make_it_real

@make_it_real (76)

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Which is the best human quality...?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 24 Oct 10

Human beings have both good and bad qualities.Here we are concerned with good qualities onlyThere are many human good qualities like kindness, compassion, universal love, helping nature, doing service to othe human beings like...

good luck

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make_it_real I would love to share my views to this topic..for me the best quality a person could have is the contentment inside. Thinking that other people is always pursuing for more even they have much more than others have in their lives. Even for some little things...

24 Oct 10

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which is really much important, looks or personality?

Ann_margaret22 @Ann_margaret22 (80) • Philippines 23 Oct 10

I wanna know guys, which is really much important for the majority of us, the looks or the personality? what if the guy/girl is good looking, and his/her personality is some kind of not good? what will u do? will u just ignore...

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make_it_real Hi there!..For me i am much favor to the importance of one's personality in decision making especially in committing your self to someone. It doesn't talk about the looks of your partner as long as you can see the good things in him/her for you to appreciate...

24 Oct 10

Single Forever

Toni @toniganzon (75020) • Philippines 21 Oct 10

I am surprised by the increasing number of people who want to stay single forever. I know that being single has so many advantages, including the freedom to have as many relationship as you want, but I just couldn't imagine myself...

single life

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make_it_real How i dream to live the rest of my life with someone i could really love and share everything to me in the future. Even i used to be frightened with the things other people suffering by ending up their relationship to separations and leading to live the life...

21 Oct 10

How important are you

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 9 Oct 10

This is a question that I ask my teen age visitors. Will the world stop if you do not text for a couple of hours. Will your friends all leave you? Will they be mad? I remember being on the phone for hours with people I had just...

habits

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make_it_real I can see myself as important as a part of other's life whenever i feel happy with them and make them happy when i'm around. This way i can survive through all the sufferings and challenges together with my loved ones. And how important am i is that how much...

9 Oct 10

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Pain of any sort seems to have a longer duration than pleasure of any kind

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 28 Sep 10

If we think about it, emotional pains, distresses , worries are at the back of our minds much more than pleasures . It is not necessary that one should brood over something , but what I meant was that when a person has had varied...

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make_it_real I guess it is a matter of continues eagerness for the pleasure we longed for..and once it has been in your way...and suddenly parted ways we suffer for longer period of time with pain and heartaches as if pleasure is supposed to be forever so we couldn't feel...

9 Oct 10

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Strange

saphrina @saphrina (31551) • South Africa 8 Oct 10

Just bear with me here, okay. Before i confuse myself or something. This is strange and funky. Can you when talking to someone: Either on the phone, sms, mail whatever contact method you use, feel the other...

moods

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make_it_real Well for me i could sense a person's mood to whom i am talking through net little by little along the conversations in between us. Sometimes you might get confused of their moods when they become silent at the moment you have the particular issue..this way i...

9 Oct 10

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Why are Kids now more depressed than Kids before?

freymind @freymind (1351) • Philippines 25 Sep 10

Here's the thing when I was in high school it doesn't really matter if I have a bf or not though I have that time weren't so close as to smooching and cuddling. We just talk in our sala and my mom, aunts, and cousins are roaming...

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make_it_real Even do I wondering how things like that happen to our generations now. And remembering myself even at the younger age as well as your sister I used to get curious of how is having a bf really play the part to someone else? I used to feel depression at times...

26 Sep 10

Parents imposing their dreams and wishes to their children

canaussie @canaussie (221) • Australia 26 Sep 10

I know a family of lawyers from their granddad down to their kids. There is also a butcher business handed down from one generation to another. I do wonder if any of these children ever want to be somebody else rather than what...

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make_it_real I really do agree to the thought of parents should help their children to attain their goals, but i don't agree to the thought that parents imposing their children to the things what they wanted them to do. It is somehow being unfair for those who have just...

26 Sep 10

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A weakness can be a strength and a strength can be a weakness.

carpediem17 @carpediem17 (1315) • Singapore 24 Sep 10

Oops, have I tripped you up over there. But here goes ... I realised I have a weakness for good books (non-fiction & fiction) and as such spent quite alot of money and time on that. But I've found that this has become a...

strength

taken for granted

weakness

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make_it_real First to elaborate my weaknesses and strengths. One of my weaknesses is that i appear shy to others though I am not. So for some instances, like when i am meeting people from net, they find me like that way, so at times i try to keep that impressions in me...

24 Sep 10

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Do you believe in 2nd chances?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30186) • Philippines 24 Sep 10

So when it comes to relationships, do you believe that second chances are still possible?? How about you? would you give your ex a second chance if she/he asks for it? and what won't make you give him/her another chance?

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make_it_real Yes! For me second chance is given to those who ask for it. Cause if you try to give the second chance to someone who is actually not asking for it, then how would it be possible for you to see the good result of the second chance you have given to him? The...

24 Sep 10

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Have you ever think the reason why we have to "study"?

luukimlong2000 @luukimlong2000 (658) • Vietnam 23 Sep 10

Today, many many people enjoy studying, but why? When I ask this question to my frineds, some of them said that. We have to study because it is a part of out life, if we don't study, it means we cannot follow the modern life....

study

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make_it_real With those conclusions i really agree at. There's really alot of reasons why we have to study. For some people they find it really fun and enjoying, and at the same time it's been a challenging matter for us to deal with. For other people get envy for those...

23 Sep 10

why would some women go for lesbian lovers than real men?

nikramos @nikramos (698) • Philippines 23 Sep 10

just pure inquiring mind here, no discrimination or anything of that sort. i'm really curious as to why some women fall for lesbians? well i've seen a lot of them really in love to the point of uniting in marriage. on my part, i...

lesbian affair

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make_it_real I have been also to heartaches and pains with some guys i met before, but then i never had the thought of ending with the lesbian. Though i'm a bit curious of how does it feel to have a relationship or a commitment with those. Nothing really for i...

23 Sep 10

Do you think a person can love two people at once?

MissAmie @MissAmie (717) • United States 23 Sep 10

I have major problems. A year ago my husband and I broke up and about three months later I started dating another guy I had known for quite a while. I love my husband, but to be honest, I love him more like a brother and not like...

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make_it_real I've never been to this situation as i never been married. But there are people i knew of same situation. The couple was been very good in their relationship being boyfriend and girlfriend till they got married and have one child with them. But things went...

23 Sep 10

anything for love

mayonaka1616 @mayonaka1616 (555) • Philippines 14 Jan 10

i did lots of crazy things for my first love back in high school. i pretended to be someone else and tried to be his textmate, wrote a poem for him and publish it in the school paper, wait on my window for a falling star till the...

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make_it_real I think the craziest thing i have ever done for the sake of love was when i was in high school. There's a guy a friend of mine, without knowing that we have the same feeling for each other was also doing the little crazy stuffs on me. And it all started with...

23 Sep 10