jadmari

@jadmari (125)

Philippines • Age 39

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How to deal with negative people

akn1961 @akn1961 (1034) • India 28 Aug 10

Negative people can often be very mean and selfish in their remarks. The thumb rule is to learn to ignore what they say totally. 1.Before they start talking, it is a good idea to start the discussion on a positive note and avoid...

life

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people

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jadmari I totally agree with that. I usually don't feel responsible for the people's problem even though I'm a good listener. If my friend, for example, is too negative about things that is happening to his or her life. I would rather tell them to deal it in a...

13 Sep 10

Money is important than health?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 6 Sep 10

I can't understand why people care money more than health. I saw people who didn't care their health, even they were ill then didn't see doctor, saved money was their principle. They will be very regret when they lay down,...

health

life

money

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jadmari I agree to that. Health should be prioritized first because if health will flunk down, your money will slowly diminish too. A lot of people are saving and not even buying vitamins or supplements for their health. And once they are admitted to the hospital,...

6 Sep 10

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Saying I Love You to my friends

jonnifc @jonnifc (1017) • Philippines 5 Sep 10

I find it awkward to say "I Love You" to my friends. It's easy to say it to my boyfriend. We end each phone call with it, it's the last thing we say to each other when we leave, and we even say it a lot of times a day through...

awkward to say i love you bad friend

i love you to friends

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jadmari I also had a hard time saying "I love you" to my friends, maybe because I was brought up as not a vocal person when it comes to feelings. But later on when I met a person who was so open about saying I love you to the family even to close friends,I somehow...

6 Sep 10

What changes love brought in YOU .....

eshaan @eshaan (6188) • India 5 Sep 10

I want to know...what difference love made in your life...it made you weak/strong....it made you dependent/independent....what are the signs of true love??? how do you understand whether its true love or not...if the person is not...

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jadmari As for my experience, I learned how to be strong and vulnerable at the same time. There were so many tough times a long the journey of loving someone. It taught me a lot of lessons in life. There were also some things that love has thought me. I became warm to...

6 Sep 10

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Cassette tapes and records, do you still have them?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31331) • Denmark 25 Aug 10

Today I was looking for a notebook and I found some of my old cassette tapes. I had so many cassette tapes when I was a teenager and I loved my walkman. My brother and I often made our own tapes, and for my grandmother's birthday...

cassette tapes

records

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jadmari I still have my cassette tapes that I collected during my childhood years. I kept them in my room, and I don't want to give or sell them because its a nice collection.

26 Aug 10

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What turns you off in a guy/girl (physically)?

pinksplotch @pinksplotch (268) • Quezon City, Philippines 19 Aug 10

Physical traits or habits in a guy/girl that turns you off.

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jadmari I don't like guys who are heavy smokers to the point that their lips are already black and a lot of nicotine surrounds their teeth. And when they talk you can smell their bad breath.

20 Aug 10

Do you Enjoy Cooking your meals?

incus99 @incus99 (1083) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

In fast times like these, fast foods and microwavable foods are on the go... but sometimes in our hectic schedule we find a way to really prepare a decent dish for ourselves and our family. The satisfaction is the labor of love...

cooking

foods

love

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jadmari I'm not really a cook, but I love to prepare meals for my family and loved ones. I prefer doing this than just order from fast food chains or use microwave because Its risky in the health and money too than preparing at home with my own effort. Sometimes if I...

20 Aug 10

Do you live in an apartment or in independent house?

udaymohan @udaymohan (437) • India 19 Aug 10

Earlier we used to live in an apartment which was on the second floor of the building. However, I faced some difficulties in accomodating guests at the time of marriage of my first son. So, I had decided to go for construction of...

my house

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jadmari I used to live in an independent house, but when i moved out and transferred to another city, I live in an apartment. Our family owns an apartment just near our home and lease it to tenants for a cheaper pric. What's ironic here is that I am renting an...

20 Aug 10

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Is it happy to be single?

liweiwei0909 @liweiwei0909 (403) • China 19 Aug 10

Many unmarried people would like to say "I am happy", considering the single will be free, easy, carefree, and there is no need to worry about the family. You don't have to care about other people, you can do what ever in your own...

single

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jadmari Yes Im single and I'm happy. I don't have any responsibilites or any committments to worry. I just think of myself, career, and how to live in a good life. I'm also having a great time doing stuffs or activities I haven't done when I was in a relationship, now...

20 Aug 10

Are girls that easy to get nowadays?

kingparker @kingparker (9672) • United States 10 Aug 10

I don't know if some people were bragging or not. They tell stories about how girls are easy to get today, especially those just turn 18 to early 20s. All you need just some nice dress, and a humorous conversation, that is the...

easy

girls

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jadmari It depends to the location. I guess girls living in a city is very easy to get compared to those who are in the rural areas but I don't want to generalized it. One reason for easy to get thing is because of the technology and how our society changes. A lot of...

20 Aug 10

Do you believe that brands reveal your own strength and personality?

mai200725 @mai200725 (77) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

Brands reflect the product.It is determinative of your choice to own a thing of such high quality because you trust the product and the benefits that comes with it.And what you wear tells about you, if not all, a part of your own...

questions and answers

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jadmari I don't think so. I don't mind wearing clothes from unknown designers or clothing line. It doesn't reveal strength and weaknesses because the what reveals your strength or weaknesses is the way you wear the clothes and not the brand. Though I have branded...

20 Aug 10

Friendster is still there?

damned_dle @damned_dle (3939) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

Before facebook there was friendster (Well there is still friendster) But now it seems everyone moved to facebook. I only open mine about once a month, and I am surprised that there are still a few people who actually updates it....

friendster

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jadmari I actually had a friendster account but I already deleted it because I didn't update it anymore, though I had a lot of friends there too but I find it boring compared to facebook. Since I had a facebook, I have only opened my friendster for 1 to 2 times in 2-3...

20 Aug 10

Wealth or Health? Which would you choose

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 19 Aug 10

In this society, people is becoming more and more materialistic. Do you think money is really that important... so much important that you would trade anything else for it? I think heath is much more important than wealth....

health

wealth

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jadmari I totally I agree with you that Health is more important than wealth because money will be gone easily if there is no good health. How can one work and become wealthy if he or she is always sick? If the person is making a lot of money but it is spend to...

20 Aug 10

Do you ever feel like there isn't enough time in the day?

StephanieAnnC @StephanieAnnC (4274) • United States 19 Aug 10

I feel like there isn't enough time in the day to get everything I want to get done. I feel like my schedule is so jam packed. I mean, school starts in 2 weeks and so does my part time job. And I'm working on a website and...

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jadmari I sometime feel the same way whenever I have so many things to get done or extra curricular stuffs. Sometimes I don't know what to do first because I wanted to do everything. Whenever this kind of situation happens, I pause for a while and write my priorities...

19 Aug 10

could you give me some advices?

kuaixueshiqing @kuaixueshiqing (161) 19 Aug 10

I am a student from a non-english speaking country. people around me, including me, study english just for passing tests and in our daily life, we communicate with each other in native language, which restrict our english level....

study english

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jadmari hello there. Keep on writing here on mylot and you're writing skills will improve. As for the speaking skills, keep on watching english programs or movies and observe how the english words are spoken by the english speakers. Then from time to time, practice...

19 Aug 10

you want to travel in what country ? ? ? why? ?

graciouz193 @graciouz193 (130) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

tell us why you want to travel in that country? ? ? what is in that country? ? :)

country

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jadmari I wanna go to Australia because I want to meet the pro surfers of Stoke Inc. or Billabong & Roxy. I also wanted to go to Brazil because I wanted to meet the instructors of capoeira. I also wanted to go to countries that have amazing beaches like Jamaica,...

19 Aug 10

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