Doe is MATTER IF YOUR BF/GF/PARTNER SMOKING?

Singapore
April 4, 2008 1:27pm CST
For me... its really matter! I dont like my bf smoking in front of me, it smells terrible, and makes me toxic... ahahaha lol. Really... i dont like anyone smoke beside me... I asked him to quit, or we quit... lol How about you?
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@jairgirl (2877)
• United States
7 Apr 08
YES, it does matters to me and i feel my husband is the same., we both want to live in a clean home and place so it is really annoying when someone is smoking and not really bothered if someone is allergic on it or if they are endangering someone's life. it is not fair in my opinion, to me if you want to smoke you can do it at your own home but not in public area. i am just so happy and blessed that i found someone who have the same belief as i do. takecare
@Nancy_lf (34)
• China
7 Apr 08
Yes,i care .But now my job is writing down the director's words to the actors,i do not kown the name to the job.Woking here,i must adjust to the smoking environment,it is terrible and disgusting!I have no right to stop anyone,what i can do is just enduring it.
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@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 08
yes definetely. i hate any smoke even from ciggarette cause i could not breath at all. my husband on the previous time like to smoke but not kind of heavy smoker. i just told him that i can't breath if there is any smoke and he understand me,in fact he rarely smoking at now even never again in smoking in my opinion
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
4 Apr 08
My husband and I both smoke so it does not bother either one of us. We do not like to smell like smoke though. That is very weird. We do not want our house or our clothing to smell like it. We both picked up a bad habit. Smoking calms my nerves though and keeps me from eating all of the time.
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
5 Apr 08
Both me and my partner used to smoke. he quit before me an started using snus instead. My Dad smoked too. It really does not bother me if someone smokes standig next to me. I do not try to stand in their smoke, and will not do so for a long time. But i am not hysterical about it. Some brands smell really nice too.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Apr 08
Yes it matters alot to me as I am allergic to smoke and anywaysmoking is unhealthy no matter what the smokers say it is not good for you.
@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
4 Apr 08
I would not date a smoker ewwww. I have kids so exposing to that is a no for me for sure. I lived 20 years with my dad who was a chain smoker and never again would I do this to myself.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
4 Apr 08
I dont like either and I always include that as my guiding criteria in selecting a partner..Luckily, I got a husband who never smoke!
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@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
4 Apr 08
I couldn't have a smoking boyfriend. I couldn't kiss a smoker - like licking an ashtray. It definately would be me or the smokes...
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@crazylady (470)
• United States
14 Apr 08
Neither me or my husband smoke. My first hubby smoked and I learned a lesson not to marry someone who smoked. It made me so sick.
@youless (112174)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Jan 09
It does matter, I have to say. I don't smoke and I also don't like second hand smoking. As I will live with my husband all the time, so it will be bad if he smokes. It's not only harmful for his own health, but also our health. I love China
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
14 Jan 09
I do not like stay with a smoker. I think smoking is a bad habit, it not only cost a lot of money but also do harm to our body. the smoker can make the people nearby have more chances to get lung cancer. So if I find a boy who is smoking, he will have no chance to be my boyfriends.
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
21 Apr 08
i dnt like it at all...id make him stop doing it no matter wat!!!!
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
14 Jan 09
I would not mind if she smokes, but I would not like it if she smoked in my face. But I am rather afarid of loving a girl who smokes, because I feel that smokers have the habit of forcing those who do not smoke to smoke. Thus, smoking is a bad thing and so, I would avoid somebody who smokes.
• United States
7 Apr 08
I actually can't be with someone who smokes because I have asthma and it could actually kill me to have someone smoking around me or smoke around the house. So, if I did marry someone who decided to take up smoking afterwards, I would have to divorce him or live in a separate place. I also don't like the way smoke smells and it's an expensive and dirty habit.
9 Apr 08
I wouldn't date anyone that smoked. I am allergic to it and I just didn't want the hassle. My hubby doesn't smoke either. Second hand smoke does kill. Besides, it makes everything stink!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
i don't like guys who smoke actually. i mean, its okay if its my friend that smokes, but for a guy that i might possibly like, its a no-no. i would immediately be turned off with the guy if i learned that he's smoking. i also don't like the smell of smoke. and people who smoke generally don't smell nice too. the smell of smoke often sticks to their skin, mouth and clothes. and smokers usually have darker lips, yellowish fingers and teeth. ew. i really don't like that.
@bluemars (952)
• Australia
7 Apr 08
Of course it would effect me so much. I don't want to smell like that smoke. The most important thing is the smell the comes from their mouths. I like kissing and I don't know if I could be with a smoker because it would be like being with someone with really bad breath all day long and all the time. I couldn't handle that, plus their clothes and hair would always smell like the stuff. That would be too much. I like clean men.
• India
9 Apr 08
do you feel you are being fare on him. i am sure he was a smoker when you first met him. at that time was it ok with you? i dont think a relationship should have such harsh sacrifices. if you dont like the smell sure you could request him not to smoke when he is with you but to quit or you'll quit is so harsh. what say?
• United States
10 Apr 08
I decided a while back ago not to date smokers any more. I never realized how many unhealthy individuals I attracted. That is ok though. I'm now in a relationship that is going on 3yrs and we are engaged. He doesn't smoke and he dislikes smoking as much as I do.