hottiebartender

@hottiebartender (14)

Jamaica • Age 42

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Girls, can you accept that your boyfriend younger than you?

iamfine @iamfine (740) • China 16 Sep 09

hello mylotters, When I was young, I always think that 2 people in love, the man should be older than the woman, my father is older than my mother, my grandpa is older than my grandma, my uncle is older than my aunt.... every...

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hottiebartender My wonderful boyfriend is one year younger than me, but he does not look it. He is six foot three, very handsome and very mature. He is the man of my dreams, so it matters not to me. Your boyfriend is just months younger than you, that is not a big deal. I...

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Not having a baby, does it bother you?

pormadi @pormadi (1300) • Indonesia 17 Sep 09

According to my culture, not having a baby after gettint married is something not acceptable. Adopting a child is not normal choice for my culture. I have married more than 2 years ago, but I do not have a baby. It bothers...

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hottiebartender I use to be just like you. It seems like I just could not get pregnant. But I remember reading a book and the lady said that if you want soemthing you have to envision it and plan for it. She bought baby clothes, saw herself pregnant and put pictures around...

21 Sep 09

Are you married? Would you still want to be married?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

If given a chance to go back in time and change, would you like to still be married? or would you rather live your life as a single person? Would you want to still marry the person you are married-to now? I came about this...

marriage

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hottiebartender I am not married, but I remember my married aunt telling me to enjoy my single life. I guess she wants me to know that I should not rush it. But the truth is marriage is no fairy tale; it is hard work, compromise and sacrifice. Marriage is not for children....

21 Sep 09

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Do you think love can be learned?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

I think so, because my mom and dad's marriage was arranged both of my grandparents. My mom told us that she had a boyfriend before my dad came and asked for her hands. She's deeply in love with her boyfriend, but since she's very...

learned

love

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hottiebartender Yes it can be learned, because in the past men and women would marry quickly because those times were stricter. So therefore they did not really know each other or were madly in love.In those days commitment was the most important thing, then came respect and...

21 Sep 09

is different religion a hindrance in a good relationship (MARRIAGE)?

amyson @amyson (3498) • Philippines 19 Sep 09

i have thought about this,because my bestfriend is already engage in a guy with not the same of his religion.i just figure out how they will handle this if they already have their own child.do you argue with your husband or you...

religion

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hottiebartender My boyfriend is seven day adventist and I am sunday church, but we get along really well. This is because we have so many other things in common; we are both sentimental, old fashion and peaceful. So being of the same faith alone will not let things go well....

21 Sep 09

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How long do you keep your secret?

SweetArt2009 @SweetArt2009 (42) • United States 10 Sep 09

I am in the situation hoping to find someone right for me. There have been time I have told my secret to men in my life and they would be scare and then avoid me and not want anything with me at all. Then give me the look as if I...

relationship

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hottiebartender Dear SweetArt, there are different stages of dating. Which means there is a time for everything. You cannot tell your secrets on the first date, second or etc. There is the intimacy stage of a relationship, this is when both of you feel comfortable being...

15 Sep 09

Punish Me Please

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 12 Sep 09

OK. I'm the kind of guy that tries quite hard to support and bolster the confidence of the women in my life. But today......... The Boss had her hair cut and I, on seeing it uttered those inexcusable words "I thought that you were...

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hottiebartender If you guys already made up, why are you still punishing yourself.I guess you are just a real sensitive sweetheart to care so much about other's feelings. If you really do want to make amends compliment her on how all her hairstyles she wears does beautifully...

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Big problem with my Girlfriend please help me?

ravirai8616561 @ravirai8616561 (824) • India 13 Sep 09

Me and my girlfriend use midnight 2O clock to talk togather because of family members of Girlfriend. Yesterday when i called to my girlfriend then her mobile is Busy. her mobile is busy upto 1 hr. I send her 5 Messages to call...

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hottiebartender I believe you are way too sensitive. Something could have been wrong with her phone sweetie.You could have also scared her off by the way you were acting.The best thing to do is wait for her to come around, give her some space. Then when she comes around sit...

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Taking care

hottiebartender @hottiebartender (14) • Jamaica 1 Mar 08

It is so amazing how many people in this world live their lives to care for others so much that they neglect themselves. I use to be like this, reason being i was scared of being seen as selfish.I would think of the other person...

care for you

high maintenance(the truth)

hottiebartender @hottiebartender (14) • Jamaica 29 Feb 08

people let me explain it out for you.i am an indepenent woman who is going after my goal of becoming an hotel manager.most of the things that i have i buy them. i have been working from i left high school.what i am saying is that...

worth it

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high maintenance

hottiebartender @hottiebartender (14) • Jamaica 28 Feb 08

you know men have a tendency to say women who have high expectations and expensive taste are high maintenance.but i believe that is not true. the truth is most of those women, which i am one of them, are well aware of their worth...

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I cant make you love me

thomaslilley @thomaslilley (13) 18 Feb 08

Theres this amazing girl i like, we are so close, yet, she is extremly frustrating, in the sence that one day i feel we are together, and the next im just her best friend. I can honestly imagine spending the rest of my life...

love

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hottiebartender First and foremost this girl sees you as her friend, and if you continue to be mr shy guy she will continue to. You need to start being more direct, because she just might like you too. Start asking her out on dates, and please let it be in the nights.If you...

18 Feb 08

Through the fire.

hottiebartender @hottiebartender (14) • Jamaica 18 Feb 08

I had the most amazing valentine weekend with my boyfriend.The truth is before things were not so good between us. Then I decided to move to another location so I can follow my dream of becoming an hotel manager. It seems like the...

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