dad's having surgery

@webeishere (36313)
United States
September 17, 2007 2:08pm CST
I went to see my dad early this morning only to get a shock. he was now in the ICU. Seems he has many stones in his gall bladder. One or more may have passed through his bile etc etc. Details will be spared. But I just returned a few minutes ago from the hospital again and he is scheduled to see a surgeon soon and will be going in got removal of his gall bladder. then they say at least one week in rehab to assit him getting back on his feet with walking etc. So more prayers and still needed for him and especially for me in this stressful time. I'll be here for a bit then back to the hopsital. It's only a few miles away so I can visit the mandated 15 minutes then return for an hour and go back withoput much exspense etc. I wish to thank each and every member that has been praying for him and the rest of us here. the prayers are greatly needed as well as greatly appreciated. Thanks again friends na dothers here. This means so much to see all the warmth, well wishes, and prayers coming from this site. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Give him an extra hug too from me and tell him all of us on mylot are cheering for him to have a speedy recovery..that would definately help you too! Take care!
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Well he won't like me hugginh him so I'll keep the hug to myself knowing it's for him etc. Hahahaha! thanks also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
17 Sep 07
I'm so sorry to hear about your father.I'm also sorry that I mossed your last discussion about him and going to the hospital.Don't worry,your father show that he is a fighter until now and will continue be.You have all my good wishes for him.Be sure that I'll pray for him and soon I hope you come with good news.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Thanks a bunch also. Means a lot coming from you.
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@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
17 Sep 07
You are so right the prayers ansd support from this site is fabulous!!! As far as gall bladder surgery it's not as bad as it sounds, I had it done in 1980 and I was so scared and never felt so all alone in my whole life but it went well and your dad will feel much better after it's all done. Anyone having had gall bladder attacks will support me when I say the pain is something out of this world. I have sad prayers for you and I will continue to do so. Thank You in being so faithful with an update. Take Care.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
17 Sep 07
No problem about the updates. Hell I get paid for doing this after all. HAHAHAHA!!! Guess you can tell my stress level is fine and I am back to my old funny humorous self. The amazing thing about the support is that a lot is also from members not on my list and very sincere as well. Once again thanks to ALL members here. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@mummymo (23706)
17 Sep 07
Oh Grandpa Bob I did think that might happen - that is what happened to my friends mum too! I do wish your dad a speedy recovery and remember you have to look after yourself or you are no good to him! Prayers will remain with your dad and you, thanks for the update and please let us know when you have more news! xxx
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Think what might happen? I am mtrying really hard to look after myself as well. I always try but at times it's rough as hell to so. But I'm doing well mentally and physically so things are okay with me. Thanks again. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@mummymo (23706)
18 Sep 07
Sorry for the confusion - I just meant I thought he might have to get hi gall bladder removed - just didn't want to worry you as I didn't know if they would do the same for him as they did my friends mum! So glad you are taking care of yourself too - you are included in my prayers for your dad! xxx
@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I am so sorry. I will keep your family in my thoughts & prayers.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Thank you very much. It means a lot seeing this from those members that aren't on my friends list. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@maia0129 (91)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
I am sorry to hear that. I would surely include your dad and your family in my prayers. I hope he can recover fast after the operation and everything will be well for him in the coming days. And also for you as well, that things will be fine and there will be no more problems. Just be strong for your dad and for the rest of your family members. We are here as your friends praying for you all.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I have to be strong. mainly for my own asanity. I have to remain healthy as well. He is doing all right the last I sqw him. I'm heading back to the Hospital after a few responses here in this discussion. Thanks for the prayers as well. Means so much to me and dad. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@GardenGerty (157915)
• United States
18 Sep 07
You may have been here posting, making connections and finding friends just for such a time as this. I do hope and pray that the surgery is all that you guys need it to be and that it gives your dad a new lease on life.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Let me say this, with this ordeal going on now for the past 24 hours the outpouring of friends and non friends here with their prayers, well wishes, care, and concern has flabbergasted me. I am really amazed at this site and the wonderful loving people here. Thanks to each and every single one that's been in these past few discussions about my dads health. God bless everyone of you as well. Thanks all. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Im glad they found out what was wrong with him. But Im not glad he is having surgery. I hope it goes well which Im sure it will. He is my prayers for sure. And I hope your nerves are okay!LOL I know they arent but try to stay calm. Yea right! Keep us updated.
@kareng (55648)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Prayers are with you and your family. Take care!
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@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
Hi grandpa bob! (((hugs))) I pray for your dad's surgery,that he'll have speedy recovery after and that he'll be back in his own feet in no time. I also pray that God will give you all the strength that you need and for God to supply and provide for the hospitalization. Blessings to you my friend!
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
aWWW THANKS FOR THE HUGS. tHEY ARE MUCH NEEDED IN THIS TIME AND IN MY FRAME OF MIND. i REALLY APPRECIATE THIS ESPECIALLY FROM ONE WHO'S NOT ON MY FRIENDS LIST. tHE SUPPORT IS OVERWHELMING. tHANKS AGAIN. happy postings from grandpa bob !!~
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
17 Sep 07
This is sure a lot for you, and your family, to deal with, Grandpa Bob, and your dad too, of course. It seems when someone's in the hospital that things seem to change quite rapidly at times. I'm sorry to hear of this unexpected turn of events, and I'll continue to pray for you, your family, and your dad. Please watch your stress level, and try to take it easy as much as you can. There are so many here who are pulling for you, and your whole family, and I'm one among the many.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Thanks bunches. The outpouring here has amazed me. And it is also greatly appreciated. I never expected this much support from non friends here but it's happening. Once again thanks all mebers that have wished me and dad well etc. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I am glad they found the stones and he can get back to his old self again...I had to have this surgery also..Both of you are in my prayers..
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Thanks. How long ago did you have your gall bladder removed?
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
18 Sep 07
I think it was 2002..I started throwing up at 11 pm and didn't stop until 7 am the next morning...It was awful..I called my daughter and told her I thought I was going to die...My hubby was in the hospital at the time and my son was only 14 and my daughter didn't drive..I didn't go to the hospital for a couple of days...They did it laproscopically and pulled the gall bladder out through my navel..I hope all is going well with Grandpa Senior...Give him my regards and if you can squeeze a gentle hug in there to him, I would be grateful...And how are you doing?...HUGS to you...Keep us posted..
@fab315 (1231)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
Hello! Ohhh...grandpa bob i'm sorry to hear about your dad, just got online sorry I wasn't able to respond to your previous discussion. Hope everything will be well and fine. I pray for your dad's fast and quick recovery. Your dad is strong man i'm pretty sure he'll recover very soon. And as to you grandpa bob, do have a rest as well. God bless to you and your family. Take care. ciao! =)
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Thanks and don't weorry about responding to them all about dad. I understand and know you're praying for us. Thanks. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
• United States
18 Sep 07
Hope that all goes well. Praying for him! I just had my gallbladder removed a couple weeks ago so I know it's not fun. I went into the emergency room cause my stomach hurt & that afternoon I was in the operating toom.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Yeah well he's an old man with heart problems so this surgery has a lot of risk factors but if it's to be it will be. he is doing half way decent the last I saw him. Thanks also for your response. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@GardenGerty (157915)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Bob, I am on my way out the door to work, but rest assured that Dad has been prayed for this morning, and I am sure not just by me. I also pray for a spirit of peace and calm for you while you are waiting for news and progress. Heather.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
tHANK YOU VERY MUCH AND i HOPE YOUR WORK DAY GOES WELL.
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
18 Sep 07
I am trying to read your discussions in thge right order, so I can understand what is happening to your Father, poor man. I am hoping removal of his gall bladder will be a safe operation. I think it usually is. Your Dad should feel so much better after this, as I know stones are very painfull. You & your Dad have my best wishes.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Thanks bunches. And don't worry about reading them in the right order. Just seeing you here with your well wishes and support is good enough for me. Thanks friend. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
18 Sep 07
hello grandpa bob. Prayers from all mylotters, we know that your dad is going to be fine and the operation will be a successful one. We claim God's promises in the life of your dad. God will be his healer and provider. We also pray for you for strength, what youa re going through right now is never easy but God will be there to help you make it through.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Thanks. The show of the members caring and love here has been astounding to me. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Grandpa Bob, I don't know if it is my coffee or lack there of, but I could have sworn I commented on this post hehehe. But here I am again! I am praying for your father and for your family. I know this is a difficult time for you guys with worry, stress and so much going on. I am glad you can depend on us mylot friends for support! We are here for ya!
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Maybe it was one of the others you responded to. I don't remember. HAHAHA!! Thanks for everything also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
11 Oct 07
I do believe it was another post related to this. I am glad to see that your dad is doing better, I am still praying for his safe return to your home. Your father is lucky to have such a loving son and family!
• Malaysia
18 Sep 07
gall stones_sample - gall stones accumulated at gall bladder and it is at high degree of successful on surgery operations.
aaahhh!!! I feel release and relief after your mentioning about that gall stones. Grandpa Bob, to me even though I heard your saying about that word of ICU(Intensive Care Unit), but it not make me nervous or anxious anymore because you know why?. The ICU cases classified to your daddy because of his age for the surgery operation to take place. But it soothe me, because his health problem is only for that gall stones and not for other related health issue. Thanks Goutch!!!!! for all the reliefs. And now I firmly believe that your daddy will be fine after that surgery operation. No need to worry Grandpa Bob, it was gall stones....you should no longer on your anxiety, because normally for gall stones case, the degree of successful in surgery operation is at high percentage. After this successful surgery operation, you will be given the true gall stones from you daddy's body in a small cylindrical container. Keep it, at least for the mind mark value of the history. OK Grandpa Bob, everything will be fine to your daddy's health and life...Don't worry GRANDPA BOB!!! :::michael:::
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Sep 07
I appreciate thwe thoughts and kind words. Buit read the next discussion. Things aren't as easy as a normal case of gallstones. It's an infected, inflamed gall bladder thats the problem. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
18 Sep 07
You bet Grandpa. You bet. Keep your chin up and keep your faith and all will be okay. Take care of yourself too so you can take care of your dad.
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