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babytaffster @babytaffster (2236) • Chatsworth, California 5 Apr 09

My boyfriend and I broke up. He is now with my friend! He said he loved me (and still does) but now he knows he loves her. I both hate him and love him right now. He has been sending me mixed messages like "I love her, she's the...

break ups

love

relationships

stupid drama

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maia0129 I really agree with Bird123. I think you should give some thoughts to her comment. I really think her comment explains it well. Because for me, I guess your ex-boyfriend is just like playing games with you. Why would he treat you like that if he really...

5 Apr 09

fitsuresh @fitsuresh (25) • Sri Lanka 7 Mar 09

I believer both mother and father love them children. They look after them children. But when it comes to father, he likes to have daughter. And he loves daughter than son. Mother likes to have son and she loves son than...

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maia0129 Even when I was still young, I always wanted to have a daughter as a child. I don't know why I feel that way. Maybe it is because me and my siblings are all females and that to have a son, a male in the family would be new thing for us. Thank God that now, He...

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fatmansmommy @fatmansmommy (751) • United States 27 Feb 09

A year and a half ago one of my close friends and co-worker, along with another co-worker, were killed in a head-on car crash. The man driving was high and going the wrong way on the expressway. Today he was finally sentenced,...

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maia0129 I'm so sorry to hear that. Me, too, I'm really upset everytime I hear stories like this wherein those culprit who got someone killed and just got a light punishment from our justice system. I think they should be sentenced for more than 20 years or even for...

27 Feb 09

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totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 27 Feb 09

LOL. i know.. another silly question right? but seriously i have a reason. this morning, i was at a friend's house and i was complaining about that i have a dozens of laundry to wash. then she suggested that i should hire an...

chores

household chores

people

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maia0129 Of course, I always wash my own underwears. I think it would be a shame to have someone do it for you especially if you have your period. That contains your body discharges and it would be aweful to have it cleaned by someone else even with your...

27 Feb 09

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 27 Feb 09

ok i always thought that it was best to be honest with your other no matter what it was but someone brought it up today that it might not always be best to be honest with the other, because he said that his girlfriend was getting...

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maia0129 With everything, I always wanted to be honest even if it would hurt someone, whether my friends or my family. Because I believe, with honesty, things are going to be better than with lies. I really hate if others would lie to me just to prevent from hurting...

27 Feb 09

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 27 Feb 09

ok i always thought that it was best to be honest with your other no matter what it was but someone brought it up today that it might not always be best to be honest with the other, because he said that his girlfriend was getting...

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maia0129 I really appreciate your response to this discussion ben. For me, it is always good to be honest no matter what it is even if it hurts someone. At least by your honest opinion, they would know whether good or bad, what is really the truth. Keep it up BEn,...

27 Feb 09

dawnyp @dawnyp (170) • China 23 Dec 08

you will go where to celebrate it and how? i wanna go to church to celebrate it though i am not a christian.how about you?

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maia0129 I usually spend my Christmas with my family. We do have our noche buena and then followed by some simple activities which could add joy to our celebration. We do not usually attend the midnight mass but for this Christmas, hopefully we are planning to attend a...

23 Dec 08

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OKWUDILI APAI @okwusman1 (2247) • Abuja, Nigeria 23 Dec 08

I AM begining to loose interest in my wife and these days we are living a cat and dog life. How do I become a good husband to my wife?

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maia0129 First and foremost, for you to become a good husband, respect your wife. With respect there goes honesty, love and care. If you are beginning to lose your interest in her, talk it out with her so that at these early stage you can both find ways to bring back...

23 Dec 08

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miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 13 Dec 08

I just read a discussion asking the question, "Do you feel strange spending your husbands money on a gift for him"? It got me thinking about my answer to that question, of course. While thinking about that, I remembered an...

parental responsibilites

parenting

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maia0129 I really don't know the sacrifices parents do not until I have my first child. It's not easy, should others say, to become a parent. One has to sacrifice things that they wanted to do because children are prioritized first more than anything. I should say that...

13 Dec 08

edujccz @edujccz (929) • Philippines 12 Dec 08

I was supposed to forget this but it always happen to me. I am a married man at 48 and lately, I met a girl at 26 in a party, I noticed that she is finding ways that we talk, assuming that it was a business talk so i agreed. But...

girl proposing

proposal

text message

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maia0129 Those are just temptations, keep away from them and continue to keep in mind that if you will give in to those temptations you will be hurting all the people you love and that your family might be ruined just because of that...Would you like it to happen to...

12 Dec 08

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aquaroan1365 @aquaroan1365 (83) • United States 11 Dec 08

Everytime that me and my husband walks, there are persons that waving to us. Some are in their cars passing towards our directions and some are in their own yards. What a nice feeling that somebody coming your way asking how are...

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maia0129 Wow!!! Your place is such a nice place to live in. I would really love to see people who are so friendly because I know that it really lightens up the days of people especially when they are in their lowest moments. How I wish I can be part of your community...

12 Dec 08

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anna_82 @anna_82 (115) • Philippines 11 Dec 08

my mother in law and my 2 sister in laws is leaving with us before, leave here for free they do nothing but sleep and eat they don't even help us paying the bills even for the food budget because they don't have a job. at first i...

house cleaning

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maia0129 Your husband and your inlaws are so lucky to have a wife and sister inlaw in you. I really appreciate your patience for you have stand the negative attitudes of your inlaws especially your sister in laws. Now that you have given them another chance to live...

12 Dec 08

danbumpy @danbumpy (203) • United States 28 Jun 08

My girlfriend and I have been together on and off since February. We love each other very much but have had our relationship put through every test imagineable. We both have kids from our previous marriages, and both have...

help us

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maia0129 If you are really determined to be with your girlfriend and her kids, then show the world that you are sincere, show her relatives, friends, and family that you really care for your girlfriend as well as her kids. I'm sure someday, somehow, they will...

29 Jun 08

tanniebabe78 @tanniebabe78 (2934) • United States 16 Jun 08

Or are you one of those that makes them stay in because they may get sick. I am okay with letting them play in the rain as long as obviously there is no lightning and whatnot. I have been noticing than some of the local...

kid play

playing in the rain

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maia0129 As for kids, playing in the rain is such a very exciting experience. When I was young I used to play with my childhood friends in the rain and I don't get sick even once just for playing in the rain. So I think when the time comes that I will be having my own...

16 Jun 08

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prestigiousred @prestigiousred (29) • United States 12 Jun 08

Ok I was out and about today with my children and a older lady stopped and approached me and proceeded to ask me my age I told her I was 24 years old she said to me and you have 4 children and i said yes I do these are my kids and...

parenting

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maia0129 I think you should not be ashamed of having 4 kids at your age. They are your own kids. Don't mind people who had been telling you that you should be ashamed of that. There is nothing to be ashamed of, not unless you stole those children from their parents....

12 Jun 08

maia0129 @maia0129 (91) • Philippines 12 Jun 08

I pity my friend who seem to be so full of problems after she gave birth to her son a few months ago. This friend of mine became a step mom to three very young kids plus she has her own baby to take care of. As she was sharing her...

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maia0129 Thanks for the idea you shared SangsTurks, I will bring it up to her. Who knows, maybe it will help her. Have a nice day!

12 Jun 08

maia0129 @maia0129 (91) • Philippines 12 Jun 08

I pity my friend who seem to be so full of problems after she gave birth to her son a few months ago. This friend of mine became a step mom to three very young kids plus she has her own baby to take care of. As she was sharing her...

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