kaesta

@kaesta (37)

Kenya • Age 40

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Would you quit your job without another one lined up?

whywiki @whywiki (6066) • Canada 6 Oct 08

I work with this guy and his girlfriend and he gave notice last week. He has no job lined up he is just tired of this one. He plans to rest for a few weeks then look for a better job. In the meantime the girlfriend works full time...

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kaesta its absolutly crazy since he doesnt have one yet, thats imature of him and he should reconsider

7 Oct 08

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what would be more romantic?

shav9292 @shav9292 (928) • India 19 Jul 08

writing a song or buying a flower or buying an expensive gift or other mention.

gift

love

romantic

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kaesta i guess buying the flowers would do, or combine two a song with flowers

27 Jul 08

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what if a genie appear in front of you and gave you 3 wishes what would it be?

heart4u @heart4u (409) • Philippines 26 Jul 08

what would be your 3wishes in case a genie appears in front of you and ask your 3 wishes and why? so guys whats your wish and why? me my wish would be honestly peace in the world because thats the best thing i could wish for the...

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kaesta i would wish to have a better relationship with my family and friends, have peace in the world and have a permanent job

27 Jul 08

best way to come out of depression

bumba1988 @bumba1988 (1220) • India 12 Jul 08

What according to you is the best way to come out of depression?What do you do when you are depressed?

depression

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kaesta the best thing to do when you are depressed is to think of the happy moments you have had, and avoid people or things that reming you of your failure

15 Jul 08

Who has the best moves:Usher or Chris Brown??

lcamos @lcamos (22) • United States 29 Jun 08

I personally believe that they are both fly dancers. I wish that I could dance like that. Michael Jackson, of course, is the best of all times though!

chris brown

dancers

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2 people

kaesta how can you ask, its usher and he gets better every time

15 Jul 08

I Tried to take my own life, Now I need your help.

HollywoodBarbi @HollywoodBarbi (618) • United States 14 Jul 08

I want to first start of by saying im not looking for sympathy or what not. By writing this discussion I'm looking for other who are in the same position as I am. Im also sorry about the length of this discussion. So Here it...

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kaesta i would advise you to reaaly love yourself,

15 Jul 08

How do i overcome stage fright?

ahyi89 @ahyi89 (15) • Singapore 14 Jul 08

I want to be brave, but i don't have the courage to have eye contacts with audience. Whether is in performing or presentation. What is the best and effective way to allow myself to talk to strangers like close friends?

stage fright

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kaesta one of the best ways to become brave is by believing in your self. you probably have a low self esteem to start with and until you work on that things wwont be easy for you. is it posible? yes, just see yourself presenting in a crowd of people and enjoy being...

15 Jul 08

Finally! I got paid?

robert19ph @robert19ph (4577) • Philippines 13 Jul 08

Hello friends of mylot. Finally! After two months of laboring on PTC sites, I received two payments from two sites. These are loyalbux and neobux. I am so happy! My wife will surely stop nagging me about these PTC sites I...

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14 people

kaesta you are luck you got paid since most don't. i will try them out

14 Jul 08

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What should I do to help my friend?

tyt2222006 @tyt2222006 (172) • China 13 Jul 08

Luo is my best friend.He lived upstairs.He and I played and grew up together like peas and carrots. So did his father and mine. We share many habbits and interests, such as football. However, Luo and I were different people and...

friend

high schools

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kaesta let him kno wthat you ask him coz you care and not that you feel you are in a better position.

14 Jul 08

Help! I'm in housewife heck!

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 14 Jul 08

OK! So here's the short version of events. This week my broom broke and now I don't have a broom. So I can't sweep or mop my kitchen floor. And my vacuum cleaner won't pick up anything since I vacuumed up a clothes...

call a maid

cleaning supplies

help my floor is dirty

mop my floors

my life

vacuum repair shops

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kaesta coming from a third world country that would not worry me a bit. just use a duster and a bucket full of water where you wipe the dust and rinse. good cleaning day

14 Jul 08

Different ages friendship

missak @missak (3311) • Spain 13 Jul 08

Do you think people with different ages can be actually friends? I don't mean a year or two, but a different generation, for exaple about 10 years... people from different generations tend to have different ways of thinking and...

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kaesta oh yes, why not? it gives you a chance to get to understand the older generation and you get some advise too. for some one who is much younger it keeps you informed about what their generation thinks and why

14 Jul 08

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I Want to Cry

misshoney @misshoney (973) • Philippines 11 Jul 08

Guys this is so weird and I just can’t understand why these past few days I am very sensitive. Like the slightest thing can make me very upset. When I travel to and from work, the slightest thing irritates me. The slightest...

sad

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kaesta the only reason i can give for all the crying is that you have unresolved emotional ties, like someone left you and you did not have closure. just take time and examine your life slowly and try to figure out what it is that you don't like in your life or what...

12 Jul 08

Go through life with a bunch of fake friends, or just a few good ones

Alex42692 @Alex42692 (167) • United States 11 Jul 08

Would you rather go through life with friends that just like you for your looks, money, etc, and just kiss your butt but really don't care about you as a person, or would you want just a few good friend that will be there for you...

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kaesta hey! there are good people out there who would make good friends and be real. the problem with having fake friends is that when you really need them they are not there. i have few but real friends and it is so fulfilling to know that they are people i can...

12 Jul 08

what do you do when you feel sad?

pinks17 @pinks17 (2192) • Philippines 11 Jul 08

If I feel sad...I get a pen and write or open my friendster account to create a blog.Now my other outlet of releasing the sadness is through mylot.I create discussions that is related to how I feel that day..I asked for...

drawings

sad

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kaesta i hardly feel sad but when i do, i reflect on my happiest of moments and it works miracles. before i knew this i would write down or type what exactly i feel and this would make me cry so i stopped. i listen to music that i love or watch funny cartoons and...

12 Jul 08

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Ending Friendship Because You Feel Left Out

lloydbelleza @lloydbelleza (1227) • Philippines 11 Jul 08

This is a very immature thing to do. But I don't condemn those people who tend to do this. I just don't get it why they should have to resort to this unhappy ending. A friend of mine almost did this to my other friends. She said,...

friendship over

left out

out of place

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kaesta that was very kind of you, you savede a friendship that will stay longer than it could. maybe your friend was going through a hard time and the others did not respon da as she expected. low self esteem does make someone feel left out or if the group interest...

12 Jul 08

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EXCUSES just because you dont feel like working today

jHoEn16 @jHoEn16 (2043) • Australia 9 Jul 08

my workmate chantelle didnt show up yesterday at work because she was on car accident that night with her friends... she send a text message to my boss that morning telling him that she cant work because of what happened... me and...

excuse

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kaesta i believe everyone at one time feels like not going to work and i guess its normal. what i cant understand is why she had to lie she was sick and caused you to worry over her for no reason at all. i once lied that my car had broken down anly to meet my boss...

9 Jul 08

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