What you will feel?

Kuwait
April 16, 2008 4:38am CST
What you will feel if your sister or brother get merried and you cannot attend to thier specially occassion.
11 responses
@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
21 Apr 08
It's unfortunate to you. Although I don't have brother and sister, but I always try go to the wedding of my cousins.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
17 Apr 08
I have a sister that I have not seen for 16 years now. she chooses not to be a part of the family. She got married about 17 years ago and I did not get to go to her wedding because my mom wouldn't allow me to. I still lived at home and the family wasn't getting along.
• Kuwait
19 Apr 08
it so sad, if she will get merried & the family is not there. hope everything will be ok my friend.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
It's not that a big problem for me, especially when you're working out of your home country. the best thing to do is, either write them a letter, a video maybe or call them right after the wedding ceremony. Surprise them, I'm sure that it will be a very touching and joyous moment at the same time..
• Kuwait
16 Apr 08
thanks to share your opinion, actually this what i think to give them a call in the of thier wedding. Thank you my friend.
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
I would surely feel very frustrated. Of course, it's my sibling's special day and I am not there to give support, etc. I will probably try my very best to attend in other occasions.
• Kuwait
16 Apr 08
yup, maybe in thier next occasion, we need to give them more support for the past that we cannot attend because of some reason.
@naseefu (1607)
• India
16 Apr 08
I only feel some disappointment.If we cannot participate in our family programs what will we feel other than that.But in the case we have any love towards our brothers then we feel only happy.
• Kuwait
16 Apr 08
your right my friend, we love to be there ut in same case that we are far we know they will understand us. thanks for the response
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Im sure to feel sad but still life must go on. This time its very hard to be always present in the most important happenings of our family's life. I failed to attend 3 weddings so far, that was when my 2 younger brothers and a sister got married. Even if I wanted to to attend but time wont permit me, im working in a very very far place...
• Kuwait
17 Apr 08
It happens to me also, my only sister get married when i'm already here in kuwait and i cannot come due to some circumstances and i'm so sad and i really cry but what i can do, nothing but i send here my warm wishes and hope that everything will be okay for here. I really wanted to attend but when you are in a million miles away and you have some work with agreements. The only thing left is mixed emotions. Happiness and sadness..I wish i was there....
@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
that would be really bad. marriage of my sibling is one of the important occasions we should attend to. im sure both of us would really feel bad. no work or activities must prevent you from attending this very special occasion.
@snowzhxq (46)
• China
18 Apr 08
It is a pity. And I feel a bit sad because I can not attend to the wedding. But I will give my best wishes to them. and send them a gift.
17 Apr 08
my 3 siblings got married when i was still in hongkong and then another one got married when i'm here in canada.so,i felt sad and at the same time happy for them.true, i missed the important events in thier lives and for our family but i'm happy for them anyway...
• United States
18 Apr 08
I am away from my family for more than a year now. My younger sister is getting married and older sister will have a new baby. The sad part is, I cannot be there on their happiest day of their lives. How I wish I can but I am on the other side of the world. The travel expenses would be too much to bear and I am employed yet. I miss my family really.