Carla Wilkins

@llwilkins (384)

United States • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Live everyday as it is your last!!

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 17 May 16

Do you consider this to be OK or not (Tenants VS Landlord)

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 17 May 16

Our landlord let us know that they will be coming though to do a walk through on today between 1-5. (Big window if you ask me). My husband said he would be there so took the whole day off because of course we don't know them and...

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cassandra @llwilkins I agree you shouldnt have to shuffle your lives but that is the unfortunate thing about renting an apartment you are on their time and you have to abide by what they want because you signed a contract. What they do when they walk through your place...

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 17 May 16

Do you consider this to be OK or not (Tenants VS Landlord)

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 17 May 16

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cassandra All they are required to do is give you a notice to when they would be entering your apartment which sounds like they did. Even though you asked her to call you before they enter she doesnt have to it is more of a courtesy to you. They were going to enter your...

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 17 May 16

Do you consider this to be OK or not (Tenants VS Landlord)

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 17 May 16

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NJ Chicaa @llwilkins Like I said, I wouldn't have gone in there with unsupervised children but it was her right as the landlord. and, no, I'm not a parent but that is neither here nor there. You asked if the landlord was wrong and I gave my opinion. You didn't state...

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 17 May 16

Do you consider this to be OK or not (Tenants VS Landlord)

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 17 May 16

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Ricki Dillane I don't see the big issue here, the landlord at any time can enter the house with notice. The landlord gave you the notice not the landlord issue you left your kids home alone, and allowing the landlord to go in. So no I doubt anything can be done the landlord...

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 17 May 16

Do you consider this to be OK or not (Tenants VS Landlord)

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 17 May 16

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NJ Chicaa I don't think they did anything wrong. Personally, I wouldn't have gone in with children there and no parents around but that's just me.

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 17 May 16

Do you think it's an insult for adopted children to want to look for their biological parents?

****DANIELLE**** @VivaLaDani13 (60037) • Perth, Australia 3 May 16

Personally, I wouldn't be insulted. I'd just be concerned for my child on how he / she would handle it if the search was or wasn't a success. But either way, I'm sure a majority of adopted children would be wanting to find them...

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****DANIELLE**** @llwilkins That's exactly right. Adopted parents can provide enough love and support but they just don't have the answers for everything that the child wants to know.

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 17 May 16

Do you think it's an insult for adopted children to want to look for their biological parents?

****DANIELLE**** @VivaLaDani13 (60037) • Perth, Australia 3 May 16

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DJ @llwilkins Agreed! Thanks for your opinion!

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 5 May 16

Do you think it's an insult for adopted children to want to look for their biological parents?

****DANIELLE**** @VivaLaDani13 (60037) • Perth, Australia 3 May 16

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DJ I think it's natural to know/ get curious about your roots, DNA and blood, whatever way you think it. It doesn't necessarily means that you don't value your adopted parents.

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 5 May 16

Pet peeves in relationships

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

Let's talk about pet peeves in our relationships. What ticks u off? What can't you stand that your significant other constantly do? How do you handle it?

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LegTech I'm single. I had an ex-boyfriend who used me only for financial reasons. Money is a deal breaker for me. He did nothing but to borrow money which he failed to pay and spent it on nonsense things. I broke up with him. I don't like guys who are financially...

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 5 May 16

Which is easier????

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

Continue to pretend to love someone because everything is going great or letting someone go but not wanting to because you don't really love them.....?

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Dena If you don't love them then it's time to let go. Why hold on to something when there is so much more out there to find. It will be tough at first but you will eventually learn to love yourself again and learn what you as a person need and want. Then it will...

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 5 May 16

Which is easier????

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

Continue to pretend to love someone because everything is going great or letting someone go but not wanting to because you don't really love them.....?

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Claudia Kirkland I guess that depends on the person. if you're really good at pretending, then it would be easier to keep that going. If you're like me and you're better at being a realist, letting go would be easier because I would feel it's just the right thing to do. But...

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 5 May 16

If anyone has any great news lets hear it

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

I just completed my 90 day review at my job and my manager said I am doing awesome!!!

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Marlina Wonderful news for you, congratulations.

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 5 May 16

If anyone has any great news lets hear it

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

I just completed my 90 day review at my job and my manager said I am doing awesome!!!

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Claudia Kirkland Congratulations! That has to make you want to keep doing well at your job! Just as my latest blood work told my doctor that my health is really good, and that makes me want to continue eating and living in a healthy way! :)

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 5 May 16

If anyone has any great news lets hear it

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

I just completed my 90 day review at my job and my manager said I am doing awesome!!!

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Michelle @llwilkins 9 more months!

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 3 May 16

If anyone has any great news lets hear it

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

I just completed my 90 day review at my job and my manager said I am doing awesome!!!

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Michelle That's great! Did you get a raise or bonus too?

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 3 May 16

I have had this burning question about rush hour traffic

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

Everyone goes to work every morning and they all know that they have to keep up with the speeds of the road and obey the rules of the road. Right.....? Wrong! We have some people that are driving 50 miles per hour in a 70 miles...

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M.-L. Obviously getting into a car behind a steering-wheel can lead to a personality change.

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 3 May 16

Which is easier????

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

Continue to pretend to love someone because everything is going great or letting someone go but not wanting to because you don't really love them.....?

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sunny afrench @llwilkins love is not in everyones destiny but you should be clear about this thing. pretending love is more harmful than not loving, may be i never get my true love in life, there are also some other feelings that i can enjoy like friendship etc

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 3 May 16

Which is easier????

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

Continue to pretend to love someone because everything is going great or letting someone go but not wanting to because you don't really love them.....?

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Jay Kaur @llwilkins Yess..the world is in chaos.

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 3 May 16

Red flags

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

90 % of the time we are blind to red flags...Red is obviou/outstanding in color. Flags are meant to be seen for various reasons... and often waved around...Why do we not pay attention to these red flags in relationships

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Shiva @llwilkins When some are extra friendly, that is not a good sign. Some turn out to be sales people of those we do not require! siva

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Carla Wilkins liked this • 3 May 16

Which is easier????

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 3 May 16

Continue to pretend to love someone because everything is going great or letting someone go but not wanting to because you don't really love them.....?

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Jay Kaur It is because only illusion of love that exists.People don't even love themselves..then how could you expect them to love someone.They themselves are beggers,then how can they pour love.

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