lemarque

@lemarque (42)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Career, love or both?

annemellanie @annemellanie (74) • Philippines 30 Sep 10

Choosing a career over love is an extremely personal choice and individual decision. Careers and love fulfill us in different but important ways. Having a solid career gives us a sense of accomplishment and self worth while LOVE,...

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lemarque career first, too! Love is important and yet after years of experience, Love without career is very depressing. You can't do this and that. You can't spend some time together coz you nothing to spend. And its really pretty depressing when you can't do what you...

30 Sep 10

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Lack of education or stupidity?

Reyachan @Reyachan (589) • Romania 17 Sep 10

This Monday we started a landscape project in a large park. The project was made to arrange the green spaces next to a newly made playground. We were suppose to work in parallel and finish the landscaping project in the same time...

education

human behavior

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lemarque I understand your side. And I also get the point from the other respondents. Maybe one mistake is on your side too, that is, opening the park area. And also a mistake on the parents side. Maybe these parents are also selfish that all they give side to is their...

18 Sep 10

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Are your friends and family interested in earning online?

puccagirl @puccagirl (7294) • Israel 17 Sep 10

Most of my friends and my family are not at all interested in any online earning opportunities, and some of them even kind of make fun of me because I try to earn online. They are convinced that it is all a waste of time, and that...

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lemarque Most of them believe you at first, but then when they try it, they get frustrated. That's because they always think that they can get too much $_$. And when you try to explain the scheme, they say oh its a waste of time. But of course, small amounts from a...

18 Sep 10

Should smoking be prohibited in public places?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 17 Sep 10

Should smoking be prohibited in public places? For nonsmokers speaking, smoking should be prohibited. First, the bad smell of smoking affect nonsmokers. Smoking is not only harmful to the smoker but also results in the...

health

smoke

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lemarque I agree with respondent 1. Imagine all the cigarette litters, ew! And its a BIG YES to no smoking in public places. I hate it when you're in a rush then the guy or girl in front of you is blowing her smoke on you. People who smoke in public places really don't...

18 Sep 10

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would it bother you if someone breastfeed in front of you?

cyatibarra @cyatibarra (123) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

I saw a woman in the mall, sat beside me and have her baby breastfeed right in front of many people strolling around the mall. at first i was like shocked because she just opened her top or blouse without thinking twice. I noticed...

family

mother

mothers

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lemarque They should just wear a cloth over her chest and her baby. I also don't like watching them just breastfeed like that. There's certainly nothing wrong with breastfeeding, it's just that sometimes it really very awkward.

18 Sep 10

As a TRUE man , i decited to fight for my girl!!!!

shevechang @shevechang (35) • China 17 Sep 10

I have been in love with a girl secretly for alomst 5 years I told her before 5 months ago well.. right now,the relationship between us may be just called"friendship" oh jezz... damn it "friendship" OKAY!the point is that...

fight for my girl

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lemarque If you have really known her for that time then you should know what are the things that would win her heart. Respondent 1 is right, apologize for what you have said then just show how much you love her. DO IT in action not in words. Show her how much you care...

18 Sep 10

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12 Hour, 10 Hour, or 8 Hour work days

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 17 Sep 10

Were I work we have 3 different types of Hours. The Nurses & CNA's work 3-12 Hour shifts and have 4 days off. The Kitchen staff works 4-10 Hour shifts and get 3 days off and there is me the poor...

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lemarque I totally agree with you in a 3-day off scheme. I'd rather work 10 hours in 4 days a week and have the 3 days off. 2 days is enough but when you want to really do other things besides shopping, cleaning and taking care of your family, 2 days off would just be...

18 Sep 10

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friends asking for things

doormouse @doormouse (4599) 17 Sep 10

i have 2 friends that ask for me the same thing all the time,i don't mind doing it though,the first always asks me to pluck her eyebrows coz she can't do it herself,and the second asks for me to do her sewing and pluck her...

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lemarque I agree that maybe we could do this some times only. But if a friend would often ask you to do it, that's a big NO-NO! Well, I only help when I really know what to do. And in your case, it seems like your friends really trust you in doing those stuff. They see...

17 Sep 10

Scary!!! Longterm plans in a fresh relationship

turist1 @turist1 (175) • Bulgaria 17 Sep 10

Come on... we've been seeing each other for only 2 months now and he's planning our next summer vacation? It's scary!Do you like this place, or that. Should we go June or maybe August. I totally freaked out. I didn't know what to...

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lemarque Hahaha really scary! Well he really feels that "you are the one" for his life. Seems that way to me. But if he really loves you well that's an act. But in your case it seems like he's still out of your league. But I hope it all works our for the next months.

17 Sep 10

will you smile at someone who smiled at you...

chiyochan @chiyosan (30186) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

even if that someone is a complete stranger? I won't mind smiling to someone who i know is familiar already in the same building that i work with perhaps - that i know i have seen this person a couple of times... but i really...

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lemarque oh yes! I always smile back. they say one smile can change someone else's day and that is true. I've experienced it so I smile back too. Most often for the reason that they may have been my past acquaintances but I just don't remember coz i really have a very...

17 Sep 10

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In your case, does long term relationship works?

beauty_denia @beauty_denia (41) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

Base on my experience long term relationship works only if there's trust, honest and understanding. I've been going out with the guy for almost 8 years. Long distance relationship is not easy and very expensive. Your honest is...

relationship

work

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lemarque I too had been in a long distance for years now. Trust is really very important. Yup its NEVER EASY, there would be a lot of doubts and misunderstanding and demands but if you're truly honest at your best everything would go fine. I don't believe that you have...

17 Sep 10

Are you a regular user of honey? If so please stop a while!!!!!!!!

Sreekala @Sreekala (34312) • India 17 Sep 10

Hello friends, Honey is the sweetest one and considered as pure because it is the gift of nature. (It is a medicine and widely used for natural treatments). I too believe like this until I read this news yesterday....

honey

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lemarque This is so true, not just from Indian companies but from all over commercial Honey maker. That is the main reason why we buy organic honey from those who really take care of them. Even though some companies don't add antibiotic most of them add sugar so they...

17 Sep 10

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partner in lonliness...

harry89 @harry89 (2330) • India 16 Sep 10

we all like different types of songs.. some of them may be common in us, but there r some specific types of songs that we love to listen to when we r alone. what type of songs do u listen when you are alone i always listen to...

songs alone

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lemarque That's right we often find music to soothe our loneliness. I too listen to music when I'm lonely. I listen to "senseful" music whenever I feel lonely. Songs that have good lyrics and tell you you are not alone. I like listening to selected songs of these...

17 Sep 10

what is a good way to confront a man who is lying?

nikramos @nikramos (698) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

this is a bit shallow but i just need some opinions on this. here goes. i'm presently in a long distance relationship. so everyday i chat with my bf through YM at almost the same time at night. minutes ago, i received an IM from...

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lemarque Did you ever think that he really went invisible mode because he was away and that he didn't want to turn off his computer? Men are always into computers. Believe me, if there was a way for them to marry them, many have done it. Most guys download stuffs so...

17 Sep 10

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why does baguio makes me feel sad......

damned_dle @damned_dle (3942) • Philippines 29 Jul 10

mylotters from philippines i'm sure most of you have been in baguio before... thinking about that place makes me feel sad. i dont know why but it does. am i the only one feeling this or is the place just too lonely?

baguio

philippines

sad

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lemarque Maybe because you were in Baguio for a wrong reason. Maybe you remember baguio because of such reasons. Baguio is gloomy at some point but its far interesting than any other place. I tell you that because I have been to places where it's sunny and bright but...

17 Sep 10

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When you overhear things you did not mean to...

chiyochan @chiyosan (30186) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

when you overhear things you did not mean to, in a public place... are you able to just not mind what you are hearing? or are you like me who more often than not still gets the whole conversation of the people next to you even if...

conversations

overheard

public

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lemarque There are some times that I really can't help but listen. But there are also times that I can easily ignore it. Most often I just hear phrases and fading sentences and I just laugh over them but for those I have to listen to are often at public...

17 Sep 10

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Tithing...do you do it?

asyria51 @asyria51 (2861) • United States 17 Sep 10

The idea of tithing is giving 10% of what you earn to your church. in turn the church, does good works with it. It is based in the bible where if you have 10 sheep, you should give the first one to the Lord. i think there has to...

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lemarque Giving tithe is not just about giving your 10% to the poor and the needy. It was a commandment given to the capable to help the poor. It is not a choice. I agree with other's responses. For us, who are Christians, this is a matter of faith. For me, I know that...

17 Sep 10

Do you watch movies online?

xorticanz @xorticanz (377) • India 17 Sep 10

I used to watch sports highlights in You Tube mostly. I havent seen movies till now as streaming is very slow in my home. I have a 512 KBPS connection and i cannot stream movies online. I used to watch all the trailers and i...

online movies

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lemarque Oh yes! There are some movies "we" categorized as simple and not so exciting to watch on movie theaters so we just watch them online or at home. Some movies online are so good. Most international movies that come up on the movie theaters in our country are...

17 Sep 10

will they back again?

k1124n4ku @k1124n4ku (122) • Indonesia 14 Sep 10

i miss them so much, they're brilliant, i like all they songs. will they back or reunion? what do you think guys?

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lemarque I loved their songs! I hope they'll be back. Not necessarily for new songs just a come back concert will do. I lot would still be watching! I miss their good and "senseful" songs. I hope they sell a all-in-one dvd of all of their songs.

15 Sep 10

Don't ignore fever...

Ayeizsha @gaiza12 (4884) • Philippines 14 Sep 10

Dengue hemorrhagic fever cases is rising here in the Philippines..im not sure what the total counts of the admitted patients in every hospitals in the different cities here but i know that it's at its peak already. One of the...

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lemarque It is certainly something not to be ignore. Fever indicates infection or abnormality in our body system. Yes, a night with a fever maybe ignored if you're well the next day but a recurring or continuous fever shouldn't. As the case given on the previous...

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