irisisflower

@irisisflower (79)

United States • Age 55

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how controlled can we be when holding the TV remote control?

asiamooner @asiamooner (418) • Philippines 7 Mar 11

women, or even men like watching shows, and not just shows but soapy operas... problem is, what if there's only one TV, one room, and one remote control but with different wants? i've seen a remote control fly out of the...

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irisisflower Hi asiamooner, When I was younger, we only had one T.V. in our living room and had this very problem. My mother's solution was to find out everyone's favorite shows, and make a schedule each week. It was difficult at first, but we all got used to it pretty...

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What would you do?

abhikmjmdr @abhikmjmdr (779) • India 21 Sep 09

I you were given a pair of magic shoes which would take you anywhere and a license to eat and drink whatever you wanted what would you do? Where would you go on the wings of fancy and how would you enjoy life?

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irisisflower AHHH magic shoes! I would ask them to take me to my very own island with my very own cabana boy to serve me the local delicase. I would sit in the most comfortable lounge chair, surrounded by pretty pillows and an over hang for the shade. I would close my eyes...

21 Sep 09

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being a listener makes u freak sometime

velocity_186 @velocity_186 (879) • India 21 Sep 09

sometime u r just piss,d off being a listener , when u keep listening to people amd u are not as talkative as them , a good listener usually would be a silent kind of person who never speaks a lot . who listens to people never...

listening freaks u

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irisisflower Hi velocity, If this is occurring to you, could it be because you have issues you want to discuss yourself? Do you have someone to listen to you when you have a bad day or just something to gripe about? It does the soul good to have days when you just shut...

21 Sep 09

How to say no so that food is not wasted?

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 21 Sep 09

I have this little "problem". Sometimes when I go over to my mom's place, or when my parents-in-law come over, they'd give us or buy food (fruit, meat etc.) for us to take home but when we tell them that they don't have to buy or...

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irisisflower Hi kevchua, Since it is your family and it sounds like you all get along well, how about sitting them down and having a serious talk with them and being completely honest about what you are feeling. It could be that they are worried about your health and...

21 Sep 09

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My Daughter is Driving me NUTS!!

jenysie @jenysie (106) • United States 9 Sep 09

My daughter has been going through this needy stage at bedtime, she's six years old and has the mentality of at least an 8 year old. Usually she is pretty obedient but ever since school started back up she has been having issues....

children

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irisisflower Hi jenysie, I have a daughter, soon to be 11, she has been in a GT school since 1st grade. I remember in kinder that her teacher would tell me that she was just always figity and would not stay still, that she would finish her work in class and then want to...

21 Sep 09

music lovers

jassi1 @jassi1 (170) • India 21 Sep 09

everyone of us is a music lover aru????????????????????????? surely because music is liked by each and everyone so why nt u according to age staus your choice chnges so what music do you like hip hop traditional ,pop , remix and...

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irisisflower Hi there jassi1 I love music. I think that there is a song for every occassion. Music moves my soul and it helps me when I need it. By this I mean that if I am having a sad day, I can play some soothing sweet music to help me get rid of the sad feeling. If...

21 Sep 09

Have you ever had dry eyes?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31042) • United Kingdom 21 Sep 09

My eyes seem to get very dry in the night. I wake up with really sore eyes. I put in some comfort solution this morning before I put my contact lenses in. I wear daily disposable contact lenses? Have you ever had dry eyes? If...

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irisisflower Hi maximax8, I have indeed sufferred with dry eyes from contacts. It turned out that with my seasonal allergies, I could not comfortably wear contacts and therefore had to stay with my glasses. In your case though, if no allergies are affecting you, maybe...

21 Sep 09

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ok for being a guy i dont understand other dudes at time

syankee525 @syankee525 (6249) • United States 21 Sep 09

ok growing up my dad never told my mom she need to ask him if she can watch tv, or go out with friends. my wife never have to ask me if she can watch tv, get on the computer or go out. to me its like its nice if my wife tell me...

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irisisflower Hello syankee, I agree with you in that no one person has the authority or control over the other. A person is born to be free and live life to its fullest without the fear of being hit or worse by her or his spouse. I think that it shoud be a give and...

21 Sep 09

surveys....grrr

erbear0879 @erbear0879 (134) • United States 17 Sep 09

im signed up for some of these surveys. i get emails and i try to fill out the survey. i never get approved b/c either i am a female or wrong age or my location. grr...get me frustrated! im starting to think that they are scams. i...

scams

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irisisflower erbear, It is indeed a scam, all of them. These companies have come together to advertise and see how many viewers they can get personal information so they in turn can call or email or even send you mail with their advertisement. Good Luck to you.

17 Sep 09

Need help ladies!! What is your favorite facial moisturizer and why?

ms1323 @ms1323 (259) • United States 17 Sep 09

I just turned 40 and am noticing some huge changes to my skin...wrinkles, fine lines, thinness etc...does anyone have a great anti-aging, wrinkle reducing skin care product that isn't too expensive?

anti aging

facial moisturizer

wrinkle reducer

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irisisflower Hi ms1323, I use Lancome, and while it can cost a pretty penny, it is so worth it, not just for the benefit of hydrating and moisturizing, but it smells like heaven to put on, I use the companion deap cleansing oil, it penetrates those wrinkles, I mean it...

17 Sep 09

What is better, a girl with curves or thin as a board?

tabsnlos @tabsnlos (587) • United States 11 May 09

As a woman, I feel we were created to be sexy and beautiful! Sometimes when I see a picture of what a woman should look like now a days, I am confused. Especially with the celebrities and models out there who are suppose to be...

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irisisflower I am on the Curvy train! LOL Being naturally on this side I like to see a woman with real curves, meaty and healthy represent on TV. No one side will ever get it right, or be on the same side, but as a woman, we need to give our partners something to hold on...

17 Sep 09

Do you set aside time for planning and scheduling?

ava152007 @ava152007 (641) • India 17 Sep 09

Hi I do set time for planning. what about you?

planning

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irisisflower Hi ava, I believe it is very beneficial to plan, this way you can see it and check it daily to make sure you have forgotten nothing for that day. It also helps relieve a little tension from worrying about if you forgot something or the other. Have a great...

17 Sep 09

Seven months old sleeping on his tummy??

mandiSDlady @mandiSDlady (17) • United States 17 Sep 09

Ok, so I get it. I know that a baby from newborn till they are twelve months old are suppose to be PUT TO BED on their back. Well my son is seven months old now, and like most seven month olds he rolls around. Well he has just now...

sleeping on tummy

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irisisflower Hi mandi, The decission seems so terrifying, I know. I allowed my children, at that, to sleep how they saw fit. Of course I was a vigilanty and they slept in the same room with me, but I think you should do what feels good and right for you. There are...

17 Sep 09

Do you think the kids should be beaten rather than punished?

coolcat123 @coolcat123 (4387) • India 17 Sep 09

many people beat their children in anger but afterwards feel sorry for what they have done.I think punishing a child is better than beating them bcoz after getting punished the child will not repeat the same mistake again. It...

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irisisflower Hi coolcat123 I agree, there is a time and place for both of these things, a child will not learn to fear the spanking if you never enforce it. I actually have done both, but I lean alot more towards the punishment, now that my children are older, they are...

17 Sep 09

Serena Williams Outburst

artistry @artistry (4151) • United States 16 Sep 09

The number one women's single's player in the world, engaged in a verbal tirade against a lineswoman, at the U. S. Open Tennis tournament in Flushing Meadows, NY, against Kim Clijsters after the woman called a controversial foot...

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irisisflower Hi artistry, She was upset with just cause and who would not be after fighting so hard for every point. WHat was not acceptable, in my view, is the reaction and the language used against a person who made a mistake. There are different stances and angles...

17 Sep 09

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I Love You.

aakkii @aakkii (213) • India 17 Sep 09

"I Love you" is a vary lovly sentance, it consists lots of love, But most of pepole hesitate to daliver it to their closest one. Now i just want to ask all of you. are these words common to your lips or you hesitate to deliver...

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love

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irisisflower Hi aakkii, Love is very common in my household, I love you is uttered umteenth times in a day, but because it is what is felt in the moment. I like the saying, "Life should not be measured on how many breaths you take but in how many moments take your...

17 Sep 09

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Do you sip your meleted ice cream?

ivygrey @ivygrey (550) • Philippines 17 Sep 09

My daughter would always say to me.. Mom are you going to finish that? (referring to my ice cream tub) She love to sip the melted ice cream she likes it very very much, She just don't like it if it's not cold anymore. how about...

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irisisflower Hi ivygrey, AWWW that is too cute, what child will allow something so yummy as icecream to go to waste? What adult for that matter. LOL I always sip the icecream, but your daughter has it right, it does taste better cold. My kids love icecream, they just...

17 Sep 09

I need great saving tips.

resssaaa @resssaaa (445) • Philippines 17 Sep 09

Okay, I'm a certified splurger. I can't help but splurge and splurge! HELP! I need and want to buy an iphone so desperately but I just can't save up! Everytime I try to save up I end up splurging the money then I have to start...

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irisisflower Hi resssaaa, A great way you could try is to start the savings and then give the money to a trusted friend or family member who will help you save. My mom is my banker, LOL and it really helps because she has the ability to save and is a very wise spender....

17 Sep 09

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super active boy

bulegosong83 @bulegosong83 (8) • Indonesia 17 Sep 09

I am a father with a son who is 18 months old...i am really happy because my son is very very atractive and healthy...he has almost never been sick...since he was born.. i think he had only twice a cold...thanks God...but now i am...

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irisisflower Hi bulegosong83, I have a boy, they are very active from the day they are born. Boys are more curious than girls by nature and always want to explore and learn new things, people and especially their surroundings. While it is normal to protect your child...

17 Sep 09