heffinchester

@heffinchester (5)

United States • Age 61

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Why are two siblings so different?

missytia @missytia (387) • Australia 9 Jan 07

I really hope someone can give me some sort of insight to this. Here's the situation. My parents only had two children. Myself and my younger brother who is 2.5yrs younger. We were both raised exactly the same with the same...

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heffinchester The fact that you were raised exactly the same may be at the center of your brother's difficulties. Every child is different, just as every person is different. We need to be acknowledged and validated for who we are. The fact that you refer to your brother as...

10 Jan 07

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who beleives in going to church?

franken_ind @franken_ind (141) • Ukraine 9 Jan 07

My girlfriend disagrees in attending church services,saying she does not want to be corrected by people who sin and claim to be innocent.. I go to church everysunday and she discourages me not to. I am confused. what do you...

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heffinchester I don't think anyone that goes to church claims to be innocent. We go because we are acknowledge we are flawed and seek the guidance and strength to stay on the path. We all know that life is not always easy. If your church and your faith give you what you...

9 Jan 07

Am i wasting my time on hope

squishedwonders @squishedwonders (26) • United States 8 Jan 07

I was in a realtionship for almost two years.. I absolutly loved this guy, he was my one and only, and i will always believe that no matter what he has done. But recenly he told me that he cheated on me and he wanted a break...

what went wrong

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heffinchester First of all, never cease to hope. The question at hand is: What are you hoping for? Is it this man in particular, or is it a secure, loving relationship based on trust and mutual respect. I suspect it is the latter. Now I am all for forgiveness, People make...

9 Jan 07

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printing

yogitha_g @yogitha_g (2) • India 1 Jan 07

pre press workflow

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heffinchester Prepress workflow is an extemely broad topic. Can you be more specific in your area interest? Some suggested subtopics are, File preparation, computer to plate technology, rip technologies, single page workflows, trapping, PDF workflows, imposition...

9 Jan 07

Science Fiction Book Review – Rex Gordon – No Man Friday

Arthur Chappell @arthurchappell (44986) • Preston, England 23 Mar 17

1956 – Gollancz Press – spoiler alerts Having loved Andy Weir’s novel The Martian, about an astronaut marooned on Mars, I dug out a copy of this much older treatment of the same idea, though as its title suggests, Gordon’s novel...

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heffinchester 1956 – Gollancz Press – spoiler alerts Having loved Andy Weir’s novel The Martian, about an astronaut marooned on Mars, I dug out a copy of this much older treatment of the same idea, though as its title suggests, Gordon’s novel owes much more to Robinson...

23 Mar 17

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