jiangxj

@jiangxj (45)

China • Age 47

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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What is more important in love,trust or understanding ?

pratyushtamhankar @pratyushtamhankar (859) • India 28 Nov 08

My girlfriend and i always tend to have different thoughts on this one. She understands me more than i understand her. And i trust her more than she trusts me. I try to understand her a lot,but it has always been difficult for men...

trust

understanding

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jiangxj It's not a simple question yet.actually,i don't know which one is more important between understanding and trust.but,for me,i always want to be reasonable person,so,i think understaning is frist.you understand her then you will trust her.general opinion works...

30 Nov 08

What brand of laptop do you have?

dinona @dinona (198) • Malaysia 10 Nov 08

I own a laptop which is given to me by my husband on my birthday last month. I really love it and it is a Dell Inspiron which is red in color. What brand of laptop do you own?

dell inspiron

laptop

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jiangxj Mine,Hp 3911v.I think it's so nice for me.i like it.

13 Nov 08

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Do You Go Back To Check For The Responses Every Time You Initiate a Discussion ?

AKRao24 @AKRao24 (27409) • India 19 Oct 08

Every time after initiating the discussion , I am really curious to see if I got any immidiate responses or not! So immidiately after initiating a discussion I go to my started section to see how many responses I had for my...

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jiangxj YES!I do.if i initiate a discussion,i will hunger to find if someone back to me at first time.and when i'm free i will go back to see. if i response a dissussion,i hope the someone will be intersted in my topic.

20 Oct 08

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Did i make aterrible mistake? I'm so confused

noxxy66 @noxxy66 (4) 9 Oct 08

I just broke up with my girlfriend, i invited her over to my place last night we had a good talk and i wanted to look at her cellphone. Suddelny she started to act wierd and she would'nt give it to me. I was getting suspicious so...

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jiangxj just now,i asked my two female workmates:is it right to check boyfriend's phone? they said "yes"."If he don't wanna let me see his phone,there are must be suspicious." one said.In fact,it really puzzled me.i don't know which way is right.because,to...

13 Oct 08

Can you sleep without any lights ?

winzpc @winzpc (2354) • Indonesia 11 Oct 08

Hi all my friends. Every night almost all people will feel tired and sleep. But someone doesn't because of their job. I always sleep at night and I need a little light that can seen by my eyes. Because without any light I can...

light

sleep without light

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jiangxj if at home,when i'm sleeping,i prefer i'm in darkness,no any lights.but when i had been in hotel,i would leave a light on.I don't know why,maybe,it's about a feeling of safe.

12 Oct 08

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What color best describes your personality?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 29 Jul 08

Hi everyone! I have a straight question here. If you're going to descirbe your personality and associate it with colors, what color would it be and why? Me, I would have to say red best describes my...

associate colors with personality

color

colors

describe oneself through color

personality

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jiangxj well,i think i'm pink.in my room,so many things are pink,such as curtain bedclothes clothes.pink is my favorite color,i think it so mild,just like my personality.and when i dress pink shirt,my workmates tell me i'm a cute girl.haha.

31 Jul 08

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Are u in love with yourself???

nakshathra @nakshathra (113) • India 31 Jul 08

I attended my friend's marriage wearing a new saree..Its color is maroon which is my favorite color and i was happy to wear the pearl ornaments with them to have a look which i would always love to have ... When i got the...

myself

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jiangxj yes,you are right.we must love ourself first,then we can love others better.but the fact is how to do to love ourself?i think, many persons don't really know that,wether young or old.in particular,those lovebirds,they love each other,sometimes,place the...

31 Jul 08

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"Silent Treatment" from a friend

angelamp @angelamp (241) • Philippines 27 Jul 08

has any of your friends given you the cold-shoulder silent treatment and you just never knew the reason why you are being treated that way?

silent treatment

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jiangxj yes.sometimes,one of my friends gives me cold-shoulder. but,i believe in that we are always friends,as i had never done anything to hurt her or him.and i will find right time to comfort him and take him from bad mood.

29 Jul 08

What do you call your loved one

@mayka123 @mayka123 (17200) • India 28 Jul 08

Most of us have a pet name for that someone special in our life. May be boyfriend, girl friend, best friend, husband, wife, son,daughter....I would like all of you to reveal what you call your someone special and why? Both past...

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jiangxj i had called my ex-boyfriend "gemen" in chinese.the words are slang.it means our love just like brothers.we can be best friends and we can drink beer togther and chat in many topics,and wether live or die,we must stay here and by the other' side.i only call...

29 Jul 08

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it this really love??

chang_lucious @chang_lucious (41) • Philippines 25 Jul 08

its been 3 years now since i broke up with him.. at first we have a very smooth relationship,, a fairy tale the one i thought will end up happily ever after..but then i'm wrong..after a year of love and devotion with him..he...

fairy tale

loving someone

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jiangxj i'm sorry to hear that.you poor.but you must know that not every love will be loved.and give sincere you may not gain the same return.so,since you chooce to break up,encourage to youself,move on.

28 Jul 08

Last midnight I have a quarrel with my wife.

angeloyan @angeloyan (29) • China 25 Jul 08

Last midnight, for it's very hot in China, I and my wife are still not go to bed. And my wife is tired and sleepy, she asked me massage her head, I often do this for she and she really love it. But,I denied her this time for I'm...

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jiangxj How to love?now ,it confused me.how to show one's respect to the other?and how to trust the other and the same time trying to protect yourself?from the lines,i knew you really love your wife,then do your best.sorry,i have not any good idea for you.

28 Jul 08

which country you like most except your home country

dawnyp @dawnyp (170) • China 27 Jul 08

i like Germany,Canada,ahd the country in north Europe.

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jiangxj Australia,i'd never been there,but this name is too important for me.my guy from there.

28 Jul 08

So, why did you decide to join MyLot?

daninuk @daninuk (145) • United States 27 Jul 08

I'm assuming that each of MyLot's 130,000+ members has a reason for joining this site. Here's mine: I discovered MyLot during one of my make-money-escapades. At first I was definitely skeptical, but I gave it a try anyway....

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jiangxj Well,i have to say that i decided to join MayLot just for a guy.we came from different country,we are uesd to speak in different launage.in order to having a smooth connection,so i consider to learn English.from my friends,i knew this online ,and later,i...

27 Jul 08

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I feel lonely and left out

deb8er @deb8er (49) 27 Jul 08

I recently had an operation and this means that I am unable to go out much but I have some visitors. The problem is this: I told my friend a few weeks ago that I really liked my brother's friend, James, and she agreed he was very...

lonely

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jiangxj that means you had been stand up?reading from the lines,you depressed just as you find yourself have a different feeling from James.right?why not tell him directly,baby?

27 Jul 08

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If he's already getting a divorce, is it okay to date him?

luisabete @luisabete (101) • United States 26 Jul 08

is it ever okay to begin a relationship with a man who is "in the process" of getting a divorce??

divorce

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jiangxj Okay,if you like!when i was 15 years old,one day, my father told me that person's life is too short,so happy everyday is most important thing .Then,i just were a little girl,couldn't know its deep means. well,my dear,do you know the means?do you know what is...

27 Jul 08

best place to making love?

pionk2 @pionk2 (47) • Indonesia 13 Jul 08

i think in cinema..

best place in da world

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jiangxj SHOWER.haha.my friendboy had said that.

15 Jul 08

are friends and s-ex and the city the same show?

srpkinja @srpkinja (375) • Canada 9 Jul 08

i was watching friends today; that episode where Monica and Chandler find out they cant have children and it reminded me of when Carollete from S-ex and the City, found out she wasnt able to have kids either. I started putting the...

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jiangxj too much regret,i hadn't seen that movie or the soap opera"s-ex and the sity",but i know that there are 4 main lady character,wearing extravagant dress,seeking prefect s-ex .perhaps,i should know the movie deeply more,as many recent fashion magazine talked...

9 Jul 08

is reading novels a waste of time??

antony2best @antony2best (583) • India 7 Jul 08

well most of you will disagree with me but i think it is waste of time.you are not going to pass exams or earn money reading novels.it is like watching a movie. after reading you forget about that and start reading another...

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jiangxj is reading novels a waste of time?no,i don't think so.i like to read novels in my spare time,whether popular or classicl ,in particular,that stresses a good story.last month,i had finished reading about two books.i enjoyed that.those beautiful or humorous...

9 Jul 08