mquidem

@mquidem (42)

Philippines • Age 52

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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This is for all those that think stay at home moms don't work as hard...

Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 16 Apr 07

I recently was asked what I do for a living. When I said that I worked from home the reaction I got was oh so you are a stay at home mom? I would love to do that. You get to sit around all day and watch tv till the kids get...

parenting

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mquidem i'm a working mom and most of my hours are spent at the office...believe it or not no matter how long your household list are i still envy mothers who can stay with their child the whole day and practically do everything for their love ones...i miss my...

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Is it okay to discipline other people's children?

MJJ1011 @MJJ1011 (107) • United States 30 Mar 07

We have some friends who do not discipline their children. Their house is a disaster because they let the kids write on the walls, etc. I have not let my 5 month old daughter be around their kids yet because I'm very nervous about...

discipline

discipline for children

parenting

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mquidem i think that only parents should discipline their children. if there's something that they don't want in the way my children behave i think they should inform me and let me discipline my kids.

31 Mar 07

Your Experiences Of Having An Operation

Brian @wolfie34 (26770) • United Kingdom 29 Mar 07

Ok, so mine was a small op which I had to go for today, after waiting 6 months. I had to report to the hospital at 7am in this morning. I couldn't drive home because of the anaesthetic so I couldn't use my car and had to take a...

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mquidem i had 2 ceasarian operation and i tell you it's tough. i call it "ordeal" that you have to go through. when i had my daughter i asked the my dr not to put me to sleep because i wanted to see my baby when she comes out and didn't wanna sleep because i was...

30 Mar 07

I'm an unmarried mother-to-be and my family doesn't know a thing...

maxen7 @maxen7 (54) • Philippines 29 Mar 07

Mom-to-be with plans on leaving home for a temporary group home for single mothers, I could only hope that by the time my parents read the letter, my dad won't succumb into a heart attack. My boyfriend, though I love him is still...

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mquidem i think that you should consider telling your problem to your mother first if you have a fear of giving your father a heart attack. let your mom help you in breaking the news to your dad. your family won't leave you. i was in the same situation too few years...

30 Mar 07

Limit on posting new discussions?

wildhorse @wildhorse (1293) • Egypt 30 Mar 07

Do you think that maybe mylot admin should limit the number of new discussions a member can start per day. This may help reducing low quality posts, when I check "new discussions" I see people posting a discussion every 10...

abuse

discussions

mylot

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mquidem i don't think there should be any limitations on posting new discussions...some may seem nonsense to you but to others they may think otherwise. i think it's an endless thingy...with all the members of my lot i'm sure it's impossible to stop people from...

30 Mar 07

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Did u study with ur FRIENDS during EXAMS at your HOME ?

andysminky @andysminky (330) • India 29 Mar 07

When i was into engineering my friends and i used to literally live together for a complete month together. 15 days at my place and 15 days at her place .. time was so crucial we did not want to waste a single minute .. so we...

exams

friends

studies

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mquidem i don't believe in group studies or studying with friends. we've tried studying for a thesis but we ended up just chatting the whole night. i still prefer studying alone in my room so i can concentrate very well. if i have questions and stuff about the subject...

30 Mar 07

300?(movie)

x1astried4x @x1astried4x (39) • Philippines 29 Mar 07

did you already watch this movie? isnt great? or not?rate it? and compare it to other movie that you watch already? let me see!!! your reaction about this movie?

x1astried4x

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mquidem yeah i've watched it and it's really great. i love the character of leonidas they were all really convincing. love it!

30 Mar 07

My Boyfriend

kitkat1 @kitkat1 (1227) • Canada 27 Mar 07

I am only going to explain a little tidbit here to get some feedback ok cause i cant explain everything. Here is some stuff i go through with the boyfriend ok. He thinks i am having a thing with a friend of mine and it not but he...

boyfriend

problem

questioning

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mquidem definitely he doesn't trust you. i had a boyfriend who's alot like your boyfriend. imagine, he introduced to his friend who he says his best friend in the ofc. naturally i was really nice to him because he was my boyfriend's best friend and because he was...

28 Mar 07

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Are you at a breaking point that you just want to give up?

Mollyjo @Mollyjo (266) • United States 27 Mar 07

There is so much stress today, every thing is so fast paced and we have to work for a living or we don't eat or have a place to live. Yet we do have a day that we celebrate in rememberance of our work. Is this day really worth it?...

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mquidem guess what? i was feeling sssuuuuppppeeeerrr stress this past few days. it's good to know that you're over it. i'm in it right now and i'm just trying to keep myself composed i'm almost at the verge of giving up but everytime i wake up in the morning and see...

27 Mar 07

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What do you prefer...a big family or a small family?

spasm061568 @spasm061568 (285) • Philippines 27 Mar 07

Nowadays, it is very difficult to support a family. My wife and I were talking earlier, we were discussing that even if we both have good jobs, and i have another job as a sideline, we still find it difficult to make ends meet....

family

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mquidem when i was younger and single i'd always tell my friends that i wan t abig family, 6 boys like a basketball team. i want a big family because i think it'll be alot of fun having lots of kids in the house but now that i've got myself a kid, i find it hard to...

27 Mar 07

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Can you say that you love all your children equally? Is this possible?

babykay @babykay (2131) • Ireland 26 Mar 07

Or can you say that you come from a family where your parents loved each of your siblings the same. I have just one son, an infant - soon to be a toddler - and we would like to add to our family at some stage. I just cannot...

brother

jealousy

sister

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mquidem I have the same fear myself. i have a daughter, and me and my husband is still planning to have a baby. i don't know but i feel that even if i'll have another child i wouldn't be as excited as i was with my daughter. i've talked to some of my friends who has...

27 Mar 07

grateful for little things..then bigger things will come..

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 23 Mar 07

I have so many people taking the piss when I say I click for pennies..but what I have managed to do with those pennies is to keep multiplying them by investing them in solid sites..So by the end of the year..those pennies have...

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mquidem hi i just started a few days ago an di kinda need some extra buck that's why i join mylot. if you have more website that you think can help me earn by responding to discussion please count me in. i'm at work most of the time but during breaks i log in to earn...

24 Mar 07

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fear of the dentist

someonesmom @someonesmom (5761) • Canada 23 Mar 07

Are you afraid of the dentist, or do you breeze through the treatments no matter what type of procedure is necessary? What is your all time worst experience at the dentist ever? Just yesterday, I had to go for a root canal,...

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mquidem as far as i can remember i didn't have any fear of going to the dentist maybe because i grew up in a family of doctors which included dentist. my aunt who's a dentist always made us feel that procedures were nothing. she would let us eat ice cream after tooth...

24 Mar 07

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To All My Dear Friends and Members - Just Letting You Know What Is Happening

kathy77 @kathy77 (7485) • Australia 23 Mar 07

To my friends and members, well you know how recently my health improved well as from yesturday I received the shock of my life as although my husband is getting on with his age now, he is normally very fit and strong but...

husband

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mquidem sorry to hear that....i hope everything turns out well wit h the test results. we'll be praying for your husband..hang in there!

24 Mar 07

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Mother tried to bury her child alive!

steney @steney (1418) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

I was watching the news yesterday when they ran a story about a mother who went to a cemetery and asked a grave undertaker to bury the child she is carrying in a bag. The mother was asked for a death certificate but she wasn't...

flesh and blood

irresponsible parent

mother tried to bury child

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mquidem i don't think a mother who is in thre right of mind can actually do this to their own child. babies are gift. they make you smile when your sad. just the mere sight a baby give s a warm feeling. this is really very sad. i'm a mother and i can say that ic an...

23 Mar 07

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long distance relationships

Gabz146 @Gabz146 (14) • Norway 22 Mar 07

people. please help! im currently engaged in a long distance relationship and would like to ask for some advice on how to manage this kind of thing. i luv my gurlfriend very much but i am having a hard time communicating with her,...

people

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mquidem i'm also in to long distance relationship and much more...he just left 2 days ago and up until now i haven't heard from him yet. when he was still here he usually calls me everyday or at least send some txt messages. but now it's like years and i wanted him to...

23 Mar 07

When you get old, would you go to a nursing home or stay with your children?

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

Aging is an inevitable thing in life, and with aging comes some thoughts of who would take care of us... or will there be somebody amongst our children who would volunteer to take care of us... or should we just go to a nursing...

taking care of the old parents

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mquidem i'd rather be with my children and the rest of family than go to a nursing home. i'll make sure that i won't be a burden to my family that's why i'm starting to save money, invest on properties so that i have something for my daughter and save some for...

23 Mar 07