ianavan75

@ianavan75 (39)

Philippines • Age 50

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how to be a good mother?

virgolady @virgolady (8) • Philippines 28 Apr 08

i have a 4 month old son. how can i become a good mother of my child?is there some sort of rules and regulation in raising a child. Mothers ot there can you give me advice?

a good mother

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ianavan75 Of course there is no rules and regulations on how to be a good mother to your child.. Loving them is always enough to raise them very well.... Good Luck and God bless!

28 Apr 08

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love triangle...

happyfeet25 @happyfeet25 (40) 28 Apr 08

which is much better..being with someone you love or being with someone who loves you?...

love triangle

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ianavan75 For me it would be better if you are with someone that you love.. Because why would you waste your time being with someone that you don't love at all? I'm sure if you will take care of her/him, and love her/him with all your heart, I know in time he/she will...

28 Apr 08

Does She Fancies Me?

zed_k4 @zed_k4 (17589) • Singapore 14 Apr 08

Hi All friends, I have this lady at work who works in the same company as me. For all who knows me, do know that I work as an Engineer on graveyard shifts of 24/7, and I can't really be bothered to eat sometimes. And this kind...

bringing packed lunches

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ianavan75 Well If you will ask me I would probably say that she have a big "crush" on you... or probably let say she likes you to much, because as far as I'm concern a woman wouldn't bother to packed lunch for a guy everyday just for nothing isn't?....In the other way...

28 Apr 08

Is it ethical? What would you do?

CanadaGal @CanadaGal (4304) • Canada 27 Apr 08

Here's the situation: You find out that your credit card limit has increased by $2000 because of a good payment history. You know that you are drowning in old debt and will be filing for bankruptcy, but haven't yet signed any...

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ianavan75 Hi! Probably I wouldn't max out my credit card knowing that I cannot pay for it.. I don't feel like buying the things I want without working for it.. Isn't cool that when you buy the things that you want, you know that you worked hard for it...?

28 Apr 08

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Love is Blind

bonansa2008 @bonansa2008 (219) • Indonesia 27 Apr 08

Along the way, we are taught that "Love is Blind". Do you believe? We all believe it. Love is not belong only to young man/girl. Love is not belong only to single man/girl. Love also belong to married man/woman. That is why we are...

love

single man

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ianavan75 Well love is blind because when your in love you can't see the mistake of your partner, because your in love with her/him you will accept her/him shortcomings... But in the other way around I don't think it is fair for us woman when your husband is having an...

28 Apr 08

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love

triptadasgupta @triptadasgupta (900) • India 28 Apr 08

well friends...can you tell me what feeling does one have when he is completely in Love.Is it nice to be in love.

love

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ianavan75 Yes, definitely It is really nice to be in love.. coz if you are in love, the things around you is just so easy... If you are in love you can do everything or anything that you want because you have an inspiration.. But I also admit it that love hurts.. "It...

28 Apr 08

Do you give your child everything they ask for?

trusko @trusko (198) 23 Apr 08

These days a lot of parents complain about a pressure from media to buy their children expensive things and compete with other parents. I was raised in a way, that I never even dreamt of asking for expensive things. Either I...

expensive presents

media pressure

presents

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ianavan75 As long as I can give it to my children I do, because a parent would do anything for their children no matter what.....

28 Apr 08

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Do you think it's possible to find real love online?

AnakSuNamun @AnakSuNamun (2084) • United States 27 Apr 08

I'd count out all the dating websites(even though sometimes they seem to work). What I mean is if,for example,you met a person on a social networking site like MySpace and you two became so called friends with no dating in mind....

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ianavan75 Hello.. Well for your information I met my husband not online but its kinda related to that.. If you know the two way radio? Its like.. speaking to people that really don't know, that's where I met my husband, even though we are not seeing before we met, were...

27 Apr 08

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Having a baby for better relationship?

kikaykhey @kikaykhey (14) • Philippines 27 Apr 08

For your opinion, is having a baby gives strong bond, love, and respect to each other for a couple/relationship?

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ianavan75 Yes, definitely! having a child gives a strong bond, love and respect to a couple... But unfortunately, if your relationship is already on the rock before having a baby I don't think it will work baby will just suffer.. but if your relationship are still in...

27 Apr 08

I lost my baby...

ruthinian @ruthinian (2309) • United States 25 Apr 08

Last month, I was so happy and excited when I found out that I am having a baby. I am 43 years old and married late. This is supposedly my first

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ianavan75 I feel sad to hear that.. I know I've never experience to lost a baby, But I know how sad and disappointed you are, and to think its your first baby, but as you said there's always a reason for that, I know God will have a good reason for that... and I know it...

27 Apr 08

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Do you wash your hair everyday?

WLDRMN4 @WLDRMN4 (27) • United States 21 Feb 08

I myself do because my hair gets oily by the next day. However, i have heard that doing that can make your hair dry and brittle?? Is that true?

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ianavan75 Well, I washed my hair everyday, but not I'm not using shampoo everyday, just every other day, to prevent my hair from drying, Well I think it is also depend on the shampoo you are using, try and try other shampoo until you get the right one for you!

26 Apr 08

how to avoid head lice?

asawanialvin0611 @asawanialvin0611 (1877) • Philippines 23 Apr 08

I remember that when I was akid , my mother would always inspect my head for lice and then she would pick them one by one.How would we avoid having it?They say sun exposure would make us have them .

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ianavan75 No, sun exposure would not make you have a head lice, well yes, the best thing to do is to pick them one by one, or use a medicine shampoo, and to avoid having it, don't share personal belongings such as towel, hats, pillows and hairbrush to others...

26 Apr 08

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What causes ADHD

tcolwell @tcolwell (138) 25 Apr 08

I'm just curious about everyone's opinion on this one. Some people think it's a made up disorder and I TOTALLY DISAGREE with that. Is it diet? Is it environmental? I know it's hereditary because both my husband and son have it...

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ianavan75 Well no one really knows what causes ADHD even the doctors, but it is generally agreed that it is biological in nature, and a chemical imbalance in the brain. It is also agreed that a mother who smoked tobacco products or used alcohol during their pregnancy...

26 Apr 08

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What is the best time for a baby to sleep at night?

jonaida @jonaida (574) • Philippines 4 Jul 07

Mine is around 8-9pm and that's until 6am, though sometimes she wakes up in the middle of the night...

baby sleep

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ianavan75 Well for me is around 7-8pm, you just lay her/him to bed and turn off the light and make a quiet moment, baby will fall asleep easier.

25 Apr 08

3 Month Old baby wakes every 2 hours

nikkidv22 @nikkidv22 (69) • South Africa 25 Apr 08

Hey My 3 month old baby wakes every 2 hours at night? Is this normal? She doesn't sleep alot during the day

baby sleep

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ianavan75 hello! Well I think as long as you see that he/she is ok well I say its normal... Baby changes mood every month..

25 Apr 08