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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

I am a sensitive and emotional person, so I am easily affected by others, which makes me feel happy one moment and upset the next. I used to be ok with this, but now I find this very annoyinng both to myself and my friends. I just...

advice

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ianmeteor Is it about confidence and balance? I get it.. Thank you very much!

1 Jun 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

I am a sensitive and emotional person, so I am easily affected by others, which makes me feel happy one moment and upset the next. I used to be ok with this, but now I find this very annoyinng both to myself and my friends. I just...

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ianmeteor Hi med889, thank you for your advice. Actually I have tried but I think all I can do is try harder:)

1 Jun 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

I am a talktive girl*_*, but sometimes I wish I was not. My friend asks me to talk less because that can make me seem mysterious and guys like the girls to be quite and soft, which makes the them want to be protective.But when I...

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

I know most people have two sides or more. But I am very disturbed by my double sides. One side of me is tolerant and generous with my friends, but other side of me is mean and strict with strangers. But I want be consistent with...

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

When it comes to my favorite food, I have no control over myself. I will eat a lot of them until I am sick of it.These days I am crazy about icecream, and I have it everyday,until today I feel I don't want it any more. So do you...

control

favorite

icecream

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

I am a sensitive and emotional person, so I am easily affected by others, which makes me feel happy one moment and upset the next. I used to be ok with this, but now I find this very annoyinng both to myself and my friends. I just...

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

What will you do if you are in a bad mood? Will you talk about it with your friends? Will you write it down? Will you try to do something distract your attention? Or will you just be mad until time change it? I'd like to hear your...

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Hi all! Are you more active or passive in your friends? Are you the one who takes initiative to call a friend who has not contacted you for long? Are you the one who breaks the ice after you have quarrel with others? Or are you...

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

I have this bestfriend who is never on time. She is in the habbit of ten-minute late. And she isn't sorry for this and thinks everytime I should be prepared for her late. At first, I was so irritated and thought she should at...

accept

bestfriend

habbit

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

People are born different. In order to sustain harmony, sometimes we need to compromise ourselves for someone we love and care. Such you might give up on smoking because of your wife's pregnancy, you might stop going to parties...

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Some of my friends suggest me to be softer, cause I am too independent to be taken care by a guy, which will scare all the guys away, so that's the reason why I am still single now. Do you really think independence will scare...

independent

scare

soft

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Tomorrow is Children's Day in my country. And that make me miss my childhood, when everything was so simple, and you were free from the burden of life? If given another chance, I would live over my life again, will you?

chance

child

free

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streakykj @streakykj (24) 30 May 09

I want to know which is your fav fizzy pop? Is it coke or pepsi? I prefer coke without a doubt. Its more fizzy and gets my taste buds going - pepsi is too flat for me! Whats yours?

coke

pepsi

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ianmeteor I like Coke better. But to tell you the truth, I cannot really tell the difference. But I just don't like the advertisement of Pepsi. They are too flashy for me and that's not my style.

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siddharthjeevan @siddharthjeevan (645) • India 30 May 09

In this world are we really alone?? Are we really the only one who care about our self?? Almost at once everyone jumps up and answers "No,I have friends or girlfriends and so i'm not alone". But how many of your friends are going...

alone

friends

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ianmeteor YES, I think we are alone. And by this "alone" I mean on the mental degree. I mean we are all different, and even the closest friends can be at odds. I believe there will be someone always be there for you, but I don't believe there will be someone totally...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Unfortunately, I fell for a man who has a girlfreind. He is very loyal to her and she is really lovely. However, I told him how I feel about him and after his big "no", we decided to remain freinds. Although I stop having...

dilemma

fantasy

girlfreinds

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ianmeteor Hi jbrooks0127, I think you are offering a good and sound advice here. You are right, if I decide to make friend with her, I should be frank and honest. That is really important, thanks for your reminding!

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi streakykj, thanks for your encouragement and sharing! Actually I have been told by someone else that when you look for love nothing comes. But after years, I start to doubt, I mean will my mr right just come over and tell me I am the one? And here I think...

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Yeah, I agree, although I am blaming the bad happenings on fate, I think it is to some degree my own choice,maybe the part played by destiny is what we call "luck"? And I am just not lucky enough....Hey, thank you~

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi Chapstek, maybe you are right, I need to think wisely and learn to accept the consequences! Thanks a lot!

30 May 09

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Yeah, you are right. I must have too obsessed with the destiny thing and overlook the good side of it. And I am trapped in this dilemma just because I try to take it this way. I should make myself happy.. Thank you!

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi, Grungebox, you seem to be very rational to me, is that so? But I think you have a point here, people's choice bring them where and what they are. But sometimes, we just can't think that far before we make a decision, and even sometimes the thing doesn't...

30 May 09

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