jaminnj

@jaminnj (21)

United States • Age 53

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A question for parent's who DON'T believe in hitting their children...

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 6 Feb 09

What would you do (or what do you do) when your child curses at you? How would you get him, or her, to stop? Yes, that is what is happening to me. It's my son. The worse part, is that "taking away privileges" which, to me...

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jaminnj Where is your son learning - picking up these curse words? I would immediately lose the influences that I could - friends ~ tv ~ people in the home? The punishment depends on the age of your son. And you don't say how old he is - it could be some medicine...

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Am I a bad mother?

eggspert88 @eggspert88 (47) • Philippines 27 Sep 08

I'm feeling all guilty right now because I have beaten my 1 year 9 months old son. I've spanked him on his butt 3 times, then on his left hand 3 times and pushed him on the bed twice. It all started when he wanted to go to the...

bad temper

impatient mother

tantrums

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jaminnj You are asking this question because you feel like something is "wrong" in what happened... My opinion really isn't important - I think you are human and sometimes as humans we don't do the Right thing everytime. Mothering is about training - guiding -...

28 Sep 08

individualy working

akinangel18 @akinangel18 (40) • India 29 Jul 08

what do u think...in todays time..is it essential dat everyperson shoulld work and earn in a family.....???? or only male mebers in family should work???

financialy independence

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jaminnj We have 4 people of working age in my home - My husband is the only one that works outside the home - his money supports us. I work from home selling things online - that is our money for life enrichment. My mom doesn't need to work and my 16 year old daughter...

30 Jul 08

pocket money

akinangel18 @akinangel18 (40) • India 30 Jul 08

at what age shud be pocket money of a child should be startd???/ and what amount should be given.........when u were child what money you used to get and where u used to spend it?????

pocket moneey

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jaminnj There are many books written on the topic Money Doesn't Grown on Trees - Raising a Money Smart Child - I think the Rich Dad Poor Dad authour has one too... here is how I handle it. My children get to keep or spend any money they are given as gifts. At 6 I may...

30 Jul 08

Are christian those people who go to the Church?

alpha7 @alpha7 (1910) • France 29 Jul 08

Are Christians those people who attend Church regularly,or are they the ones we refer to as Church goers,What are the benefits of attending a Church when you don't even have problems anyway. I am asking this...

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jaminnj Going to church - means you got up got dressed and went to church - Being a Christian means that you believe Jesus Christ has paid the price for your sins and that because of your faith that it is truth you will be given eternal life in heaven. I am a...

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amzwafa @amzwafa (31) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

I breastfeed my 3 months old son,so I have no idea how many ounces does he gets every time I fed him.To make sure that he gets the daily recommended ounces I make a feeding schedule,I feed him every two hours and in every feeding...

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jaminnj I breastfed on demand - whenever child wanted to feed and for as long as the baby wanted. I have never had a problem and they are all healthy. You can choose to schedule feed I am sure your Dr or baby books etc will have more information if feeding on a...

30 Jul 08

I have fall love with a man who have got married,pls help me how can I do

summerhu @summerhu (4) 29 Jul 08

we recongnized each other for work ,then fall in love.day by day ,I have be accustomed to receiving his tel and messages,but when he gets home ,there were no contacts between us. I dont want to know weather he loved his wife ,I...

love

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jaminnj He is married and therefore not someone you can have a relationship with. I believe love is a choice - look for others to spend your time with. Take a class - hang out with friends - cry - eat ice cream etc but keep your mind away from being in a relationship...

30 Jul 08

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it's confirmed!

spoiled311 @spoiled311 (5500) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

yep! it's confirmed people! my pregnancy test came out positive. i am 5 weeks pregnant! counting the actual date, i assumed that i am already 6 weeks pregnant, but ultrasound showed that it is only 5 weeks old. my husband and...

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jaminnj Congratulations!! How awesome - You are blessed! Take care of you and your sweet baby. Enjoy telling your loved ones and preparing for this special blessing. Praising God with you!

30 Jul 08

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How do you force yourself to do something?

purplehyacinth @purplehyacinth (575) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

I feel lazy today.. I have many things to do.. But I dont feel like doing them.. What I have always believed is, in order to do something, there must be driving force that overcomes a resistance. I have lost all my driving force.....

laziness

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jaminnj Writing down goals - and three ways to reach them or sometime 3 benefits to me if I reach them - setting a time to have it done by - rewarding myself. Often setting a timer and jst starting to get a task done for 5 minutes helps. Finding a buddy to do it with...

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What is your favorite movie of all time ? What did you like about it?

gab007bond @gab007bond (12) • United States 29 Jul 08

What is your favorite movie of all time? What did you like about it?

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jaminnj The Princess Bride - I love the story line - so many twists and yet it is fun - not at all believable - but you enjoy it so much you forget about reality. Great characters - casting - and so entertaining. It is the movie I have watched the most times - and...

30 Jul 08

I longed for a BABY...

add_im @add_im (2712) • Philippines 10 May 07

Hello dear friends, I've been married for almost 6 yrs now and still we haven't got to the point having children, just yet. My question is, specially to all the mothers out there...what can you all suggest and opinions given for...

pregnancy

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jaminnj We were conceived our first child 6.5 years after being married. We didn't do anything different. So relax, pray Trust God - children are a blessing. There are herbs you can take that may help Evening Primrose oil - False Unicorn - Vitex etc and certainly...

30 Jul 08

How will you tell your parents if you are pregnant? in what manner?

dorothy09 @dorothy09 (1520) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

This is from a friends experience. She told me that she is pregnant. She ask my help of what to do to tell this to her parents. I for one is confused of what to do and in what way.. You might share your idea with me...

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jaminnj The sooner the better - and I think she should share how she is feeling - scared - excited etc so they know how best to respond and guide her. Her words may well influence how they respond - calm - clear - and respectfully is the best way and at a time when...

30 Jul 08

greatest book you ever read?

heart4u @heart4u (409) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

hey guys what is the greatest book you ever read? and why? well mine the greatest will be saving my first kiss because it would taught you about life do and donts the problem of teenagers facing and the right way to deal with it...

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jaminnj The Bible is the greatest book I have ever read - It continues to change me - and helps me to grow closer to God and my family and friends. I read the Bible daily and know I would not be who I am today without it. I'd also say Gone with the Wind - Books by...

30 Jul 08

Travelling without the kids

Jade13 @Jade13 (262) • Malaysia 29 Jul 08

Have you ever traveled or go on a vacation without the kids? Just you and your partner. If you ever do so, do you worry about them all the time?misses them all the time? calling back home to check on them constantly? I am not a...

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jaminnj We don't travel without the kids - we know that the time will come when they are all busy and older and we will have plenty of time to do so. We do find time to have coffee on the balcony - or watch a movie when they are in bed - candlelight tea at midnights...

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Do you still consider reading the bible a necessity?

pink_maven @pink_maven (265) • Philippines 29 Jul 08

Why yes? why not?

the bible

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jaminnj Yes I consider it a necessity for me to read it daily - It gets me through the day in the best - mental and emotional place. I believe that everyone can benefit from reading the Bible and that it only takes reading it more than you are now to change your life...

30 Jul 08

Your favorite movie

cesko_rigo @cesko_rigo (39) 29 Jul 08

I'd like to know what are the three movies you like most... tell them thank you for all the answers

best

interests

movie

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jaminnj The Princess Bride is my favorite movie Fried Green Tomatoes Overboard there are others - but Off the top of my head I'd start there.

30 Jul 08

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Anger mamagment

Anne18 @Anne18 (11029) 29 Jul 08

My 10 yr old boy has quite a bad tempter sometimes (gets it from my father). he can control it and I suppose sometimes he is no different to any other boy. What i need to try and teach him is not to bite when people wind him up...

anger managment for 10 yr old english boy

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jaminnj Hi You might want to look at The Heart of Anger by Lou Priolo ~ it might help - there are lots of other anger books out there - but I think it is important to get to the heart of the matter and deal with the cause of the behavior.

30 Jul 08

Where do your baby sleep?

Jade13 @Jade13 (262) • Malaysia 29 Jul 08

Where do you let your newborn sleep?In the same bedroom as you? Or alone in another room? Or you let the baby sleep with you for the first few months and then let the baby sleep in another room after that?

baby

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jaminnj I love using a co-sleeper that attaches to side of my bed for the first 6-9 months and then child sleeps in my bed with a safety bar on the side. When they turn two they move to a toddler bed in their own room and at age four into a twin size bed.

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can you recommend some Best seller to me?

garry52 @garry52 (47) • China 30 Jul 08

can you recommend some Best seller to me ? Which about diet ,health care ,handcraft ,aesthetic care ,an so on.

best seller

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jaminnj I am reading Eat To Live by Dr. Jeff Furhman right now - you may find it very helpful in the diet/health care area of life.

30 Jul 08

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