ladydayle

@ladydayle (10)

United States • Age 46

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what is your opinion on suicide?

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 9 Feb 07

i need to put this out there. With the recent death of Anna Nicole Smith, and how they believe it may have very been a suicide, what are your feelings of suicide? Personally I believe if you have children here, and you are even...

suicide

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ladydayle I just had this discussion the other day, about whether or not you're condemned to hell if you commit suicide. From a biblical stance, I believe that IS one of the only sins that you can commit and immediately be banished to hell, mainly because you can't ask...

10 Feb 07

How has one place you've traveled to changed your life?

seen7560 @seen7560 (238) • China 9 Feb 07

Travel has had a huge impact on me before, opening my eyes and changing my perspective. Some places I've been have affected me more than others. Where have you been that has changed you and how?

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ladydayle It might sound silly because it's so simple, but the place that truly changed my perspective on things was on my first trip to Miami. America is known as a melting pot, but South Florida is a prime example of that melting pot in a single city. There were so...

9 Feb 07

Why do battered women stay with their husband?

Thomas73 @Thomas73 (1467) • Switzerland 8 Feb 07

This really amazes me. I know several women -- one of them being very close to my heart -- who are abused physically and mentally, beaten, humiliated, treated like absolute dirt -- and this even in front of their children! -- by...

abusive partner

battered women

marital violence

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ladydayle I think that this article covers a lot of the main reasons that women stay in abusive relationships. I have a friend whose mother was in a relationship like this for almost five years. She did have other children with the man, so she used the "stay for the...

8 Feb 07

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Should a woman take her husband's name after marriage?

strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

life

marriage

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ladydayle First, congrats on your upcoming marriage! I think that the decision to take (or not take) your husband's last name is a very personal one. For me, the decision to take my husband's name came pretty quickly. I always knew that I'd take his name at some level,...

8 Feb 07

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Don't pretend that you liked ANNA NICOLE SMITH NOW THAT SHE IS DEAD!

flagbabygirl @flagbabygirl (891) • United States 8 Feb 07

This gets my goat! I hate people who didn't like someone until they die, and then all of a sudden wow what a great person tey were and on and on. I just cannot stand it! I was never a fan of Anna Nicole Smith I thought she was a...

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ladydayle I was never a fan of Anna Nicole. She actually bugged me. The airhead personality and getting by solely on her looks was childish to me. Her show was a bore and I could never figure out the appeal. Despite that, I think she was an intriguing celebrity. To...

8 Feb 07

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Fast food worker doesn't wash hands do you eat or leave?

Justme2007 @Justme2007 (1848) • United States 8 Feb 07

Say you see a person cooking hamburgers or making a sandwich and they sneeze and continue making your food do you say something or take the food anyway? What if they go to the bathroom while you are in there and walk out without...

food

germs

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ladydayle I would definitely leave. I have no problem walking away from a place where I feel the service isn't up to par, and that's a perfect example. I've gone to fast food restaurants and a server has coughed directly into my bag...and I had no problem throwing that...

8 Feb 07

Did you meet your partner on the internet?

ginagee @ginagee (843) 6 Feb 07

I want to know if anyone has met their partner in a chat room, or dating on-line. How safe is this to do? Were the people you met geniune? how long should you talk to them before you arrange to meet? I've looked at these online...

chat

date

meet

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ladydayle I actually met my husband online. We talked via email for about three months before we finally met, didn't speak on the phone until about a month before our first meeting, and even then, we weren't initially looking for love. Five years later, we're happily...

7 Feb 07

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Going through chemo..

NobodysFallenAngel @NobodysFallenAngel (7) • United States 5 Feb 07

This is my fourth diagnosis.. I am really starting to get frustrated with my body.. I am 23, and feel like I am 90. I go to the gym, I eat right, and I take my pills like I am supposed to. I go to chemo every friday, and it seems...

depression

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ladydayle First of all, I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through such trying times at such a young age. I suspect that it's difficult for anyone but to be young and see people your age experiencing things that you cannot is probably difficult. My husband has a...

6 Feb 07

your WEDDING..TRADITIONAL OR MODERN?

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 6 Feb 07

What would you wear on your wedding day? something traditional or modern? i love traditional,dress..there is something really regl about it.. if i ever have a proper chinese wedding i want a really lovely traditional..but not...

people

relationships

traditional dress

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ladydayle I definitely think that what you wear on your wedding day should be a total reflection of you and what the ceremony is like. When I got married last May, my husband and I had a beach ceremony by the ocean at sunset in Miami Beach. I wore a tea-length A-line...

6 Feb 07

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Don't you hate bad service at a restaurant?

sweetgirl_k1 @sweetgirl_k1 (3972) • United States 5 Feb 07

We went out twice this weekend to eat and had a problem both times. We went for breakfast (just me, hubby, and the baby) and when we walked in there were no clean tables. Every table that was available had plates on them where...

bad service

restaurant

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ladydayle I find it so frustrating to go to a restaurant where you're a paying customer and be subjected to terrible service. I know that many people that work at restaurants aren't happy to be there, but that still doesn't give them the right to treat you badly. As a...

6 Feb 07

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