomjules I would definitely consider it, but only by going through all the legal channels. A 2 year old is very attached to the people they love and if you have the ability to care for her and give her all she needs, then yes, do it.

27 Feb 07

adoption, would you consider it eventhough you were single?

simplycza @simplycza (1480) • Philippines 27 Feb 07

let me know your response please...

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heartmomjules Yes, I would absolutely consider adoption if I were single and had the time and resources to provide for a child. I have two kids, both adopted, so I know how wonderful adoption can be. In terms of being approved, most agencies will absolutely approve a single...

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What is going on with kids these days???!!!

chaygylmommy @chaygylmommy (2469) • United States 26 Feb 07

I am sitting down to dinner with my son (5) and my daughter (almost 3)...we are sitting at the table and I decided to turn on a Harry Potter movie for us to watch while eating. Anyhow, out of the blue, my son says "mommy, elijah...

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heartmomjules That's very frightening, but I think it speaks to what kids are seeing at home. Lots of parents let their kids watch tv/movies that are too mature for them and have themes that they are too young to understand. Many children are exposed to the news and...

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i am a bad mother

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 26 Feb 07

ok to those of you with small kids or just to those with an opinion. i have 3 small kids and i use a childs harness with leash to keep my kids where i can see and reach them. when i had my first and he started walking he hated the...

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heartmomjules I've never used one. I have a daughter who is 6 and we spent a lot of time chasing her around when she was younger. My son is 18 months old and is really comfortable in the stroller and easy going when he's out of it, so we've never had a reason to use one. If...

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Do you ever feel like your child is a walking advertisement?

mememama @mememama (3076) • United States 25 Feb 07

It just hit me today that my son has baby einstein logos on his toothbrush, Elmo on his shoes, Diego on his jacket, spiderman on his pajamas, and Mickey Mouse on his t-shirt. He's only 18 months! Why does most everything have some...

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heartmomjules This is a funny qiestion to me because I try very hard not to have my kids wearing all kinds of logo things. My mother in law, however, is constantly sending stuff with all kinds of logos to my kids. Barbie, Dora, Bratz for my daughter and Thomas, Elmo, Bob...

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It is hard to be a single parent..

cherriemae @cherriemae (3370) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

It's so hard for me, being a single parent. Like i dont have the partner to talk to about my baby..My boyfriend left me, when i'm still 3mos. pregnant. It's painful and it's so hard to have adjustments being a single parent..But...

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heartmomjules This must be a very difficult time for you. I wish you all the best.

26 Feb 07