nanditacoomar

@nanditacoomar (45)

India • Age 49

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Why is it easy for me to forgive?

kheyanne @kheyanne (287) • Philippines 30 Sep 07

I have been emotionally hurt by the person I love. but when he ask for forgiveness, why does it become so easy for me to forgive what he has done? Does this happen to the rest of you?

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nanditacoomar This is something that happens to me all the time.I have never been able to explain to myself why...but I do understand that my love for him helps me overcome any ill feeling or grudge that I nurse towards him,and the moment he reassures me,...forgiving him...

1 Oct 07

Would you forgive?

ranjeetkolarkar @ranjeetkolarkar (1595) • India 21 May 07

If a person whom you believe in ditches, cheats you would you forgive that person?

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nanditacoomar Its not the forgiving that is tough....its the forgetting part that is so darned tough...so much so that it sometimes makes the forgiving meaningless.You want to forgive the person you love and care for,and carry on with a happy life,and you do forgive....but...

1 Oct 07

How many countries have you visited?

serenidity @serenidity (641) • India 26 Sep 07

I was never a travel freak, in fact the thought of going to unknown places never really excited or interested me but things changed drastically after marriage. My husband loves to travel and it will be long before we settle down...

country

travel

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nanditacoomar I love visiting places myself but my husband is not very fond of going various places.I haven't really been lucky enough to visit any country tll date.I do hope I am in the near future,so I can show my lil girls lots of beautiful places of the world.

26 Sep 07

Getting back in the swing of discussions!

Mommamea @Mommamea (1215) • United States 19 Sep 07

I've been away for a while. Mylot has changed quite a bit except for the money making. My life has been a whirl wind since June. How often do you stop and look back on your life and say "where did the time go"? How does your past...

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nanditacoomar Hope you are having the time of your life whilst you are busy.Time really flies.Sometimes I really wish that I could have a grip on time...so that I can really enjoy bringing up my kids at a pace most suited to them,than having to rush with everything all the...

26 Sep 07

Do you love bi-cycle? If so at what age you learn cycling.

navtech @navtech (1773) • India 26 Sep 07

From the age of 12 I started using bicycle. When I was young I used to go even 12 to 15 miles per day. Even today I do cycling for atleaset 3 to 5 miles. Bi-cycle is something which I love more than any other transport. What about...

obsession for cycling

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nanditacoomar I too love cycling.I picked up cycling at a very early age,don't remember exactly,but between age 5 and 6.I've always enjoyed it both as a sport as well as a means of transport.Its fun and gets you anywhere without having much to bother about traffic.Besides...

26 Sep 07

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Do you care about your own needs, SAHM?

Paulyn Davis @paulsy (1263) • Philippines 25 Sep 07

Do you believe that being a stay at home mom isn't as easy at all? Well, at first, I thought it would be. In fact, the daily domestic problems I encounter seem to be even more challenging than the problems I used to have at work....

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nanditacoomar Being a stay at home mom is indeed very challenging...I am one too.Raising kids with the right values,doing the household chores and trying to match upto each member's expectations are all very demanding of you...there's actually no time for yourself,my...

25 Sep 07

Can Friendship stay for forever?

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 25 Sep 07

Some people say friendship lasts forever. Do you really believe that? How long do you think friendship could possibly last, if not forever?

forever

friendship

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nanditacoomar Any relation, in my opinion,can last forever...and so can friendship.And for any relation to last it requires nurturing,so if you are consistently in touch with your friends,and doing your part as a good friend,I see no reason for your friendship not going a...

25 Sep 07

Do you like rainy days?

navtech @navtech (1773) • India 25 Sep 07

Due to heavy rain our city flooded. We face transport problem. Every raod is full of muddy water due to water logging. For the last three days we are leading a horrible life. Met office broadcast that tomorrow we can see the Sun....

liking rainy days

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nanditacoomar I too am not particularly fond of rainy days,only that you can have a good long cozy sleep.Otherwise,I dislike the damp feeling,the gloominess of the day,...wetness all around.Rainy days just hamper normal life,specially moving around.I am just not comfortable...

25 Sep 07

do parents get irritated when their kids ask for...

diannebcrs @diannebcrs (1549) • Philippines 24 Sep 07

... extra money? my mom always gives me enough money for school: for my lunch and snacks... but sometimes, there are projects and other school activities that require contributions from us, students... and my money and...

kids

money

parents

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nanditacoomar Parents don't really get irritated when their kids ask for extra money...my parents always were very reasonable,so they never really refused ever but yes they would always question.As I am a parent now,I can their understand reasons now...its just a way of...

24 Sep 07

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How will you put a smile on another person's face? Show you care....

UNPINOY @UNPINOY (361) • Philippines 23 Sep 07

Come on now guys, we all want to be happy, let's share the happiness, and show a little love. Show the world how you care....

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nanditacoomar Smiles are contagious...so by smiling first yourself you can bring a smile on someone else's face.By saying something cheerful,maybe insinuating the other person's smile itself, can bring a beautiful smile on his/her face.Smiles take you miles in spreading...

24 Sep 07

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Do you set down with your kids after school/

marshall_blake2000 @marshall_blake2000 (304) • United States 21 Sep 07

Do you set down with your kids after shcool, and watch cartoons with them. I do I love to watch cartoons with my kids remembering back to when I was young. Cartoons sure have changed. I guess the kids like spougebob the best. I...

cartoons with the kids

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nanditacoomar Yes, as a regular feature I do make it a point to spend time with my elder daughter when she is back from school.I bathe her,give her lunch and we sit together with my younger daughter also-Its the most important family time for us.My elder one relates to all...

22 Sep 07

are you a home-mom?

meaculpa @meaculpa (338) • Philippines 20 Sep 07

I am a "new" home-mom or a "homemaker" in which I have just started this week. This means that I am a full-time home-mom. Previously, I was working but now, My hubby and I decided that I have to stay at home first and take care of...

homemaker

mom

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nanditacoomar Actually,you don't need any advice...you've already taken your first positive step towards being a good mom.That's a big decision in itself-giving up your job for your children.Putting your children's needs first,and realising the fact that they are totally...

22 Sep 07

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Car - Which one do you own?

ranjeetkolarkar @ranjeetkolarkar (1595) • India 22 Sep 07

Do yo own one which is/was your dream car? Or you had to settle down for some compromise? Are you satisfied with the one you own?

car

favourite

mylot

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nanditacoomar Owning a car in itself is a dream...talk about owning your dream car-Wow!!!Well,"if wishes were horses,beggars like me would ride".Anyways,we settled in for a Maruti-800 DX.It wasn't my husband's nor my dream car,but at that time that was the car that fitted...

22 Sep 07

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Rainy Day - Do you love/hate going to office on a rainy day?

ranjeetkolarkar @ranjeetkolarkar (1595) • India 9 Aug 07

Here in Mumbai, on a rainy day, the things turn out to be very chaotic. The roads, the highways and the railway lines get submerged under the water and the trains stop running. Mumbai, being a huge metropolitan city, people need...

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nanditacoomar I am very sleepy on rainy days.I am not affected as of now as I am just a housewife.But I do not like to do any kind of work on a rainy day.I land up feeling very dull and gloomy.So sleeping kind of keeps me from feeling so bad.But I think I will have to face...

9 Aug 07

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what will u do if your bored ?

madhucolombo @madhucolombo (47) • India 25 May 07

i browse and browse if i am bored . i read a lot of articles in the internet or chat

boredom

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nanditacoomar I do not get bored these days as I spend most of my time with my daughters,aged 6 and 1.They are very interesting and always full of life.The younger one is in the most interesting stage where she is picking up new things on an everyday basis.So my share of...

8 Aug 07

what do yo do when there is nothing to do???

ayseteyze @ayseteyze (214) • Turkey 8 Aug 07

ok i know it's a weird question but that's exactly the case. suppose that there is no movie you want to watch, no book you want to read, no internet site you want to visit, nobody you want to meet, nobody you want to talk on the...

bored

boring

things to do when you are bored

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nanditacoomar I've never experienced this kind of a moment as my life has always been the busy kinds.But I guess at such a moment you have to force yourself into doing something or the other...like take a long walk,or compell yourself into any kind of a conversation with a...

8 Aug 07

Neighbours

navtech @navtech (1773) • India 19 Jul 07

Everybody wants to maintain good relationship with their neighbours but unfortunately there are neighbours who never wants to good relationship with their neighbours. They are always interested to fight with their neighbours. What...

relationship with neighbours

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nanditacoomar Life is busy in a city like Delhi.Even if you want to maintain good relations with neighbours,there's hardly any time you can actually spend on meeting them.But yes in my building we do have a good lot...the helping kinds too.We may not chat but do exchange...

8 Aug 07

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WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE? AN HONEST PARTNER or A GOOD PROVIDER?

Euphrosyne @Euphrosyne (139) • Philippines 7 Aug 07

I am into some kind of a dilemna lately. I hope I can find some answers here. I need your honest to goodness opinion please. I hope all of you who respond to this post really understand what I mean. Thank you all in advance!

relationships

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nanditacoomar Since I value honesty I would undoubtedly choose an honest partner.I think if you are both honest in the relationship you build a strong bond and then everything else just falls in place.A strong bond between you and your partner will help you both to overcome...

7 Aug 07

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