itsmechelle

@itsmechelle (114)

Age 36

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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please advice me im so sad and dont know what to do ?about my married boyfriend.

sarameastrong @sarameastrong (826) • Surrey, British Columbia 30 Aug 12

i am currently in pain due to my boyfriend that i found at facebook with family ,in short he is married..oh my god im so blind.then i talk to him and confirm everything that i have seen on his facebook that i saw his son and...

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itsmechelle FORGIVE him- BREAK UP with him- MOVE ON with your life. I believe that it's the best thing to do in this kind of situation. Do this for the sake of the child/children. I don't think it will make you fully happy having a relationship with him knowing that he is...

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are you texting your exboyfriend/ ex girlfriend still?

katrinapaz @katrinapaz (2436) • Philippines 10 Aug 12

just thinking mylotters.. are you still texting your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend? i dont text my ex anymore because we have nothing to discuss. also I dont want my current boyfriend to be jealous. what if your ex would still...

ex boyfriend

ex girlfriend

texting

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itsmechelle My ex still text and calls me sometimes. I still don't have a boyfriend while he has now a new girlfriend. Every time he text or calls me, I must admit that it makes me happy knowing that he still remembers me. Whenever we're having a conversation, I always...

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around with your ex-boyfriend of girlfriend w/ someone new; how would you feel?

missjahn @missjahn (4572) • Philippines 10 Aug 12

i experienced this a couple of times. even i am denying that i do not love the boy, still his and his new girlfriend lingers into my senses which gives unease emotion; mixed one. but i cannot figure it out what kind of feeling it...

ex boyfriend

move on

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itsmechelle I don't think I've been in that exact situation like yours, but I am sure that we are feeling exactly the same way. Mine was.. I saw them together twice since we broke up. The first time I saw them, it was fine because I was with my friend. But when I saw them...

10 Aug 12

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For I know the plans I have for you; plans to prosper you!

BethelSophia @BethelSophia (538) • Philippines 9 Aug 12

Have you ever receive a message from someone that made you cry? cry not because it hurts you but cry because you're happy to know about the message of the letter. One morning I read my bible and my Best friend brought me to the...

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itsmechelle Thank you so much for sharing this message. It is indeed a promising and touching word from God himself. I am currently full of fears and hopelessness, but upon reading this message, it enlightens me.

9 Aug 12

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Graveyard or Day job?

barbiesacol88 @barbiesacol88 (202) • Philippines 2 Aug 12

Here in my country, lots of people work in call centers. And their jobs require them to work at night and sleep during the day. I tried doing this kind of job but I only lasted one week. My body was so stressed with the lack of...

day job

graveyard shirft

working late

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itsmechelle As a nurse, I have to go on a graveyard duty for at least 3-4 times a week. Graveyard shift is something I'm dreading. I hate the feeling where I have to go to work while I see people having a good sleep. I'd rather get up at 5am than getting up at 10pm.

2 Aug 12

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I Love You But I Don't Trust You.

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 1 Aug 12

Have you ever said this to your partner? Did you Ever learn to trust him/her again? I'm sorta old fashioned. If I don't trust a person I can not love them. both love and trust Has to be there! How about you? Have you ever loved...

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itsmechelle I've been in a relationship where I loved the person so much, but I did not had a trust on him. It was because of those instances when I found out he was doing something not acceptable. It was some sort of cheating which he never ever admitted. I loved him so...

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what annoys you about facebook?

maurya83 @maurya83 (923) • India 1 Aug 12

the one thing that would top almost everyone's list would be the incessant string of utterly ridiculous status updates. every mundane activity is recorded- what they ate for breakfast and that they just left for work..then its the...

facebook

status updates on facebook

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itsmechelle yeah right! Some of my friends were doing that and still doing it. They tend to post every single thing they are doing, capture every food they have eaten and places they have been.. stuffs like that. It's kinda annoying, yes, but for me it's fine if it was...

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single mom

amiragabrielle @amiragabrielle (1) • Philippines 1 Aug 12

what advice can you give for a single mom?

mom

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itsmechelle That's a tough role, so you must have loads of strength and patience. Just have faith when you're going through some difficulties. God bless all those single parents.

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he dumped me

iamJB7 @iamJB7 (122) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I pity myself. It's been 2years since he broke up with me. I still keep on thinking on him. I have several boyfriends after him but I keep on comparing them to my ex(the one that I really love) the person who dumped me. For two...

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itsmechelle As much as I would like to say something about this, I think I'm not in the right position to do so. It is because, I, myself is also afraid that this could also happen to me. I'm still on a moving on stage and I am not really sure if I could ever get over...

31 Jul 12

Why do people become fatty after marriage?

honest_efforts100 @honest_efforts100 (1607) • India 31 Jul 12

Why do people become fatty after marriage? Yes I have noticed in most of the cases when any boy or a girl becomes fatty or get extra pounds on his/her body after marriage. What is the reason behind this. Is there any kind of...

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itsmechelle I think there are many contributing factors to that such as stress, lack of time to exercise, etc. Married couples usually tend to forget about themselves for they are very occupied with their children that they could no longer manage to maintain fitness....

31 Jul 12

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When Was The Last Time You Cried?

Umaiya @Umaiya (43) • India 31 Jul 12

I cried today, i am not a crying person but i did today because i miss ma grandpa, i miss him alot. He passed away last year in november, i still cant believe hez not wid me :(. When was the last time you cried and why?

cried

grandfathrr

miss

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itsmechelle The last time I cried was 3 days ago. I just suddenly felt down, lonely, hurt and hopeless.

31 Jul 12

The most prone to danger vehicle!

debbygirl @debbygirl (213) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I saw a lot of vehicles here in our country. All kinds of it with different kind of people riding and driving in it. Have you tried riding in a motorcycle? i have tried I think that's the most prone to accident vehicle here in...

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itsmechelle I think all kinds of vehicles are prone to accidents, though motorcycles are the top most accident-prone vehicle.

31 Jul 12

Why do I feel worried for no reason?

chicgale @chicgale (2982) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I am feeling worried for no reason right now and yesterday. It's like I feel weird, worried, scared and nervous. What causes this? I even feel like crying right now.. Ugh! I hope this isn't serious.

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itsmechelle I am also experiencing that kind of mixed emotions at times. It usually happens to me when my period is coming. I think it must have something to do with our hormones.

31 Jul 12

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Do you believe in LOVE at first sight?

litvillegas @litvillegas (1274) • Philippines 30 Jul 12

Have you experienced falling in love at first sight? Probably you've heard this question when you were still in High School or College.. It's widely believed that love at first sight is not TRUE and real LOVE but infatuation. Love...

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itsmechelle "Attraction at first sight" sounds more appropriate than "love at first sight". If someone strongly believes that it is love at first sight, then I guess they have a very shallow meaning of love.

30 Jul 12

Dream wedding

Daisy_22 @Daisy_22 (1229) • Philippines 30 Jul 12

Sooner or later we all must get married. For the girls or shall I say us, wedding is one of the most important stage in our life. When i was young i dream to have a beach wedding under the white sand sorrounded with the crystal...

marriage

wedding

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itsmechelle I just want a traditional which is church, simple, yet elegant and most especially INTIMATE wedding. Here in Philippines, people used to invite so many guests even the ones who are not that close with the couple. So I prefer to invite only those who really...

30 Jul 12

I'm over you!

Daisy_22 @Daisy_22 (1229) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

After breaking apart with each other we always hear the words move on.It's not easy though but we have to for our self.From the last time you've broken having a big trouble with your heart.When did you able to say I'm over you? I...

life

moving on

relationship

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itsmechelle I am still on moving on stage, too. I really don't know if I could get over with my first love. Although I can say that I'm done with the denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance stage. I know that I will always love him and care for him for the...

29 Jul 12

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