lilylove9

@lilylove9 (42)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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What will u do when u meet beggars?

heartsoul @heartsoul (311) • China 30 May 08

The other day when I was waiting for a bus, an old beggar with a forced smile came to me asking for money, and I simply walked away as I was really tired of these people. Then he went to other people, one by one, again and...

beggar

pay

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lilylove9 The same with me,I remembered that when I was in the middle school,I went out with one of my friend,when we were in front of a shop,we met a beggar who was very old,and he asked us for money,then we gave him some,but what really made us angry was that the...

30 May 08

Life is a melody

lilylove9 @lilylove9 (42) • China 14 May 08

As we all know that there was a disaster on 5.12 in Sichuan,I don't want to describe too much about it,as I think it is the memory no one want to memorise,so I only want to say something to the one who are alive that,it's no use...

live well

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How would you react when you found out that your boyfriend cheated you?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 14 May 08

Well, most of those who are in this situation can not hold their temper. Of course they will be upset? Maybe getting wild or they will do something unsual. Only very few people can handle the situation in a civil way. What if...

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lilylove9 In my opinion,it's not a wise way to get wild and qurral with him,as it will hurt yourself,maybe I'll first make out if he really cheat me and what he cheated to me,if it is beyond my ability to forgive him,I will say goodbye to him,but before I leave I will...

14 May 08

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Should Men accompany Their Wives to the delivery Room?

danoluma @danoluma (817) • Kenya 3 May 08

Hi all I came across a debate where some argued that men should accompany their wives to the delivery room as these encourages the woman during painful labor pains and it also bonds the relationship while others thought it...

relationships

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lilylove9 I think men should accompany their wives to the delivery room,as she will feel that he loves her and will not feel that frightened and alone,and your love will give her the strength,and in other words it is very content to hear you baby's first cry,isn't it?

3 May 08

thanks guys, i feel better now

rhane7315 @rhane7315 (5649) • Philippines 1 May 08

before i go to sleep, i wanna thank you guys for all the concerns that you gave to me and for the warm hugs and responds that you gave to me. i have red all of your responds in my discussion and i'm really sorry if i wasn't to be...

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lilylove9 Very happy to hear you say that,I do hope that you won't have that frightening idea next time when you are sad,do remember that we are living for ourselves not for others and nobody has the right to make you feel sad if he or she is not permitted by...

3 May 08

i just wanna kill myself today :(

rhane7315 @rhane7315 (5649) • Philippines 28 Apr 08

i think i'm most unlucky human in the world because of what happened today. i feel so depressed, upset and humiliated. there's nothing i can do right now, aside from talking to my bf, i'm just crying while i'm typing this. i feel...

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lilylove9 I am very sorry to hear that,but I do not think there is any function for you to think so,why not think something which is better and happier,if you feel that the attitude they treat you was cruel,why not tell them,or you can think about why they treat you in...

29 Apr 08

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are you difficult to wake up?

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 23 Apr 08

Haha... wake up for what? if i have nothing to do in that day, not busy, and has nothing important things to do, i will back to sleep again. But i will force myself to wake up as soon as possible if i have to do something in that...

difficult

wake up

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lilylove9 I really have some difficulties when I hace to get up,especially when the morning,but I won't wake up too late even I have nothing to do,as if I have slept too much, I will feel a headache and do not fell very well.

23 Apr 08

Looking For Some Advise.......

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 15 Apr 08

Ok this is about my son who is 8 years old. He is driving us crazy and im not sure what to do. He was just tested at school and they seem to think hes depressed. He has been a bit sad sometimes but sometimes hes very happy but hes...

kids

naughty

punishment

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lilylove9 I think you should care more about your son and use your heart more to develop his interest with you,do not play with him the old games,you can watch him when he is palying and then you can find out what he really likes,but if all of this doesn't work I think...

20 Apr 08

Do you follow your heart or your head when you fall in love?

gabrielle47 @gabrielle47 (1219) • Philippines 19 Apr 08

People fall in love in different ways. Some follow their heart and some follow their heads. It is easy for some people to fall in love and when they are in love, they tend to loose focus on what is essential and right sometimes,...

falling in love

head

heart

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lilylove9 I don't think it is absolutly to say if you use heart or head,just depend on the situation you are,but maybe when you fall in love at first you use your heart more frequently than your head,but sa time goes on,both of your passions have passed by,then you...

20 Apr 08

i love dido

729647749 @729647749 (1) 2 Aug 07

i love dido

dido

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lilylove9 I love her voice,it's very clear and genera in her voice you can forget your sad and can make your heart become very soft.

16 Apr 08

Looking For Some Advise.......

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 15 Apr 08

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lilylove9 I'm very sorry to hear that,but I think you should not yell to your son,conversly you should talk with him,very seriously,and you should ask him what he want or why he do like this,and at the same time you should find reasons on yourselves,maybe you gave him...

16 Apr 08

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Should a woman be very outstanding and strong?

lilylove9 @lilylove9 (42) • China 12 Apr 08

Recently I often feel very confused oaout this,should a awoman br very outstanding and sttrong?When I was young I thought that as a woman we should rely on ourselves and study and be as good as a man,but as I grow up and meet...

woman outstanding

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suppose... you see your bf/gf kissing other person???

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 11 Apr 08

suppose... you see your bf/gf kissing other person, whom you never meet before, and all you know that she/he is not a family... What would you do? Hi, mylot-ers, I just watched a drama and i really interested in the scene...

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lilylove9 I think you'd better ask your bf when you gets home,and let him kbow that you are really very about this thing and let him know how important he is in your heart,and then listen to what he says or explain,about his action,but don't be too exicting,as both of...

11 Apr 08

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Is it a responsibility?

mimm45 @mimm45 (168) • Australia 9 Apr 08

A friend of mine told me that as soon as she got a job her parents expected her to take care of the household expenses and to give them money. I told her that this should not be the case and that she should only give what she...

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lilylove9 I think parents are children's responsbility,but it's not like your friend's father,as the responsbility is not to say that children should afford everything and the parents need not to consider anything,it stand more about the spirit,and the parents should...

10 Apr 08

Hurt

lilylove9 @lilylove9 (42) • China 7 Apr 08

He was a friend of mine,a very good one,I can tell him what I think and what I want,I thought this friendship can last forever,but just a few days ago,he told me that he fell in love with me and wanted to be my boyfriend,I was...

friendship hurt heart

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lilylove9 Thank you very much for what yo have said,maybe I should really give him some time to cure his hurt.

10 Apr 08

Did your parents beat you when you were young ?

ximeiguang @ximeiguang (168) • China 9 Apr 08

"A mother beat her son to death because she was not satisfied with his study." This is the news that my husband told me yesterday. And I was shaken up with this news! It is quite common for parents to beat their children,...

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lilylove9 I feel I am lucky enough that my parents hardly beat me when I was young,but if I was lazy or fell the exams my mother may scold me,and I quite agree with your opinion,parents should not always beat their children especially when they grow up,as it may make...

10 Apr 08

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