perfect life?

@dccell (337)
Indonesia
August 28, 2010 6:48am CST
Dearest lotters there something make we wonder is there really any perfect life? or is it really exist ? well it`s happen so many times to me when i saw something really amazing my hearth saying i know my life will be very happy and perfect with that, but when the time comes and i got that thing only two or three days of feeling perfect but after that another wish arising ,,, so i think there is no such perfect life might be found in this world in any way, about you?
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@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
28 Aug 10
There isn't a "perfect life". There are always moments, that can be good or not, and so the life is make up of all those little moments. The thing to focus on isn't on the perfection, but ratter than that concentrating on get the better you can, do things you like and being with people you like. For sure there are things in your life that you enjoy and like, and on other moments your must do things that don't like, everyone has to face that, it's just a matter of balance it and enjoy those good moments your have.
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@dccell (337)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 10
thank you to all of my mylot friends for all of your response and comment on this matter, your all comments now convincing me that there is no and will be no perfect life on this earth, we only can have a happy life which we can all find in our own hearth and self satisfaction, be satisfied for what we have and allway trying to thanks God for everything we had... once again let me thank you all my dearest mylot community... happy life for you all...
@GemmaR (8517)
28 Aug 10
I don't think anything is perfect, but you can get incredibly close if you try hard enough. I think the thing to remember is that you have to be happy with what you're given, and don't waste time thinking about what you don't have in life. If you waste your life wishing you had something else, you will reach old age realising that you had most of the things you wanted but you were just never happy with what you actually had. If you look at your life carefully, consider what could be improved with your life, but also remember what's really good about it as well. If you do that, you will find that your life is most likely a lot more "perfect" that you previously thought it would be.
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@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
I think there's no perfect life, just like there's no perfect human here on earth. Most of us dreamed of having a perfect life but in reality, i think its not possible. There's something that is closed to perfection I guess, but definitely, there's no perfect life ever. so whatever lives we maybe having right now, its better to just be thankful, love and cherish it to our fullest so we could enjoy our lives while we're living. Good night!
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@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
There is no such thing as perfect...and life itself can never be perfect for anyone. I am not being cynical on this, but that is the reality of life. Even in fairy tales, there are always hurdles, twists and turns before the happy ending. And that goes too with how we deal with our lives. Life can never be perfect, it is on the way we see life that happiness and being near perfect life can be experienced. It is not actually perfectness that characterize a well-lived life. It is actually the acceptance and appreciation of whatever this life brings that will give us a positive outlook on it. Life is a continuous learning process, so like in school, there will always be hardship of studying and taking exams before you can actually get your achievement or passing grades. That's how life goes.
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@akn1961 (1034)
• India
29 Aug 10
life is short ,we must enjoy fully ,and should do every thing that increases happiness ,i try to spread happiness and i want to see every body happy that increses my happiness ,i am quite upset if any of my near and dear is unhappy and sad ,i am leading almost perfect life ,thanks for sharing and spreading love for life ,request u to keep on doing.
@phaitn (13)
• Hong Kong
29 Aug 10
I think a perfect life depends on each person's opinion. Life is not perfect to everyone.This life may be perfect to me, but may not be perfect to others. This makes me happy. However, you do not feel the same to me. Well, the most important thing is the way we live. We should live just the way we feel happy, but not others' ways.
@dccell (337)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 10
yup, welcome to my lot dearest phaitn agree with you the perfectness of us is in our own hearth and the way we feel and enjoying it and not in others.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 10
You are right, there is no perfect life, we as humans can only accept what is there. There is no human who are satisfied with what they have. As long as humans are never satisfied, there is never a perfect life. With gratitude we feel perfect.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Having a perfect life depends on a person satisfaction. For some couple having a family always wanted to make it perfect. For career oriented people, being successful in their chosen career makes their life perfect. If someone found his girl of his dream consider his life perfect. So it really depends. For low profile people, having peace of mind despite of scarcity in material things makes their lives perfect. On the contrary, we can never have all what we want all at the same time. Oftenly, it will come not necessarily the way we want it to be. There was really no perfect, be it in material things, being a human, or anything in life. But it is always us who will make our life perfect. In case we could not have a perfect life, let's just try to have atleast a good one.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Aug 10
I don't think that life can ever be perfect. There will always be some flaw or obstacle to keep that from happening. Life is filled with ups and owns, and joys and sorrows. If life was perfect, how would we know?
• India
29 Aug 10
Hello there is no perfect life for human beings, it is a mixture of joy and sorrow, not all wishes are ever fullfilled, we have to be satisfied with what we have.. Thanks for this nice post. God bless you , cheers. Professor. .
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
As we say, no body is perfect, so extend it to life, that there is no perfect life.
@loveaan3 (34)
• China
29 Aug 10
nothing is prefect,believe it.as for me,i can not get results as well as my classmeats.but i try to regard this as trial.:)
• United States
29 Aug 10
there is no perfect life well at least right now there isnt becuase when we go to heaven we will then have the perfect life but this is according to christians. To some other religions im assuming they have a different belief
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
i don't think that there's such thing as 'perfect' aside from the word itself.. human are very dynamic and almost everytime we are changing our standards for perfection..we may feel like our lives are perfect but it will only last a few seconds,afterwards,you'll ask yourself,is this what i really want or i need more?and before we even answer this question,we were already setting new standards,searching for new horizons,and striving for new "perfections"...
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
I've stopped searching for the perfect life because it doesn't exist. I thought that once I'd have a job, then things would be perfect. I'm already employed but I'm unhappy. I just enjoy the blessings I receive everyday so I won't feel discontent.