have you ever ignored a friend"s discussion here on mylot?

Just time. Sometimes I just don't have time to respond. I try to, but there are days when I just don't have time.

no, I wouldn't ignore my friends' discussions. I try to answer to them the best that I can, and if they are in my interest.

Yes, I have. It's hard to keep up with all of my friends' discussions and still have time to join the rest of the mylot population. I don't respond to friends solely because they are my friend. I respond to discussions only if I have something to say. Even though they are my friends we still have many differences and sometimes I just can't relate to what they're saying.

I don't know that I really -ignore- friends' discussions, for me it's more like if I'm busy and just hop on mylot for a few moments, [usually later in the day/in the evening] and when I get on their discussions have plenty of responses (twenty or more) or if their discussions are things that really don't apply to me or that I don't have an opinion about, I won't respond.

Ialways try my best to respond to all my friends discussions but sometimes perhaps I have missed one but surelywas not done intentionally. I sometimes go backover my friends discussions to be extra sure I have responded to them. I don't know why someone would deliberately not respond to yuour discssions.

Hi byola I don't actually "ignore" my friends discussions. I actually look at them, read them and if I have nothing to contribute to it I just move on. Sometimes when the above is the case a person many feel like you are ignoring them, which isn't a nice feeling. But I don't think you should post just for posting sake or just because you are a friend. I mean what are you gonna say. "Hey I'm just posting cause you are my friend but I have nothing to really add to this discussion"...I wouldn't do so. On that note. I usually go through the list of discussions my friends started and look to see which I have missed and stuff and just answer if I can contribute something or if it's interesting. have a good one

I don't really worry about them not responding to my own discussions, I know that most of them have no exact knowledge on the topics I post and that some of them are not that active anymore. I also often start my own, but whenever I start one, I must be sure that it's interesting for other members and not only to my friends. I am the same as them as well, I won't respond to all of their discussions especially when I am not really aware of what the discussion is all about and that I am not always here actively posting.

I have not ignored any of my friends discussions. I have passed a few of them up though because I just did not have anything to say or could not relate to it. I have several pages of my friends discussions to respond to right now. I am behind but trying to catch up. I never ignore my friends here though.

I am only responding when I know the topic, since, most of the topics are not within my interest and can't force my mind to get anything phrases to type! Second reason, I have this very slow connection this time that made me post like 10 in an hour! So annoying, plus my time is limited but I am trying to catch up so to respond to all the notifications in my email!

I don't really ignore them. Actually, upon logging in here, I immediately check all my friends' discussions right away and I'll see if I can answer some of them. As much as I wanted to answer them all, I just can't relate and find other discussions hard to respond to. I love my friends here though.

I would not call it ignoring, but I find that if I have nothing interesting to add to the conversation I tend not to respond. I do not want to respond for the sake of responding and make an unmeaningful response. I do try to answer at least one topic from each of the people on my friends though when I get on here.

I don't specifically "not" respond to my friend's discussions. I don't have my friends set up to get automatic notifications when they start a discussion. Mostly because I get a ton of myLot notifications already when I get responses either to my discussions or to responses from me in other discussions. So, here is how I pick what to respond to, I use my sorties. I use the sorties on my interests and the sortie showing my friend's discussions. So, I pick and choose what I want to respond to that way. And, occasionally that means I miss some of my friend's discussions. Other times, something they started either leaves me having nothing to add to the discussion or, doesn't interest me at all. I don't want to go into a discussion from one of my friends simply to say something of no substance just to make sure they know I care. Does that make sense? So, as long as I have something to say...something with substance...I will respond. Also, not all of my friends respond to my discussions and, I don't get mad at them for that. I understand that their involvement here is probably as busy as mine and, that means that I might fall by the waist side and, that is OK. I don't expect everyone on my list to pay attention to me all the time. You simply can't. This site is always so busy. And, if you ignore other discussions because they aren't on your friends list and you don't have time to respond to anything else because you spend all of your time responding to your friend's discussions, you risk not getting to know other people here as well. So, I try to spread my time evenly but, I think I miss most of the time. I don't do it to begrudge anyone and, I hope that all of my friends in my friends list know me well enough to know that I am not picking some friends and ignoring them on purpose. I value all of my friends here. Whether I always show it, or rarely show it! I really do try! But, there are only so many hours in a day!

I don't specifically "not" respond to my friend's discussions. I don't have my friends set up to get automatic notifications when they start a discussion. Mostly because I get a ton of myLot notifications already when I get responses either to my discussions or to responses from me in other discussions. So, here is how I pick what to respond to, I use my sorties. I use the sorties on my interests and the sortie showing my friend's discussions. So, I pick and choose what I want to respond to that way. And, occasionally that means I miss some of my friend's discussions. Other times, something they started either leaves me having nothing to add to the discussion or, doesn't interest me at all. I don't want to go into a discussion from one of my friends simply to say something of no substance just to make sure they know I care. Does that make sense? So, as long as I have something to say...something with substance...I will respond. Also, not all of my friends respond to my discussions and, I don't get mad at them for that. I understand that their involvement here is probably as busy as mine and, that means that I might fall by the waist side and, that is OK. I don't expect everyone on my list to pay attention to me all the time. You simply can't. This site is always so busy. And, if you ignore other discussions because they aren't on your friends list and you don't have time to respond to anything else because you spend all of your time responding to your friend's discussions, you risk not getting to know other people here as well. So, I try to spread my time evenly but, I think I miss most of the time. I don't do it to begrudge anyone and, I hope that all of my friends in my friends list know me well enough to know that I am not picking some friends and ignoring them on purpose. I value all of my friends here. Whether I always show it, or rarely show it! I really do try! But, there are only so many hours in a day!

Hey byola. I finally find your discussion again. Last night the network was really bad for me to post a response. As to me, I try to respond to my friends' discussion, but not all of them. I only choose those I fell like having something to say. I hope I didn't let you down. Be joyful

Yes I do ignore my friends' discussions at times.Especially when the discussion is concerned with the geography of their place asking for the directions and about their cities like that.

well, i myself also don't respond to all my friends' discussions here... it is simply because they are too much... i just can't handle all of them... but i try my best to respond to my friends' discussions when i have the time... my reason for not responding is pretty simple... i just don't have enough time here as i am also working full time...

I try to respond to at least some of everyone's discussions on my friend list. I don't respond to all of them because some of them I know nothing about and can't contribute.

I do skip certain discussions! If I cannot think of anything to say, or responding is taking me longer, cannot think whatever, then I will skip the discussion until I have more time! I did not think that we had to respond to every discussion our friends start! I have a lot of friends at myLot now, and I cannot answer every discussion! I want to participate as quickly and as often as possible, so I can get some earnings but sometimes I cannot think of any good answer and to answer with just any words at all, will not make sense to me!

Yes, but I know someone in particular, but I am not calling any names. It makes me feel bad when this person does this. It is like they don't care for me... It is like they don't like me, but they never have met me. I thought that I was the only person experiencing this on myLot. I guess I was wrong. Since you have brought it up, I feel better just knowing that I am not the only one who feels this way.