kevends

@kevends (47)

China • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Could colleagues be friends?

susiehappy @susiehappy (135) • China 29 Mar 09

I have worked five years after graduated.But I did not make any friends with my colleagues.I found it is difficult to make friends with colleagues,but I don't know why. Now,I think there are several reasons: firstly,we come...

colleague

friend

office

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kevends I think, to make friends with each other,you two should have the common interest.so that you can have the same topic.and sometimes, if you open yourself to others,they may trust you,and would like to share their experience with you.then you two may become a...

30 Mar 09

How do you convince your parents from eating unhealthy food?

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 Mar 09

Just a few weeks ago, my parents' medical reports came out. Both of them have high cholesterol and my father's cholesterol level is actually way above the safety level. I am very worried actually and I told them to eat...

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kevends I think you'd better tell your parents what's the truth from the hospital,if they do not believe the report from the hospital,you should try your best to persuade them to do the test again in the other hospital.abd gotta let the doctor to warn your parents...

26 Mar 09

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Is smoking a sin?

hewhoeatspie @hewhoeatspie (111) • United States 23 Mar 09

It seems to me -in Christian circles, at least- that most people are not comfortable with smoking, and that to go even further, most Christians assume that if someone smokes, they aren't a Christian. Is it a sin to smoke? I...

sin

smoking

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kevends Smoking is not a sin,but smoke is not welcomed by most people,especially for those people who don't like smoking.I think you families would also suggest you to get rid of it if you got a heavy smoke.We all should work together to stop smoking as it is really...

24 Mar 09

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where do u spend or plan to spend ur MYLOT earnings..??

drdivu @drdivu (1011) • India 12 Mar 09

hey, where are u planning to spend or where u spend ur mylot earnings..?? i m planning to use them for buying myself and advanced learners tarot course..i have still a long long way to go to get there but till then i would have...

mylot earning

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kevends I never have a plan of spending the mylot earning as i have not idea how long i could get the payment.As i coming here everyday just to learning something .may be one day i would buy myself a pc.

13 Mar 09

Would you want to meet your husband's girlfriend?

SydneyHazelton @SydneyHazelton (4586) • Singapore 12 Mar 09

Recently, when my hubby told me that he was seeing someone else, I was curious about the girl. I wanted to meet him and it was arranged. Although my hubby has told me almost everything I needed to know, I just wanted a...

cheating

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kevends The so called "third-party" is really snorty as they broke other's family. I'm sorry to hear about this,my friend.Why not aks yourself,where I was wrong?or something else i didn't do well???if you're right,then it is your hubby's problem you should try...

13 Mar 09

If you have a poor friend.....

happyforever @happyforever (191) • China 11 Mar 09

Hi mylotters, I'm a college student. I came back to school the other day and started a new term. I was happy to see all my friends again. But i found one of them was too much depressed. There was sadness in her eyes which made me...

poverty

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kevends it's better to tell her what ever her family is rich or poor,it's not her contribution or her fault,she just a student yet,she was unable to improve the poor situation right now,and what she should do is to study hard,get back confidence,and by her hard work...

12 Mar 09

Long Distance Relationship

kerriannc @kerriannc (4279) • Jamaica 10 Mar 09

Well I am astonished at what is now happening in my life. It is wonderful and positive but there is a even bigger surprise. I meet a guy over the internet well he saw my profile on one of the sites that I visit alot we both share...

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kevends Sometimes,people would disguise himself on the internet, he is so good even wonderful when he chat with his net friends.and usually he/she would eager to meet each other. But things are not always good as we want.sometimes it's better to keep the mystery in...

11 Mar 09

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What do you do to get rid of boredom in day to day life?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58679) • Delhi, India 2 Mar 09

Do not you think that we live our life mechanically? We get up everyday, do our regular chores, take bath and get ready for our work and reach at our work place. Make ourselves busy in the office work, take lunch in the lunch time...

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kevends I just back to the office again,it's really borning to just staring the computer all day long.what i could to is to searching some products and wandering online

3 Mar 09

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Do you think that all young adults should go to college?

ladyluna @ladyluna (7004) • United States 2 Mar 09

Hello All, First, I'll define college or university as the post-secondary education obtained at 2-year, and 4-year colleges and universities. Do you think that every young adult should attend college or university? If so,...

college

education

important decision

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kevends I don't think all the young adults should go to the college,it all depends on themselves.If you don't really want to learn something more,then it's better for you to get a job or learn a skill in the society.Parents should support young adults' decision,it's...

3 Mar 09

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Do you wear shoes in the house?

jesssp @jesssp (2712) • Canada 2 Mar 09

This is one of those things where Canadians and Americans are supposed to differ. Apparently us crazy Canucks insist on people removing their shoes whilst indoors but people south of the border prefer to keep 'em on. Is there any...

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kevends I almost put my slipper on once i back home,but sure i don't ask my friends to do so.and i believe it's better to wear sth like slipper than barefoot in the house as most of the floors are so cool..

3 Mar 09

I find i am not happy,what can i do?

xiaojing1226 @xiaojing1226 (236) • China 27 May 08

My boyfriend and I rent a apartment together with another couple.Recently,I find we are not happy.The couple are very extravagant,so i am worried that we will pay more fee on gas,electricity,and others....so unhappy.

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kevends It always hard to share one house with other people,especially the stranger,no all your roommates would concern about your problems,so it's better to talk with them when you're unhappy.but if they do not care of your feeling,you'd better to find a new place or...

1 Jun 08

waxberry season

sophialin @sophialin (2677) • China 31 May 08

i live in ningbo,zhejiang,china.waxberry is one symbol of my hometown. now,i'm eating waxberry which is in season.it's very delicious. have you ever eaten it? do you like it?

waxberry

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kevends Waxberry is a sort of fruit.It taste sweet with a little acidity.It was rich in the southeast of china during the summer season.It's better to washed by the solt water before you eat it.It should be ate within 3 days when you pick it from the tree,or it will...

1 Jun 08

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different length of my legs

sophialin @sophialin (2677) • China 25 May 08

i find my right leg is a little shorter than the left one.it's a surprise that my legs have different length.what about you? do you have such problem? if do,which one is longer or you never paid attention to it?

length legs

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kevends I really feel very sorry for my poor knowledge,this is the first time i heard of this common thing-_- and i really never pay attention on it!!!!

28 May 08

Many touching facts about the earthquake...

youless @youless (113997) • Guangzhou, China 21 May 08

After the earthquake, many people died and are affected by this serious disaster. Meanwhile there are many touching facts move us everyday. A three year old girl called Song Xin Yi. Her parents protected her in the earthquake....

china

earthquake

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kevends yes,there are too many events move us,on the next day,i was shock by the quake when i saw the news on website,just can't believe it.When i saw PM Wen went to the frontline and guide the work,when i saw his sad face sent from the disaster area,when he order the...

22 May 08

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Thanks for people who have helped us

youless @youless (113997) • Guangzhou, China 20 May 08

The earthquake disaster is very serious and sad. Many people have tried to help by all means. Although money can't bring the dead back to life. It can't repair broken families. It can't return things to be back. Money does very...

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kevends I'm a man,but the people's action and pics.from the disaster area almost move me to tear.we thank all the people who offer their help to the hit area.God bless you.

21 May 08

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today,do you stand a silent homage for our compatriots who died in the disaster?

zz1111 @zz1111 (215) • China 19 May 08

today,on 2`28`` afternoon,all in China would stand a slient homage for our dead compatriots in the earthquake! which is happed in wenchuan of sichuan province.so,at the correct time,the alarm rings loudly in our college.we all...

stand a silent

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kevends yeah,at that moment,we're all together,we're mourning for the dead,we're parying for the survivals.We're doing our best to help them to recovery and overcome the troubles.

20 May 08

Caps on your keyboard.

BUSSY1979 @BUSSY1979 (1283) • United States 18 May 08

What do you think about people accidently hitting their caps key and than typing with upper case letters: LIKE THIS. What do you think about it? To me, it makes me think that they are screaming at me when they post to me on here....

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kevends Yes.Most people don't like to read the message in all caps. but one thing puzzle me is that why some people would say it is not poliet.For me,i think it is different,some of my clients would type the words all in caps,then I would reply to them in caps too.

19 May 08

Calling All Mylotters !! Please reveal your nationalities !!

gkthegr8 @gkthegr8 (163) • India 19 May 08

I ve seen u ppl come up wit strange usernames (not excludin myself) .. I am from Chennai, India and wanna meet fellow mylotters from India.. If u ve strange usernames, its tuff 2 identify or even guess were u belong 2 ... So...

india

nationality

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kevends It seems few people here from china,I'm keven,the username kevends is not strange at all.Ha,nice to meet you all in mylot.

19 May 08

I got an eye sore as my birthday present.

Mamagee @Mamagee (392) • Malaysia 14 May 08

13 May is my birthday. I'm the first person who came to the office at my birthday. Everybody greet me happy birthday but I felt uneasy at my eye and it became worse. it was swollen. So i go to the doctor and he gave me 2 days m.c....

birthday

present

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kevends I'm sorry to hear about that,you should have more rest and may be spent fewer time on TV(computer) would help. well,I never got a birthday present for myself.If one day i got one,i think it would be from my gf.^o^

15 May 08

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Splittin' My Brain...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 7 May 08

I have come to the conclusion that although I’m great at multi-tasking…I can’t write and listen to something at the same time. The other day I was trying to write up a discussion and respond to some discussions and Hubby started...

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kevends yes,it's hard to do two different things at the same time, you're unable to concentrate on one problem and thinking the others as well.Quite is good for me to thinking the questions,nobdoy would bother me.I think only I could do is to paly the games and...

8 May 08