Do you believe there is the real love on internet? national or international?

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China
September 7, 2008 2:30am CST
hello all friend: I think there are many people know their lover through internet. right? In my eyes, i have seen many people find their future wife or husband through internet in the fictitious world.They say: even though the internet is fictitious,but their love is real.whatever national or international,as long as they love each other, they will be together with each other. so guys, what about you? Do you believe there is the real love on internet? share your idea, thanks a lot.
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@littleone3 (2065)
7 Sep 08
Yes i do as i met my partner through the internet at a time when we were both not looking for anything but our love slowly grew. It just felt so right. We now have been together for three and a half years and have a two year old son together. We plan to marry in the future. We feel that we are soulmates. I know that it doesn't work for everyone but it is possible to find real love on the internet.
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• China
7 Sep 08
yes, my friend, i trust real love too. it is so nice to hear that you are getting so well with your partner which you knoe each other through internet.lol. that is so nice.i hope you are happier in life in the future. good luck
@mimingsi (152)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
I'm just curious... are you from the same country?
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9 Sep 08
Yes i am from England and he was living in Scotland but is from Ireland. We know live in England.
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@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
I met my girlfriend from the internet and it's almost 2 years now that we are still us. Imet her when I was working in Tawitawi and she is in Manila. For 6 months we chatted and texted each other. I did like her and courted her.I know how hard was it proving yourself that my love for her is real. So I decided to go to Manila and really meet her. I was so excited imagine for 6 months,just staring at her picture. The first time I also met her family,and did like them. After that a few months We dicided to stay together. I do love her very much,accepted her for what she is,and I wanna spend my life with her. Now I am almost their to propose marriage. I even let my mother to come to Manila and introduce her and family. I feel great. She was asking me why did you love me. I answer her it was meant to be. I love everything about you.I love you more each day. Do y7ou believe in destiny? I do now. Have a nice day!God bless!
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• China
7 Sep 08
Oh.Your love is very beautiful.Congratulations.I hope you can have a great happy marriage with your girlfriend in the future.Love each other more and lead a wonderful life.
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• China
7 Sep 08
Hello n30wing, yep, you really leave a deep impression to me with the internatinal love on internet.So now, i feel that my idea is so correct. I also trsu the real love will hapen everywhere,wherever in national or international. my friend, i really hope you will be very very happy together with each other.and i hope you build a prefect family. Best wishes to you.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
Thank you very much! I am doing everything really working hard,it will be by this December that we will say I do. It will be a simple wedding, a civil one. I hope she won't change her mind hahaha! But do really love her and wanna make her happy for life. Have a nice day! God bless!
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@shiloh_222 (5480)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
hi there... well, two of my friends met their love ones online and they are now happily married and out of the country... happy mylotting....
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• China
8 Sep 08
it is so romantic, my friend, i am so glad to hear that. i also believbe the love could happen on net.lol good luck
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• Philippines
8 Sep 08
hehehe...guess they are just blessed because not everyone is like themm.. there are bad stories too... so we just have to be careful...
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• China
9 Sep 08
yes, got it. thanks for your answrs. good luck
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@kimi85 (92)
• Italy
7 Sep 08
certainly can be called love. it is true love.the feelings do not need words.if born from afar, when you're together is a great thing.Internet helps us to know the girl of our lives that unfortunately not attend our meeting
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• China
8 Sep 08
thanks for your response. yes, ral love is only a feeling which each love can understand.lol good luck
@kimi85 (92)
• Italy
8 Sep 08
thanks to you...I wish you much luck ;)
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• China
9 Sep 08
you are so welcome. good luck best wishes
@valeria1 (2723)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Well, yes...! I am married to him, met in SL and we are married, we would be in the international category! Fairy tale that became reality!
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• China
7 Sep 08
yes, my friend, you are really so nice to meet each other internationally.and you are so lucky.lol.best wishes to you.
@mimingsi (152)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Wow, that's really good for you! You're fortunate to experience a fairytale in real life!
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• China
9 Sep 08
yes, it is so nice...good luck to you. best wishes
@patzel88 (3311)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
some people deal in a relationship through internet, at first it was a mutual understanding and then it turn it into love and trust. many people using internet and they chatting everyday and they decide to meet in person and get married.
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• China
7 Sep 08
yes, i saw there are many friends get married with their lover through internet around me. And i feel they are happy too.lol good luck
• India
7 Sep 08
trust me really its not worth lovin on t net...we can make frnds but not love...it really is nt a gud idea...so drop it felllas try findin a real grl
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• China
7 Sep 08
hello friend, but we can't deny the real love happened to other people. just check the responses in this discussions, i feel most people believe real love through internet. and several ones are married through internet. we just follow the fate ,if we have the feeling that we fall in love with a girl, we should make a effort to get her/him .wherever in life or internet.lol good luck to you.
@mayshella (293)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
With your question if I believe if there's a real love in the internet my answer would be yes. I'm one of those living evidence if I may say who found real love in the internet. It's not just distance but miles away from the man I choose to love. Year 2003, I’m still on the process of moving on when I had a chat with this guy. Actually, I’ve known him through a certain yahoo group where I belong. I happen to know that we’re on the same situation of letting go of someone we have loved, since then we became friends and chat mates. He keeps on texting me; we always had a chat not just over the internet but also over the phone during the night. From there, another long distance relationship was developed. He's in Manila, Philippines while I'm in Davao City, Philippines. A one and a half hour plane ride before we could see each other. At first what we have is just merely friendship but we both fall with each other. I took the risk to accept the love he's offering me because I was able to feel his sincerity when he asks me if I can be his girlfriend even if we are far with each other, what matter is that, so long it’s serious. For the first 2 years of our relationship, we only met twice or thrice a year we only met twice or thrice a year chance of being together even just once. It was on our 3rd year as well that we encountered a lot of problems with our relationship. We are being tested by time, temptations, patience, and trust with each other but still our love survives. The only communication we have is the internet and our cellphones. We see to it that the communication is always open and constant. After 4 long years of having a relationship online and that is also long distance... we are now married. We got married just last August of this year. Love has it's own way to find the right people bound to be together. And the internet makes it easier for some reasons and sometimes it's unexplainable.
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
Just want to clarify this.. For 2 years we only met once or thrice a year and during our 3rd year there's no chance of being together even just once.
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• China
10 Nov 08
yes, my friend, i also trust the real love is possible to happen on internet.thanks for your share your experience. good luck
@msedge (4012)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Oh yes!Me and my hubby is a living example of that.We met in the internet and became friends.Our feelings had developed and he decided to visit me.After a year we got married and happily been together until now.
• China
4 Oct 08
thanks for your resonse.tat is great and romantic. good luck
@msedge (4012)
• United States
23 Dec 08
Your welcome
• China
7 Sep 08
i do believe the real love on internet. you can love some one through a word or a song..... love is all round. love is magic, that's why it is called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
@riyasam (16567)
• India
7 Sep 08
so right!one doeasnot look before you leap in love.
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• China
7 Sep 08
yes, my friend, your words are very meaningful. thanks for your opinions. happy mylotting. good luck
@leegen (13)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
my sister boyfriend met her on the internet ,after chating for almost 1 year they decided to meet each other and now my sister was living in australia now with her boyfriend,we always talk on the internet too and my sister is really happy.so yes i beleive that there is a real love on the internet and hope to find my real love too on the internet ha ha ha......
• China
7 Sep 08
it is romantic, i am so glad to hear that,i hope your sister and her boyfriend will lead a happy life in the future. good luck
• China
9 Nov 08
keep moving, and happy everyday.lol
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
7 Sep 08
Hi friend,Its true that it happens in this world but some succeed and some get deceived.It depends.There may be real or unreal love on internet.Thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
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• China
7 Sep 08
yes, i do believe the real love which could happen through internet. but if we can convert it into real life, thus, it stands for we really get the real love finally.lol good luck
• India
3 Mar 09
hi im imtiaz from gurgaon. i m find my life patnar, plz help me...................................................!
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
yeah! one hundred percent i do believed that real love exist on the internet..There's a lot of Filipino who married to foreigner and that's what we call love comes from the internet..It's real love because they wont sacrifice their life to offer in an everlasting relationship like marriage.
• China
13 Nov 08
yes, my friend, i do believe real love comes from internet too. i think it is very possible nowadays.lol happy mylotting.
@Porcospino (30354)
• Denmark
11 Nov 08
My fiance and I met on the internet. We exhanged emails, chatted together etc for a while before we met. Our first meeting was a big success, we talked for a long time because neither of us wanted to leave. Shortly after our first meeting we became a couple. Now we are living together and we are getting married next year. I believe it is possible to find real love through the internet, but it might take some time to find the right person. I went on a couple of dates before I met my fiance, and those dates were not very successfull. There was one guy that I had a really good impression of. We had written many mails and we seemed to get along really well, but when we finally met we were not the least bit attracted to eachother. You never know what will happen when you meet IRL, but I definately think it a worth a try and I am so happy I didn't give up trying :-)
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• China
11 Nov 08
yes, i agree with you a lot.thanks for your response.good luck
@ememCz (139)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
I think Internet love is based only on emotions based on writings. People can fall inlove easily with sweet words and can playaround with feelings based on some sweet discussions. There is nothing wrong with that but Internet cannot fully give the true essence of love which is knowing fully the person. Love based on time and togetherness. I may sound idealistic and romantic but for me that's how love works. Maybe Internet love is just superficial. Sometimes it works for others but I think majority it won't work.
• China
10 Nov 08
thanks for your response.and i hope you spend a good time on mylot.lol happy mylotting.
• India
10 Nov 08
Hi successlog, I don't believe there is real love on internet. You actually can't find the real character of a man or woman on internet. Love is more worthy, it must be felt between individuals. Where as internet cannot bring you that feel. Any how my best wishes to internet lovers too. Cheers :)
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• China
10 Nov 08
the real love love will happen just by a kind of meaning.there are a lot of my friends who meet their present lovers through internet.so for me, i really think it is possible to happen on net.lol happy mylotting.
• United States
15 Sep 08
I do think that there can be real love on the internet. There is more talking without the usual day to day BS involved. That has to be better, because talking creates a friendship, and doesn't relationships work better when the couple are friends first? I know quite a few people that have found the love of their life on the internet. They all have been in longstanding relationships since. It's really amazing to see, firsthand, the bonds that have been created through a computer. Years ago, who would have thunk it?
• China
4 Oct 08
thanksfor your response.i also believe the real real love could happen on the net under some conditions. good luck
@nini89 (670)
• India
9 Sep 08
Yes there may be love affairs through internet and some people get married throgh this internet connection. I have seen one of my friends close friend got married through this internet chating. Now their life is good in future I dont know. But so long as am concerned one should get marry with a person who is lovable and careful to thier partner. It doesnot mean that it should be of an arranged one or of an internet. Have a nice day.
• China
9 Sep 08
thanks for your response, my friend. have a good day.
@rubired (78)
• United States
9 Sep 08
I recently met someone online. I just considered him a friend at first. But slowly, I noticed that instead of talking to him once a week, I was talking to him everyday from 8 p.m. to sometimes 5 in the morning! I still had it in my head that I liked him a friend, and only. Then he starts telling me that he really really likes me, and that he wants to go on a roadtrip and come meet me. I told him he was insane!! And that he should meet many girls where he lives at. That I know that he can. He kept saying that he really liked me and that it's been years since he actually found someone like me. Well, recently, I told him to promise me to go out with one of his co-workers. And he's telling me that he's starting to talk to her more, and she's a little hyper, but that he has a good feeling about this one. Well, now, we start talking less than before. Now it's just a couple hours, or less. But now, I don't know if it's jealousy, or that I actually like him. In my opinion, anything is possible. But it's up to us if we actually want to make it possible. It'll be harder, but when you want something real bad, you'll go in with everything you've got. Although my choice wasn't that ;P.
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• China
9 Sep 08
thanks for your share with your experience. my friend. good luck to you
• China
9 Sep 08
The internet is fictitious, but the love is true! I cannot be more agree with that! I met him on the internet, through QQ, but everything turns to be reality now, and we think we are meant to be, I enjoy the feelings. what is more, in nowaday life, computer and internet have become an important part of our life, we should face that and make good use of it. In real life, our social life may be limited, but on internet, we could have a large circle of friends, and find the special one at last. why not try that?
• China
9 Sep 08
thanks for your response. as long as you have the genuine feeling between you both. it would be true.lol good luck
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
8 Sep 08
I really have doubt about Love in the internet but when I've seen a true cinematic or story about those people in any other Country and they even put it documentary for a story I really tell to myself that Love in the internet really do exist in this world because there were many of them got married......
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• China
9 Sep 08
yes, my friend,some ones really get the real love through internet. thanks for your response. good luck