mommytam

@mommytam (17)

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trust: can you get trust back?

mommytam @mommytam (17) 15 Sep 11

I went threw divorce and with my ex husband i trusted him but was betrayed.now i have a wonderful guy but its hard for me to trust he wont do the same things. he desvers it but its hard to give it.

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My kids were picky eaters.

marguicha @marguicha (227855) • Chile 15 Sep 11

When my daughters qwere small, they were picky eaters. I was very annoyed when they did not want to eat their food, forgeting that I had been that way too. But both grew up fine and their pediatrician always said that he prefered...

children

children and food

picky eaters

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mommytam that is just how some people are. I was a very picky eater when i was little. I am not as much an more but in a way i am. if it not a certain way i wont eat it. My oldest daughter is like me picky about what she eats. i tryed this generic salbary steak once....

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Did you grow up with only half your family?

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32189) • United States 15 Sep 11

This is the third attempt at writing this as I am not sure how to completely write this without giving away too much detail that you don't need to know. Either way I feel you may judge me or make assumptions and be rude. From...

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mommytam I grew up not knowing my dad. it sucked. I finially met him when i was 14. for my 15 birthday he took me out for a day. bought me stuff and went out to eat. I really didnt see him after that. but the last few years he tryed to make some contact and i am now 24...

15 Sep 11

love. love is not always black and white. but is grey ok?

mommytam @mommytam (17) 13 Sep 11

love is very tricky. but to me love means to always accept with open heart and arms for all the good and bad the person did. and is able to live with them. i mean if you kid does somthing bad you still love them. do you when it...

When you are in love

walking2010 @walking2010 (1009) • United States 1 Sep 11

When you are inlove you would do anything for anyone, and some of the things that you do for a person you don't mind doing because you love this person unconditionally, but what happens when someone take advantage and then they...

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mommytam some people dont care if they hurt you. they know that the person they hurt will forgive them. As long as they know that they will keep doing what they are doing. But somtimes people do things to hurt you on acident. peopel arent perfect. but you got to decide...

13 Sep 11

I want to ban televison and movies in my house. It corrupts our kids!

zionsphere @zionsphere (673) • United States 7 Sep 11

I tried to watch two hours of television without getting offended, or seeing something that wouldn't confuse or corrupt my child, and I couldn't do it. The shows geared for children teach them to disrespect their parents, and...

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mommytam first. trying to ban somting that crorupts kids well everything does. and you cant always keep things from your kids . but teach them about things. the good and the bad. My daughter also loves the movie tangled and she watches it every night before bed. but...

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Love your In-laws...yes, you should and must :p

Jane @jaiho2009 (39140) • Philippines 8 Sep 11

Some mother looks like a rival to their daughter’s in-law, or a monster to their son’s in-law. Whatever you, they, he, she thinks of their in-laws, one thing is for sure. This monster or rival is the one who gave life to...

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mommytam I know how mother in law stories can be scary. but when i got married to my ex husband i had a better reationship with his mother than i did him. She is sweet and kind. He was her only son. So it at first scared me on how she react to us getting married. She...

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children and how each of them are different.

mommytam @mommytam (17) 6 Sep 11

I have 2 daugters and they are a year and ahaft apart. My oldest who is 2 1/2 years old is small for her size. she grows slowly and is bottom of the chart from doctor office. yet she started walking by her self at 9 months and...

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mommytam thanks. and you enjoy yours to. I cant wait to see how my little boy is going to be.

11 Sep 11

How do you tell someone that they need to listen more?

lilbabycatapillar @lilbabycatapillar (497) • United States 16 Aug 11

Telling someone that they generally need to listen more often is kind of a catch-22. I always try to tell my mom that she needs to listen to people, rather than tell them all about her problems all of the time and talk so much on...

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mommytam People can change. but they got to want to. you can tell your mom she needs to listen more but if that not what she wants to change than she wont. the only way really for people to change is to follow the steps of recovery. first admit there is a problem....

10 Sep 11

I would do everything for you. What a statement but it is all a lie.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 10 Sep 11

My sister has been madly inlove with a guy who always makes promises. Yet, none of those promises fulfilled. I don't understand why he always hurting my sister feelings. He says he would do everything for my sister yet he has...

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mommytam there are a few ways to look at that. that he is saying it to take advanage of her. that he knows he not going to keep it. that is bad but she will have to see it for herself. but also with today reationships , he may not know that hes not doing anything....

10 Sep 11

Would you agree to live with someone you love even if you're not married yet?

jdex_143 @jdex_143 (1093) • Philippines 8 Sep 11

Hi, there lotters.. In our country, I know that it's not good to live with your bf/gf when you're not married yet. But, I think it's not that bad at all. You get to know each other very well when you live together. How...

living together

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mommytam Hi. I know is more the today thing to live without being married. but i got married and then lived with a guy but we end up in divorce after a year. My fiance now. we been living together for 2 years. and have beautiful children together. but our reationship...

10 Sep 11

What should I do?

LegitLegacy @LegitLegacy (12) • United States 23 Aug 11

Well.... It starts off like this. I like a girl. The only problem is she was asked out by my best friend before i could have asked her out! My best friend knows I like her but she doesn't... I don't know what to do. Do i tell her...

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mommytam Its always good to let someone know your feelings for them. nomatter what is a girl likes one guy but doesnt think hes intrested then she might go for another guy. but if she knows then she has the decision to make. saying your feelings isnt a crime. but she...

6 Sep 11

Love is blind

tutor2011 @tutor2011 (33) • India 6 Sep 11

We all must have heard about the famous quote that "Love is blind" but i really think that is love is really blind then why are lingerie so famous and popular??

lingerie

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mommytam that famous term is from using it as you dont see the wrong your lover can do. but to be honest love could be blind but than again it could see whats going on around but maybe content with how things are. I know when i was married to my ex husband i didnt...

6 Sep 11

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children and how each of them are different.

mommytam @mommytam (17) 6 Sep 11

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