meke friends with yourself first
By DocJennifer
@DocJennifer (107)
China
September 3, 2008 2:52am CST
Sometimes I feel lonely maybe because I have no sisters or brothers in my famlly. Sometimes I feel alone maybe becaouse I am not good at sociallity. Sometimes I want to make friends with anyone to communicate or play with them, but sometimes I want to be alone sitting in my bedroom quietly with the light music. So I have the double characters sometimes I am friendly but sometimes I am in fuss. How to do can make me peace, I think I should make friends with myself first. After that I can make friends with other people. Do you agree with me? Or you have best measure to make me gentle always.
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5 responses
@Grudee (66)
• Thailand
3 Sep 08
Hi Jennifer,
Be friend with yourself is a good idea. But in real life, you can make new friends everyday. Walking down the street and speak with the strangers is not that hard to do just depend to the situation at that time.
I, sometime, found myself alone but don't feel lonely at all since I have a lot of things to do like listen to the music, reading books or playing games.
@DocJennifer (107)
• China
3 Sep 08
Thank you. I will accept your advice to make new friends everyday outsides or by network. I like listening to the music too. Do you like backstreet boys?
@DocJennifer (107)
• China
4 Sep 08
oh you like the rock music, if in the dancery i also like the music with the light. when we dance along with the music, that can make me feel nothing. after sweating i feel comfortble.
@DocJennifer (107)
• China
10 Sep 08
Thank you for your reply. As if I heard this sentence before, but I don't remember who said it either.
@celticeagle (160015)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Sep 08
I can relate to the no siblings thing. Can be pretty lonely. I also am shy and have social anxieties.You do need to be your own freind first. Writing this is one good start. Get to know yourself by spending time realizing what you want, what you will walk on water for and what you won't. I will tell you this, if you want a friend I am not bad in a pinch and so if you want you can put me on your list of friends. Now perk up and be good to yourself.
@tianli (311)
• China
3 Sep 08
Yes ,I have the same feeling ,in our country ,there is only one child in one family,I feel lonely too.Especially ,when more and more friends fall in love ,they have few time to talk with me ,so making friends with yourself is a good choice .But if you are not good at sociality ,I think that is a trouble in your life .According to me , when meet some problems ,I will listen music and read some books .Maybe you can find the answer in the books sometimes. Best wishes to you .
@DocJennifer (107)
• China
4 Sep 08
thank you. the problem what you said is just I meet. most of my roomates and classmates are all fall in love. so i think maybe i should find my mr right too. haha !
