jaswanthi

@jaswanthi (17)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Need some advice : What's the best thing to do......

Desierra1004 @Desierra1004 (1213) • Malaysia 16 Jun 08

I am going to meet this friend that I am interested in and we do like each other a lot. I have known him through the internet about a year now. I have been thinking when I do meet him for the first time face to face, I will...

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jaswanthi Internet is the best place to interact with many people online. But, its not the safe one. Knowing the person online is never the same as knowing him personally. In ur first meeting, give him the best impression you can. Dont go for a kiss which is not a...

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how do you boost up your morale?

bluishrose @bluishrose (2289) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

your in a relationship, you gave your everything and best and love him with all your heart. but then you've found out he is still in search of a possible partner elsewhere. He didn't stop sending emails to girls asking for their...

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jaswanthi Yeah , U r rgt n it happens most of the tyms with many people. When two people are in love, they should have gud understanding of each other well. And itz never ur mistake if he searches for the better options. Because, one thing here which is very clear is...

15 Jun 08

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What would you do when feeling down?

lkbooi @lkbooi (16070) • Malaysia 14 Jun 08

I wonder why sometimes my mood would change very fast from a happy to a down one. I had tried doing many things to blow away my unhappy feeling but still couldn’t pull me back from that. Finally I find the most effective way...

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jaswanthi Thats really gud to have children around and you are really lucky to be in such a place where you can find kids. It happens in every one's lyf when everyone gets down most of the tyms. I listen to music most of the tyms, being out of the place where i...

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Would you tell your friend?

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 19 May 08

My neighbour goes to work and her mother-in-law is home with the kids because the kids are having school vacations. My son goes over to their house some days to play and some days the kids come over to my place. Today, my son was...

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jaswanthi when ur neighbour is very close to u, u can go aheadd and tell him abt his son. There is nothing wrong in saying abt dat. N make sure to remember ur relationship with him n proceed further.

15 Jun 08

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are you unkind?

MsTickle @MsTickle (25180) • Australia 15 Jun 08

Some folk, when they recieve a friend request check out the person asking. I do. I add 99% of people who ask me. If we have lots in common, I turn the alert on. If we are years apart in age and and share absolutely no interests, I...

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jaswanthi It should never be taken as a criticism. You should be in a position to accept the +ves n -ves of everything dat u do. When u send a frnd request u should accept the ans as how it is coz it all depends on other's personal interest in accepting ur...

15 Jun 08

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Do you have a best Friend?

golfproo @golfproo (1839) • Canada 14 Jun 08

I know this is a pretty weird question, but I was thinking today that I really don't have a best friend anymore. I used to but have fallen out of touch with them. I am not sure if it is my fault, or if that is the way life...

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jaswanthi Yes, I do have a best friend. She is wid me since ma 8th class. It all depends on how well we maintain relationshps with others. If either of the persons lack in communicating with each other, the strength of the bond weakens up easily resulting in the...

15 Jun 08

Have You Ever Accepted A Friend On Mylot,

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 15 Jun 08

Just for the purpose of sending them a message. I did this today. I had someone request my friendship at least twice. The first time, I simply checked their interest and then denied them. This time, I accepted their friendship...

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jaswanthi There is never anything wrong in not doing anything dat v dont lyk. This happens wid many people when they don't accept mysterious requets.

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Friends, what is your Motto in life?

claire03 @claire03 (1443) • United States 25 Sep 07

hi mylot friends, i know everyone of us has a motto in life, mine is "Never expect love to be always at it best cause if you do you'll never appreciate it's existence, Remember that there will be one love for you to have and hold,...

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jaswanthi My motto in lyf is achieve my dreams, because i always dream abt ma goals.When I try to ahcieve them, I even wont forget to keep others happy, making new n gud frnds, and njoying lyf to itz max, coz a min lost can never be regained.

14 Jun 08

How to change a bad mood?

xiaojing1226 @xiaojing1226 (236) • China 14 Jun 08

We all experience bad moods occasionally,for it is impossible to be happy all the time.We may feel sad or pessimistic,even angry with the whole world when we are in bad mood.This is normal.But it is important to know how to change...

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jaswanthi Itz true dat one should alwasy try to get out of the bad mood, since -ve feeling have -ve impressions on the brain. It all depends on the person. Some loves to sleep when they feel really bad, n some want to b out of dat place where they dont feel gud, when...

14 Jun 08

Will you marry for money, children or happiness

sine2x @sine2x (52) • Ghana 12 Jun 08

i wonder why most people get married. some people marry for money, some for children and some for happiness. The argument some people make is that with money you can acquire happiness.how true that is i cant acertain. others...

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jaswanthi Every one needs a person to share their everything in lyf. When fnrdship is the gud ans, I believe Marriage is the best one. It gives u a chance to share ur evrtyhing with ur lyf partner, understand n love them. Support is wat many people expect, n love is a...

14 Jun 08

What do you look for in a guy?

headhunter525 @headhunter525 (3548) • India 14 Jun 08

Just wondering what all are the qualities, external or internal, that you would look for in a person before you propose. If you are married kindly share what you looked for in your spouse. And if you unmarried what are the things...

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jaswanthi In a guy, I always look for love n care...apart frm being true n faithful. He always should be capable enough to protect us frm any kind of difficulties n should understand us in every walk of lyf.

14 Jun 08

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Second worst enemy!

snakequeen @snakequeen (1299) • India 12 Jun 08

You might have already spelt out in some other discussion who is your worst enemy, somewhere sometime. Many times we become our own enemy. What do you think is your second worst enemy? Or first and second are same?

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jaswanthi I feel ego is one'e best enemy.

14 Jun 08

WHICH HURTS MORE? I am in that position now... :(

Jhordie @Jhordie (5115) • Philippines 14 Jun 08

Which hurts more? An enemy who gives hell to your life everyday by making stories of craft about you or a friend you considered turning her/his back against you in the middle of your fight with your enemy and siding with the one...

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jaswanthi Betrayal- something dat one never xpects frm a frnd. Truely to say, its a bliss to have worthy , gud n loving fnrd aroung us. World is so big n people are so many that one's lyf tym is never enough to knw n understand a person totally. Let frnds come n go,...

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Top Five things in life you are most grateful for

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 14 Jun 08

There are many things in my life I have to be grateful for but these are the top five: 1.My husband-Without him I would be nothing,he is annoying at times but he is truly the wind beneath my wings. 2.My kids-they are the best...

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jaswanthi There are many things in lyf to n for whom I can be grateful for. To mention juss five...I would say... 1. My dad-- for all the support he gave me all the tym ne needed me 2. My dad-- for giving me all the things dat i needed everytym never letting me knw...

14 Jun 08

Credit card - good or bad!!

yogeshdhusa @yogeshdhusa (2236) • India 13 Jun 08

HI All, I dont have credit card but sometimes i feel i should have. My friend has one but he has lot of outstanding amount and he is just repending for this. he didnt paid the amount on time and the interest is eating his head as...

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jaswanthi Credit card is really good....but only along with the debit card. As long as u have enough money paying the debts back, it is suggestible to have n use the credit card.To say u with a quote, too much is very bad, but nothing is good,proper usage of anything...

14 Jun 08

Should children go to funerals?

Evacuee @Evacuee (1147) 15 Feb 07

Do you think children should go to funerals of loved ones? This discussion came up in our family last night and my daughter in laws family did not agree with me that they should. I said that I hoped my two grandchildren come to...

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jaswanthi ya children should attend...there is nothing wrong....

16 Feb 07