chocolate_monette

@chocolate_monette (61)

United States • Age 47

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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When A Friendship is Over

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 22 Apr 08

Most friendships die a natural death: people move, change jobs, accept new responsibilities, or embark on different stages of life. Other friendships, however, end prematurely and abruptly. When a friendship is over and you don't...

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chocolate_monette My friends and me are far from each other now. We all got married and live in different countries. One of them just stopped communicating. We do not know what happened to her. I still send email to her until recently. We were so close before (I even treated...

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dear mylot, can we have and edit button on our discussion?

tigerdragon @tigerdragon (4297) • Philippines 22 Apr 08

i have been having a lot of typo errors on my discussions and it seems that there are also some of you have errors. i only get to see it after sending it. i must admit i am not a good typist and it is not one of my greatest skill....

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chocolate_monette It is normal to have common errors. I also do sometimes. I overlooked some words and find out that I already posted it. I wanna ask about it also. Maybe they can put an edit button on this one so we will not be posting an erratum whenever we missed something...

22 Apr 08

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Do you study in silence or you should raise your voice ?

goergineo @goergineo (1498) • Jordan 22 Apr 08

when you study, will you study in silence. or you are a kind of persons that must raise your voice to memorize. which type of person you are??????

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chocolate_monette I mean, it will not stay in my brain at all whenever I raise my voice. Sorry folks.

22 Apr 08

Do you study in silence or you should raise your voice ?

goergineo @goergineo (1498) • Jordan 22 Apr 08

when you study, will you study in silence. or you are a kind of persons that must raise your voice to memorize. which type of person you are??????

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chocolate_monette I will sing or hum whenever I am studying. Not the words that I will memorize but the lyrics of any song that I like to sing at that time. I don't know why but it helps me. I do not raise my voice too because for me, it will just pass. Will stay in the brain...

22 Apr 08

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Do You Like Your Name?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 21 Apr 08

I was named after my father's old girlfriend, imagine that, and I was also name for a christmas carol, but as I was growing up I hated my name. I didn't know a single person with the same name and I felt mine was old and ugly....

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chocolate_monette It was my grandmother who gave me a name. So that means, it is an old-fashioned name. Oh well, I learned to appreciate it. I was named also after a male saint. But they added some letters to make it a girl's name. Some would think that I was named after my...

22 Apr 08

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When packing for your holiday, do you always end up packing too much??

gemini_rose @gemini_rose (16264) 19 Apr 08

Whenever I go on holiday, I do all the packing, and without fail everytime I always try and cram every piece of clothing I own in the case. Then I have to sit on it to shut it!! I mean, how on earth can I decide what I will or...

minimal

or take everything

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chocolate_monette Oh I tend to pack a lot. I was on vacation lately and I ended up not using all the clothes I brought for that vacation. It was just too exhausting for me, I mean packing is also very tiresome you know. Plus, you will also end up buying things. But you know, it...

22 Apr 08

Too much is dangerous....

checapricorn @checapricorn (16060) • United States 18 Apr 08

DO you believe or agree on this? that everything is life, when it is done too much is dangerous? or hazardous to one's life, health,career,relationship? Personally for me YES! I had friend whom I treated like my sister. Assist...

life

too much

trust

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chocolate_monette For me, I do good things to other people especially when they need me, because I just like to. I do not expect them to give me something back because this might just disappoint me. I help people because who knows, someday, I might need help too. Not from that...

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smile and the world smiles with you

monishavakil @monishavakil (1019) • India 17 Apr 08

they say, smile and the whole world smiles with you, frown and you would be alone, how far is that true to most of you. why is it more diff to smile and eaier to frown all the time. is it healthy to smile? how often do all of us...

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chocolate_monette Long time ago, I was known to be Miss Frown. I seldom smile especially when I get so busy with work. When I concentrate working, I do not look at people, I tend to just ignore them. Then one of my co-employees said, I should smile even if I am not in for...

21 Apr 08

Laugh

ankilla @ankilla (325) • India 21 Apr 08

How do u laugh loudly blasting over or just simple or silently only lips will get widen.

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chocolate_monette I usually laugh loudly whenever I am with friends but with other people who barely knew me, I will just laugh silently. My friends even miss my hard laughing especially now that I am away from them. My laughing will also make them laugh so I am happy about it....

21 Apr 08

When people smile at you, what do you do?

dmillman @dmillman (2273) • United States 20 Apr 08

Sometimes when I'm out walking, people smile at me. Sometimes, I shy away and lower my head. Sometimes I smile back. It all depends on how I'm feeling at the time of the smile. So, what do you do when someone smiles at you, and...

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chocolate_monette Smile, it is contagious. I usually smile to any person I meet on the road or whenever I get inside a store. There is nother wrong in smiling. It just show that you are friendly. I don't mind people not smiling back at me but usually, they do smile back at me....

21 Apr 08

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Can you say no to people who ask to hold your baby?

emmasmomma @emmasmomma (340) • Canada 20 Apr 08

Yesterday I was at my inlaws and my husband's step mother asked to hold the baby while I went to do something. Unfortunately, against my better judgement I said yes, handed her the baby and went to do what I needed to do. The...

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chocolate_monette I had one experience about this. My brother-in-law's girlfriend have a son. We are at is house at that time when they decided to get something from the store. The baby did not want to go with them so I told them, just leave him to me. The girl did not say no...

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Can you say no to people who ask to hold your baby?

emmasmomma @emmasmomma (340) • Canada 20 Apr 08

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chocolate_monette If you do not know the person who wants to hold your baby, Then say no or you can make excuses for not letting them hold your baby. But, if the person is in your house, there is no reason why you will let strangers in your house in the first place right? If...

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Debt of Gratitude.

chocolate_monette @chocolate_monette (61) • United States 18 Apr 08

Can you pay your debt of gratitude with money? How do you pay your debt of gratitude? For me, when you are indebted to someone, you should not forget it. It cannot be paid with money. So all you have to do is keep the friendship...

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chocolate_monette I totally agree. Any person who will just forget someone whom they are indebted, has just lost a treasure. Once you'll miss, you will find a hard time finding another. Those people do not come easy. So if you have the chance to keep them, then keep them.

21 Apr 08

Humor..

chocolate_monette @chocolate_monette (61) • United States 20 Apr 08

"Get 3 for the price of 3." I really find this line very funny. Of course, it will confuse you a little and then you will realize, it just tricks you. Isn't that funny? Oh well, check it out with Bart Simpson.

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Men & women differences

chocolate_monette @chocolate_monette (61) • United States 18 Apr 08

Do you think men and women are different especially in the case of where they come from? I believe so. I may say, it is a cultural thing or maybe just how they were raised as a person. What do you think? I dated men of two...

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chocolate_monette I agree with you sis. And since nobody is perfect, whatever is lacking in a person, his/her partner supplements to make it whole. That is why we compliment each other. We exchange appreciation. That is also how love develops.

20 Apr 08

In-Laws

chocolate_monette @chocolate_monette (61) • United States 18 Apr 08

How do you deal with In-laws? I am a newlywed so I am new to this in-laws thing. I am blessed because my in-laws are great. They take me shopping, go to a vacation with them, dine out with them and cook with them. My little...

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chocolate_monette Thanks. You're right. Mother-in-law said that it is alright at first and also said that I will just adapt in time. Lately, I am not so shy anymore with them. I tried to talk as much as I can but of course, I do not want to annoy them also.

19 Apr 08

It takes someone to forget someone.

chocolate_monette @chocolate_monette (61) • United States 19 Apr 08

Is it true that it takes someone to forget someone when it comes to relationship? I am not so sure about this one. For me, I guess it does. Bygones shall be bygones" I would say.

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Do you follow your heart or your head when you fall in love?

gabrielle47 @gabrielle47 (1219) • Philippines 19 Apr 08

People fall in love in different ways. Some follow their heart and some follow their heads. It is easy for some people to fall in love and when they are in love, they tend to loose focus on what is essential and right sometimes,...

falling in love

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chocolate_monette I would say, I used my head and followed with my heart. Luckily, I am successful and happy. You see, love will just develop. You just have to let it happen. Give it a try. You would not be a fool to let go of the person who loves you. I mean, I don't think you...

19 Apr 08

clean car.

chocolate_monette @chocolate_monette (61) • United States 19 Apr 08

Who do u think has the cleaner car, men or women? I have been riding my hubby's car, my friend's, my in-laws, my neighbor's. It depends on every person's personality I guess or maybe, some people are just too busy to clean their...

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