Do you feel bad if you don't get a single Friend's request any day?

@subha12 (18441)
India
July 10, 2008 11:47pm CST
Do you feel bad or its really do not matter to you? I feel good when I get many friends' request each day. there are some days when i get none. so i feel bad obviously. what about you? do you pay attention to it?
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22 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
11 Jul 08
I actually don't...I believed 360+ is a lot already where a lot of it are not active anymore..LOL! But, i am hoping they'll be back soon. I'll be glad to receive request but it don't bother me if in a day or week, i will not get any! A lot of times, I am the one sending a request, I am trying to add active people here so that I have a lot of post to be responded and additional responses I will receive whenever I will start a topic.
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
11 Jul 08
No subha I dont feel bad when I dont get a friends request everyday. I use to when I first joined mylot.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
11 Jul 08
There are people here just added as many as 3000 to 4000 friends. Tell me honestly how realistic it is. Just to have the number as if we are keen on number game. I keep adding new friends but once in a month or two, I just delete those who are not active. I strictly go by those who respond to my discussion topic, I respond to their topics. If there is no quid pro, I end up only in giving response and not getting any for mine, however good/bad my discussions are.
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
Nah... It really doesn't matter, I mean, if I get friend requests, great. If not, it's okay as well. I mean, I can still move freely around MyLot, respond to posts and chat with people. =)
• India
11 Jul 08
This can only be the case for such a long-timer such as you. For me, getting a new friend request is the exception, not the rule. So, of course, I feel happy when I get one, but I feel more happy when people respond to my discussions, which is also, the exception. You must have taken these things for granted, as all your discussions get over 40 responses, on the average. I really don't expect anything from here, as I'm not still in a position where I can expect more. All I concentrate on here is giving better responses to people and getting good comments from them in reply. These small things themselves make me happy. I don't even expect many responses of mine to be selected as the best, you see.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
its always nice to get one. no i do not get each day.
• India
11 Jul 08
You really have this habit of one-liner comments, I see that. I could have done with something a bit longer than that.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
I fell happey when i get friends's request... but it doesn't really bother me when i don't... since i already have a lot in my list... and i want to concentrate on those that are there... since i try to respond most of the discussions that they start... even though they don't actually respond to mine...
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
its true to concentarte on friends we alraedy have.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
Thanks for the best response mark...
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Jul 08
It certainly feels good when I get a request but I hardly get upset if I don't get one. I kind of miss it. But the pleasure of getting one is unmatchable.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
its really good to get one.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
11 Jul 08
I have alot of friends here at Mylot. It really doesn't bother me if I get new requests or not. I have a hard time keeping up with my friends discussions right now. I always accept my new friend requests though. We can never have too many of them, especially at Mylot.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
may be we can't have too many friends here.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
hi subha! i definitely feel good when i receive friend requests even if its just only one but i don't feel bad when i don't get one. but i feel bad when my friend requested is not accepted. although i hardly ever know if my friend request is denied because i often forgot who i have sent a friend request to. ^__^;; but i don't really feel bad if i don't receive even one request for a day. especially now that i'm kinda behind everything since i'm still going over old discussions of my friends including yours, so i understand if i am not receiving any friend requests at all.
• India
11 Jul 08
nOPE, I DONT FEEL BAD, I DONT EVEN BOTHER ABOUT IT, I GET FRENDZ REQUESTS NOT OFTEN, AND DAYS TOGETHER I DONT HAVE ANY1 TO WANT ME ADD.SO I GUESS ITS ALL OKAY....
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
thanks for the response.
@mayka123 (16555)
• India
11 Jul 08
I do get disappointed on days when I dont receive a friend request. But then I try and send a request to someone on that day.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
its nice way to add more.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Jul 08
subha12 no I dont feel bad if I dont get a best response everyday because I often get three or four at a time. Ijust go about my business mylotting and do not fret thesmall' stuff and most stuff is small lol. life is to short to be fretting all thetime. smile. be happy
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
its true life is short.thanks for the response.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
With your number of posts, you must be very popular here now. That is why you are getting many friend requests per day. While me, I have only 500+ posts and I receive only a few friend request. So in my case, I am the one sending friend requests. So I don't really pay attention if I don't get friend requests in a day. But I feel really glad when someone who has four digits number of posts would send me a friend requests. I mean, they shouldn't be doing that because in their state they should be the one receiving friend requests, and for me if they would send a friend request, that person must be someone who posts discussions that they like or some other good reasons.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jul 08
I am not taht much popular. i do not get much response, also not much friends' request.
• India
10 Sep 08
hi buddy.. really i will feel lite when i didnt notice any friend responses per day.. but later i will be much practical.. no matter anyone gives me new friend requests, i will search for new friends and i will give them requests and i will feel much if they are still pending after a day also.. thanks for starting a nice discussion.. happy mylotting
@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
12 Jul 08
If there are days that I don't get a friend request, it really doesn't bother me. I already have so many wonderful friends here that make up for it a hundred fold. Yes, I always look to see if I have any requests when I first log in, but if there aren't any I don't let it ruin my time here.
• India
14 Jul 08
No, i don't have any such disappointments.. Infact i try to have the minimum friends here, and even in real life.. I am selective in making friends.. But once i make good friends.. i will do the maximum help for them, if it brings them good and peace in their life.
@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
12 Jul 08
No subha,I don't feel bad at all.I am happy that the friends I already have are good enough.But I do accept new friends request whenever i get.I also request friends add when I feel like.
@4mymak (1793)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 08
nope.. i dont feel anything.. i think i have enough friends - with loads of discussions posted everyday, and i can hardly keep up to respond to all of them.. it is good when i do get 'friend's request'.. but i would rather treat the ones i already have as nicely as i possibly could... that applies the same in 'real life' also...
@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
14 Jul 08
i don't feel bad if on some days i don't get a friend request. it really doesn't matter to me either way. but i do feel great when someone want to be my friend. I welcome everyone.
@Ricky007 (512)
12 Jul 08
I don't feel bad at all.. feeling bad would not get me friend request and i really don't bother people send me request or not..its upto them. By God's grace, i have enough friends and getting frnd requests also.. :)