jacklintan

@jacklintan (1302)

Malaysia • Age 47

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Psychologist explains why marriages so often fail

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 10 Feb 12

Recently a psychologist I know told me why, in his opinion, so many marriages fail these days. He said parents, particularly fathers, so spoil there daughters that they grow with such unrealistic expectations that they are...

fathers

political correctness

spoilt girls

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jacklintan Marriage fails for many reasons. Not just because the father spoils the daughter. Marriage pattern have change alot in this century and many failed to understand that those changes have weaken one party and strengthen the other.Meaning to say,woman have...

10 Feb 12

Why do people speak high of someone unnecessarily

puneetrajput25 @puneetrajput25 (5) 10 Feb 12

Why do people act foolish and speak high of someone unnecessarily. I have an aunt who without knowing keeps speaking high of her sons as if they are the only 2 people in the world who have had success in their lives. I get very...

speak high

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jacklintan Hi punee, lol, I know what you mean! :) I have had many people who always speaks about their children's greatness. I am sure you're feeling as though your unties are putting you down and comparing you with their children. It's obviously normal for you to...

10 Feb 12

The ATM declined the transaction but the amount got debited!

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 5 Nov 11

Today I tried to withdraw money from ATM. The transaction was declined and I came out of it and returned home. Later I received one message saying that the amount has been debited from my bank account! Thankfully, I had the...

atm

transaction

withdraw

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jacklintan Hi mimpi, Obviously this happened in many places coz they're all machines. At leas, you're alert about it. Hope everything's fine in the end. :)

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Will you beleive on this? A man married with 39 wives and he has 94 childeren

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 27 Oct 11

The latest new of all news channel of India that is the biggest family in the World in Mizoram. A man married with 39 wives all are residing together and they born 94 children and they have 33 grandchild. Ohhhhh no how enjoyable...

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jacklintan Thank you for this eye opener news, my dear. You made me realise having many wives is still a good decision. :)

29 Oct 11

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Should someone go to jail from destroying our economy?

thegreatdebater @thegreatdebater (7316) • United States 24 Oct 11

One of the demands that the Occupy groups is calling for is an investigation into what really happened to cause the collapse of our economy, and who is really to blame. Although the politicians and the wall street big wigs didn't...

money

politics

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jacklintan This is a good point you have over here. Economy is important and therefore those who have caused problem to it should have it answer to the jurisdiction.

24 Oct 11

i just got my hair colored and i love it!would you do the same too?

churchill1980 @churchill1980 (764) • Philippines 16 Oct 11

i have my hair done in burgundy, and i love it. it gave me more confidence and my office mates like it too, they even want to have their hair colored too. it's been a long plan for me to do it, and on my 31st last September, i...

hair color

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jacklintan Hi there. Nice to meet you. :) I guess every girls will have their hair dyed at least 2 times in their life. I did mine every 2 -3 months once, I don't know if I need to be frequent, but i guess this is the way most people did it here. Asian will dye...

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How to restrain a woman from further talking?

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 13 Oct 11

Women are renowned for their level of intelligence which you can easily realize during your conversation with them. I am admitting it openly despite myself being a woman. While under such circumstances, a foolish man asks a woman...

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jacklintan OH WOW! Do you think women talking is a problem to you? I wonder what you mean by that when you said woman talks alot. Anyway, not all women are talkative. There are women who are silent and prefer men to talk more.

13 Oct 11

I understand I need goals to lead my life.

writersolutions10 @writersolutions10 (497) • India 13 Oct 11

Even if we will not be able to visualise the entire journey, if we are not able to see the immediate road ahead, we will not be able to drive properly. without goals optimum utilization of resources won't be possible. There will...

life

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jacklintan Every goals require actions. No doubt you need to be specific and have a meassurable goals, but all begin with the very first step you take. Do not freak out on the first step. I have a feeling you're trying to jump the queue in order to achieve ur...

13 Oct 11

envy kills people

Nezavisima Deskata @nezavisima (7408) • Bulgaria 3 Oct 11

in your friends envy you kill people. because I really envy that gradually and slowly kills people. I do not know maybe I'm wrong you say what do you think?

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jacklintan Envy alittle does motivation. Envy alot does harm to you.

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Are you honest & straight forward in friendship?

Pushhyarag2000 @Pushhyarag2000 (1416) • India 1 Oct 11

In an eagerness not to harm your friendship, do you avoid being frank & straight with your friend? I'm not saying you should act as a big brother. Being aware that each individual has an opinion, do you discuss your views with an...

nurturing friendships

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jacklintan Being honest and straight forward in friendship is good. Of course, I welcome this type of friendship. But, being blunt honest and straight forward might not be good for friendship too, u know. Reason is, some people having hard time handling honesty and...

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If there is such a thing as soulmate, then I had found mine.

eileenleyva @eileenleyva (27560) • Philippines 29 Sep 11

Once upon a distant time, in my juvenile days, I had fallen in love with someone who, I believed, didn't want me at all. And we parted ways without even expressing how we felt towards each other. And the years passed by. The...

love

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jacklintan You have a nice love story to tell. Some people found it onced they reached their puberty, some found it later in life but as far as I am concerned, you have found yours beautifully. :) Congratulations to you, if you have found yours, but I guess, I...

30 Sep 11

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What is wrong with some people ?

iuliuxd @iuliuxd (4453) • Romania 27 Sep 11

Hi i checked today the tasks we can do here on myLot.Go and look there and you`ll see people giving you 1 cent for completing a task .Isn`t that great ? What is wrong with them ? I know the majority of people here...

low payment

tasks

wrong

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jacklintan Hi. I was thinking the same like you did.When I was first introduced to this place from a friend, I just thinking to myself 1 CENT is like wow~~" that little money for just responding to the discussion?" But then, I'm here not for the money and I don't...

29 Sep 11

Gray and foggy, sleepy, too quiet, wake up brain.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 28 Sep 11

I was just trying to think and make intelligent responses this gray morning with gloomy fog and much too quiet room. My roomie is again asleep. Its quieter than in a tomb here and I am finding I need a second cup of coffee. I am...

wake up brain

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jacklintan This is something I have been through while most of the things around me are asleep. Sometimes, we need the silence around us to fine the inner peace within our heart and mind. The way you expressed yourself seems like you have found some comforts from...

29 Sep 11

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When you go to the movies, what are your concession stand favorites?

wiccania @wiccania (3360) • United States 27 Sep 11

I love going to the movies, and one of the best parts of the experience is the concession stand goodies (although the prices aren't that fantastic these days). What goodies do you usually get when you go to the movies? For me,...

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jacklintan While munching away the popcorns at the theatre, a sudden sense of guil crawl over me. :( The extra pounds that I gained from the popcorns will mean another extra size on my trousers! :P These days, I'll just keep to bottle water and that's about it. I...

27 Sep 11

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Has the financial crisis affected your plans for giving this Holiday Season?

KizzyCatfish @KizzyCatfish (426) • United States 26 Sep 11

Our family has always been big on gifting during the Christmas Season. When we were kids and woke to the Christmas tree once a year, we would be amazed. Even as adults, as we all gather on Christmas, the base of the tree is laden...

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jacklintan I always believed money or gift shouldn't get involved when comes to celebrating some festive seasons e.g. Christmas. When I was young, my parents always spent alot in buying food for Chinese New Year, new clothes, new curtains, new shoes and what's more red...

27 Sep 11