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phaitn @phaitn (13) • Hong Kong 23 Sep 10

I am 28 years old now and I am living in a developing country with a lot of lifelong traditions and customs. I got married nearly a year ago. The marriage has changed my life a lot. I see that the differences of love before...

marriage life

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phaitn Thanks for your idea. I think the most problem between us is that the differences in our ways of living, our habits, behaviors, even our talks. We care for different fields, and each of us try to change other life, gradually it becomes the battle of ego . I...

23 Sep 10

phaitn @phaitn (13) • Hong Kong 23 Sep 10

I am 28 years old now and I am living in a developing country with a lot of lifelong traditions and customs. I got married nearly a year ago. The marriage has changed my life a lot. I see that the differences of love before...

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slipz1487 @slipz1487 (415) • United States 5 Sep 10

As I look at my 2 sons grow, I feel very accomplished as I see them grow so fast. They are my achievements in life. I know they will go through a lot of problems in the future, which are results of the choices I had made, but I...

son

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phaitn Good morning, Thank you very much for your reply. My best wishes to you and your children.

5 Sep 10

himanshuorange @himanshuorange (1145) • India 5 Sep 10

hey friends there are times in life when you feel life is boring .....many time you feel very bored .......well i listen to some of my favorite songs at that time ....... so friends tell me what you do .........

boring

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phaitn We, people,have many types of feeling and boring is a part of our feeling. We should not pay much attention to this. The important thing is how to ease our bad feeling and make our feeling better. As for me, when I am bored, I often do things that I like,...

5 Sep 10

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joddie @joddie (173) • Philippines 4 Sep 10

I have been told that crying-out will lighten your feelings though the reason why you cried is still there,but it will unload some of the heaviness in your heart. However,after crying i have this feeling, especially if some people...

cried

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phaitn Hi joddie, I don't think crying will make you weak. Everyone has their own feeling and life is not a paradise to anyone so you may have unpleasant experience anytime. In science, they say that crying will help you ease the stress you get and make your...

5 Sep 10

theagold17 @theagold17 (121) • Philippines 5 Sep 10

what and how to be a good writer? well I want to write something, but well i dont know how to start, can any one give some info of how to be... since i was young i wanted to write something about and etc... well thanks and God...

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phaitn Hi, To become a good writer is a very difficult job. I am not a writer but I like to read. Once, I read an article about how to become a writer. First, they said that it depends on your own ability; then you must have good observation. And of course, you must...

5 Sep 10

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slipz1487 @slipz1487 (415) • United States 5 Sep 10

As I look at my 2 sons grow, I feel very accomplished as I see them grow so fast. They are my achievements in life. I know they will go through a lot of problems in the future, which are results of the choices I had made, but I...

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phaitn Hello slipz1487 I'm only pregnant now, but I have a strong feeling to my child. I'm happy to have him, and I don't know if you behaved like me now when you were pregnant. Sometimes, I talk to him about my feeling about eveything. Especially, I easily get...

5 Sep 10

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kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 4 Sep 10

I am planning to go anywhere or doing anything that will involve spending money for the labor day long weekend. The safest and the easiest way is to stay home and do nothing. Better yet, log into mylot or other social network to...

frugal

holiday

labor day

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phaitn Hi kingparker, Well, I don't like holiday,too. I like staying at home at weekend and doing something I like. Maybe, I am afraid of going out and also too lazy. But my husband likes going out, and sometimes I feel we don't have anything common.

5 Sep 10

RamRes @RamRes (1723) • Argentina 5 Sep 10

Hi MyLoters I have this situation recently. I was working on a small software development firm as a freelance programmer (that is, programming in my free time, with no fixed schendule). Everything seemed to be working well, I...

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phaitn Hello RamRes, I think you should ask them the reason why they disappeared like that?I their reason is acceptable to you, you should continue your work if you still like doing that work. Otherwise, you can refuse if you feel that they are dishonest.Goodluck...

5 Sep 10

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raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

..hi fellas.. As I look back to my love story, I realized that one biggest mistake that we usually commit when we love, we try to give all our love to our partner and nothing is left for our self. Then when our partner decides to...

love

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phaitn I think you are in bad mood now, That is the reason why you said so. In our life, love is very important. Actually, it is very difficult to talk about our feeling, but I think the main reason is that we all are afraid of misery. If you love someone, and he/she...

28 Aug 10

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dccell @dccell (337) • Indonesia 28 Aug 10

Dearest lotters there something make we wonder is there really any perfect life? or is it really exist ? well it`s happen so many times to me when i saw something really amazing my hearth saying i know my life will be very happy...

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phaitn I think a perfect life depends on each person's opinion. Life is not perfect to everyone.This life may be perfect to me, but may not be perfect to others. This makes me happy. However, you do not feel the same to me. Well, the most important thing is the way...

28 Aug 10

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