mikncas

@mikncas (73)

United States • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Is it still cheating?

mystic_0318 @mystic_0318 (937) • United States 24 Feb 07

My husband and I have been seperated for a few months now. And last night was the first time I have been out without any kids since Sept. of last yr. And did I have a good time. Well, this guy that is a friend of my brother was...

cheating

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mikncas NO, you have not cheated and have no reason to feel guilty. You have chosen to move on with your life when you seperated you need to decide if it is final or not if it is move on and try not to dwell on the past. Life is to short...

25 Feb 07

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why does a girl not love their in-laws as they love there parents

niitesh @niitesh (1653) • India 25 Feb 07

hi everyone waws wondering about this question for quite sometime now so thought of sharing it with you people. most often then not i have seen that a girl can never adjust with their in-laws after marriage? why is that so...

people

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mikncas I have to say I am very very fortunate to get the in-laws I have I love them as much as my own family. Sometimes you have to make adjustment but that comes with any marriage. My mother in-law is my mother and best friend my husbands family is very open and...

25 Feb 07

I thought she felt the same as me...

xmanofsteel69 @xmanofsteel69 (458) • Canada 16 Feb 07

The day before Valentines day, my girlfriend broke up with me. She said I never changed since we started going out...which was over a year ago (which is not true, might I add). I always tried to get her to go to the movies with...

love

pain

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mikncas I am sorry to hear this, and what an awful time to chose to spring this on you. I don't have any advice as to how to get a second chance with her but, I think instead you should consider finding someone who will appreciate you and wants to be with you. It is...

17 Feb 07

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Cheap Outing for Single or low cost families.

kathy77 @kathy77 (7486) • Australia 16 Feb 07

Hi Friends and Members I just thought that it may help some members on mylot to put an idea for cheap outings for low income families. Take kids to watch the planes, Taking children to the airport to view the planes flying above...

cheap outings

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mikncas Weather permitting we enjoy going mimi golfing it is very cheap and takes about an hour and we have a blast not once have we gone and not laughed...

16 Feb 07

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Being called Ma'am is respectful, but I don't like it.

jenalyn @jenalyn (675) • United States 16 Feb 07

Back in the days when my mother was growing up, it was a proper term of respect, and meant that way, too. But I don't feel it is meant the same way as it did then. I realize that when people call me that it is meant...

preference of terms of respect

respect

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mikncas I also do not like to be called ma'am for it makes me feel old I try not to use it either I usually just say excuse me if I need someones attention.

16 Feb 07

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Do You Allow Your Kids To Watch Kissing Scene In the Television/Movie?

Gwapako_28 @Gwapako_28 (2140) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I have 4 and 9 years old sons!When we watch television at home or dvd/vcd,everytime there is a kissing scene, i tried to let their eyes close. But usually we have an arguement,because when they insist to watch it, i tried to cover...

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mikncas It's not the kissing I am concerned about it's everything after that bothers me. It's kind of hard to shelter your kids from a kissing scene when there is kissing in even most of the childrens shows and movies anymore it is absolutely radiculous...

16 Feb 07

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Do you think that people living in the USA should have to learn English?

NYSheDevil @NYSheDevil (25) • United States 14 Feb 07

I live in Queens, NY and encounter tens of people every day who don't speak a word of english. Not just people who recently immigrated here, but people who have lived here twenty plus years. All they know how to say is, "I don't...

english as a second language

immigration

speak english in america

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mikncas I absolutely agree with you, another thing that upsets me is when you call a depatrment store or any store and you ask a question and you get "no speak english" then why in the he** are you answering the phone and why would an employer hire someone to answer...

15 Feb 07

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how do you convince your other half that you're way over your past relationship?

sevnthjuly @sevnthjuly (913) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

my hubby is extremely jealous and whenever past relationship is discussed he cant stop asking me if i still love the guy. and the rest of the discussions would come to a fight.

relationships

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mikncas Tell him if you still loved the ex you never would have married him he is the one you chose to spend the rest of your life with and you are tired of arguing over this constantly. My hubby constantly was questioning me about his buddies like there was something...

14 Feb 07

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My boyfriend and my bestfriend talking

Jestin @Jestin (560) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

My boyfriend just told me that he and my bestfriend have been messaging each other on MySpace for 2 weeks now. Yesterday, they just chatted on yahoo almost the whole day. They only get to talk to each other on MySpace first but...

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mikncas First of all I understand where you are comingfrom and am sorry for your dilema. Ladies please do not talk offense by this because I am also a lady... Honey best friend or not some women are vicious, conniving, and decietfull. I don't know how long you have...

14 Feb 07

Normal birth or caesarean?

za_applez @za_applez (66) • Australia 11 Feb 07

I would say I prefer normal birth. Oh yea its pain alright but u heal faster and the pain is only during labour.Caesarean..well tat takes weeks to heal and the scar.I have the morning after where u hv to get up and the pain..oh my...

birth

caesarean

normal

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mikncas Caesarean all the way my first was emergency c-section and yes it was a little tender for the first couple days but bearable. my second I was given the choice and everyone said go natural it is easier and you have a stronger bond. welllet me tell you it was...

11 Feb 07

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How greedy are we,you tell me?

ella1bella @ella1bella (839) 19 Sep 08

The worlds economy is in a state of decline,the depression loom nearer,the world banks are strugging to keep afloat.First of all there was the collapse of Northern rock,since thenwe have gone on,and AIG have now been financially...

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mikncas The worlds economy is in a state of decline,the depression loom nearer,the world banks are strugging to keep afloat.First of all there was the collapse of Northern rock,since thenwe have gone on,and AIG have now been financially bailed out,Lehmans have gone to...

19 Sep 08

Should you get mad when your husband make a comment about a celebraty?

Princesssonia @Princesssonia (271) • United States 11 Feb 07

What do you think, should you get mad if you and your husband are watching tv and he druling about the good looking models or artist in the tv? My husband loves to watch tv and everytime he sees a pretty girl he always commenting...

hubby bad behavoir

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mikncas Don't let it bother you, you have to remember he chose you you are reality the celebs are just a fantasy I have never seen a ring on a mans had that made him blind...the can look as long as thay don't touch. try telling him you don't like to hear about how hot...

11 Feb 07

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Who has had to tell their mother that it's ok to go if God calls her home?

gapeach65 @gapeach65 (805) • United States 10 Feb 07

My mother is in the hospital right now, she just got out of ICU today...she has a real weak heart and keeps battling poor kidney function. (She had a few heart attacks 9 years ago and has been living on less that one third of...

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mikncas I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my 4 years ago and that was the hardest thing I have had to deal with in my life, my mother is currently battling cancer I know that one day we will prob have to tell her it is ok we had a scare 2 yrs. ago with her and she...

11 Feb 07

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"Family" prisons

Kaldonya @Kaldonya (277) • United States 10 Feb 07

I just read in my town's newspaper today under world news about this: In a town 25 miles south of Madrid, there is what is known as a family prison. If parents have a child under 3yrs of age, they can go to this prison and live in...

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mikncas Depending on what the mother is in prison for and for how long if the inmate is to be released prior to the child turning 3yrs. old then yes I think it gives them a reason to work hard to get out and to better themselves also only if it is the mothers first...

11 Feb 07