Do you rate every response and each and every comment?

@dpk262006 (58675)
Delhi, India
October 5, 2008 11:47pm CST
Dear friends, whenever I see a post, be it a discussion, a response, a comment, a sub-comment or a counter comment, I first of all rate it before moving ahead or writing my own comments. I always rate every one positive (+). I would like to know from all of you - do you also rate MY responses, comments, counter-comments or not? In case you do, I am thankful to you for your gesture and in case you sometimes forget to do it, I would just like to remind you that please rate my disscussions, responses and comments so that my overall rating could remain high. If you do not like any of my responses or comments you may not rate me at all or if I have written too off the mark or too bad..........you may rate me even 'negative', however, while rating me negative, please do let know that you disliked my response/comment so that I could improve upon myself from the next time. Shall be grateful for your responses on my discussion.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 08
Hi Deepak Hope u must be doing well. well I rather We know that u r nice person and wonderful friend. To be honest, i dont rate all discussion, comments, sub comments, its not that i dont want to, its just i JUST FORGOT But for sure i never rate any one negative, what evger i dont like, i just skip it without rating or commenting. Sure i will be more watchful in future to rate ur rating, i would love u with blue star Take care
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
HI! Cupid! Thanks for your fair, frank and honest reply I am pleased to read it. But still I would request you to rate atleast quality responses and comments, this will help your friends (including me). I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Thanks for your kind and motivating words. Hope your positive rating will help me and others.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 08
hi deepak yaar its not about quality of post or discussioon, normally i wrie the response first and then rate it but some times in hurry i just forgot it, sure i will be watchful in future and trust me ur discussion and responses both are qualitative, i wonder how can anyone rate them negative And u r rated plus now smile
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• United States
6 Oct 08
i rate every discussion i reply to and every one that replies and sub replies back
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
What about my posts and discussions? Do you rate them too?
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• United States
6 Oct 08
yeah every discussion i reply to (such as this one or any of yours and anyone elses that i respond to) i rate
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
I am thankful to you for your gesture of rating me.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
6 Oct 08
Dpk, My tendency is to rate each and every discussion,response and comment with a positive. I have never and would never rate anyone with a negative. If i see a response or a comment which is something that i do not like then i would rather not rate it then rate it negatively. Having said this i do not get to concerned about the rating. To me it is the quality and the people who respond which keeps the interest going.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
7 Oct 08
It's the way to be Dpk and i am sure all your friends here would reciprocate the same.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
I also hope so.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
HI! Alok! Thanks for your fair, frank and honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate every one positive. I know you are a very nice, caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Yes. I try to. sometimes I get very busy though and get going too fast and forget to do that. I have to go back later on my own discussions and do that. I do not do it for each one though unless it is a quality response.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Nice to know that you rate if it is a quality response. What about my posts?
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Oct 08
Hi deepak, I am rating qualitative responses only. I can't give everybody a BR so instead am rating it. I already tell you I am rating qualitative discussions so there is no question of 'negative' rating. You want to know about your discussion. I hope by reading my response you must have reached a conclusion. Thank you.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
HI! Sreekala! Thanks for your fair, frank and honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate qualitative responses only. It is difficult for me to guess, but I do hope that you would have rated my discussion positive? I feel that you are a very nice, caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Thanks for the rating positive to me. It is good to know that I could make you clear that to rate someone does help him/her in the long run. You deserved - what I wrote about you. Have a great day!
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Oct 08
Yes Deepak, I am rating your discussion as positive. I am always doing when go through a qualitative discussion. To be very frank I did not know that rating will help others to keep their rank as high. Thanks for the information. Now I have to change my attitude and do the same for all. If I can do a favour to others, I think I have to do it. Thank you for your kind words. Take care.
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@Margarit (3676)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
Hi dpk26006, I never tried of using that +, - sign. I dont rate any discussion or comment or responses, i think i miss look those sign and I havent use it since form the start . Im glad you raise that question, so i will know use it then. happy posting.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Thanks for your fair and honest reply I am pleased to read it. But still I would request you to rate atleast quality responses and comments, this will help your friends (including me). I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
6 Oct 08
I do rate every discussion I respond to if I see it deserves a positive rating. Most of the responses to the discussions I start are also rated positive except one liners and responses which are not relevant to the discussion. Even the responses which have a different view from mine are rated poitive if they are put well (without offending anyone). I've rated a negative only once (or maybe twice)....and that was for real offensive words. But one thing Deepak, you can start a discussion about rating....but do not ask people to rate you positive so that your rating remains high (I think it's against the rules to solicit for + ratings).
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
6 Oct 08
I'm sorry I misunderstood that part....I was just trying to put it across before someone else does. The best way to go about would be to put your response in the best possible way (without thinking of the rating). From my experience, some people rate all and sundry (without bothering about the type of response) and some people forget to rate almost everyone (even when the discussion and/or responses are worth a rating). Simply put, some people rate and some people don't...irrespective of the TYPE of response you give or the kind of discussion you start. As far as my thing goes, I don't forget to rate....but most people on mylot do....and I've seen that as responses/comments in some discussions people started to remind others to rate.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Thanks for your honest reply. I appreciate it. I did not say in my discussion - "please rate my responses/posts positve". I only said - please rate me, if at all you ar going to do it, on merit. The purpose of the discussion was that if I am not being rated by some of my dear friends, I need to raise the bar as far as my responses are concerned.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
No need to say sorry.........I can understand your view point........I felt there was some mix up........when you went though my discussion....does not matter. I agree with you that we should write our responses in the best possible manner, I try to do in most of the cases, but sometimes due to time constraints, I limit my response. I also agree with you that - some of members rate each and every response, without going to its merit and some do not rate at all. It is good to know that you do not forget to rate. Have a great day!
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
6 Oct 08
I only rate those discussions in which I feel like giving a response. Else I move on. I just don't go one rating every one around here. I rate mostly those response in which I myself respond, there are some discussions whom I rate and do not respond. They are only some very good discussion and can't respond to them. I also rate negative to some discussions but they are very few... I seriously don't like that discussion or response I do rate them negative but that has happened only once or twice ,I don't get pissed out that easily at least here in mylot.
• India
8 Oct 08
thanks deepak..
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
15 Oct 08
You are always welcome!!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
HI! Stella! Thanks for your fair, frank and honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate as and when you fee like. I also rate to those discussions, where either I have received a response or I have responded. If I am not writing anything on a discussion, I do not rate it, normally. I know you are a very nice, caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 08
I will rate before I comment on the responders and I rate everyone who respond to my discussions. So far I have not rate anybody negatively. Why should I be so inhuman to rate someone negative as I expect the same from others.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
HI! Zandi! Thanks for your fair, frank and honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate every one positive. You appear to be very nice, caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+). Deepak
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
7 Oct 08
I rate every discussion positive unless asked to rate it negative. I have only done negative rating once or twice and that was becase the person was very abusive to the OP. I usually try to avoid people when they are rude and just don't give them a response.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
Many Thanks for your honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate every one positive. I know you are a very caring, nice and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
6 Oct 08
Thanks for the reminder. Very often I forget to rate the discussion or comment. It is a very good practice that you follow and this is a good reminder for all of us who do not do it regularly. From now on I will make sure I rate all the comments, counter-comments and discsussions.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
You must rate each and every comment and response (including me), this would help the member to consolidate his ratings. It is a kind of supportive and positive gesture to the other member to acknowledge his/her efforts.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
I have rated your response as 'positive' (+) and I always do, before writing anything else.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
6 Oct 08
I too have started the practice of rating the discussion and comments before replying....this is after reading your discussion.
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@ellie333 (21016)
6 Oct 08
Hi Dpk, I too like you automatically plus rate a comment before responding back. I have only ever neg rated once and that was because this guy was putting money making links only into my discussions which is a total violation and could cause the discussion to be deleted. I also rate all added comments too and the discussion section. I would never rate anyone negative just for having a different opinion, I find that quite refreshing within a discussion anyway as that to me is what a discussion is all about. Kepp posting and keep responding and keep having fun here, that is what I do. Ellie :D
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Hi! Ellie! Many Thanks for your fair, frank and honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate every one positive. I know you are a very nice, caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
I know that I can count on my dear friend i.e. Ellie........that is the beauty of 'friends' and friendship. You can trust your friends blindly. Thanks for your kind gestures.
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@ellie333 (21016)
6 Oct 08
aaah thank you for your kinds words and a plus, you can always count on one from me. Ellie :D
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@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
I haven't been doing that yet, but now i think i will start to do it. Thank you for reminding us to do so. sorry that i haven't been rating your responses or comments yet. I was not just being so keen about the rating. I have not been on here for the last couple of days, been busy at work. anyway nice to see you on here again.Thank you!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
Many Thanks for your honest reply. You please rate the discussions, responses and comments, it will help the other users and likewise when they rate you, it will help enhance your reputation here on mylot. have rated your response as positive (+).
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• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Thank you, my friend, appreciate it very much! You can rest assure now that i will do that always on my friends discussions and comments. Have a nice day and take care!Did the same to yours.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
29 Jan 09
Hello deepak! Well, I do rate every members who responded to my discussion, but it depends on what they say. I don't rate a plus to a person who answered a one line or a one word to me, although I tried to ask him/her back so that he/she could contibute to my discussion and rate him/her a plus. Well, don't worry, I never rated you negative..all what you said made sense actually.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
29 Jan 09
Many Thanks for your honest and fair reply I am pleased to know that you rate others on the basis of merit of their responses. I agree that one liner, sometimes, does not deserve to be rated. It is good that you post counter-comments to know the exact views of the respondent, if he posts a one liner. Hopefully, you will not rate me negatively ever. Thanks for joining and sharing. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
30 Jan 09
You deserved it! It is my pleasure!
• United States
29 Jan 09
oh, thank you so much deepak..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Oct 08
hi dpk yes i do as I think its only fair and I give all a positive as theres already too many negatives out there.mylot actually encourages us to rate responses and comments saying it will help all mylot users. if we do this for each other our ratings will be much higher. I feel a lot of people skip 'doing this and they really should do it as it helps all of us.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
I agree with you that we must rate the posts. Many Thanks for your honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate comments of others. You are a very caring and positive person, I know. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@rup011 (725)
• Germany
6 Oct 08
I am not very regular in mylot . I donot get time everyday. Moreover I post responses only and hardly try to start a discussion. But I post only 5 to 6 responses daily. I some times rate a response and most of the time forget doing it. But i will try to do it more often now. It never struck me that I should be rating too. Thanks for reminding. have a nice day and happy mylotting :)
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Trying doing it........I mean .........try to rate responses on their merit....it will help you and others.
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• Philippines
6 Oct 08
Yes, as much as possible, I rate any discussion, response, comment, etc. positive (+). Although, I sometimes forgot to rate responses and comments that I got, I rarely forgot to rate discussions that I responded, I always rate it positive.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
Many Thanks for your fair and honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate every one positive. Does not matter much even if you forget sometimes to rate. I have a feeling that you are a very nice, caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
6 Oct 08
Well; I normally rate each and every response to my discussions . As for others' discussions ;I do it for the discussions which I like and for others I just skip .
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Thanks for your honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate every one positive. I think you are a very caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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• United States
6 Oct 08
Hmm.. you know that's something I've been wondering about. When one of your replies or posts get rated, does the person getting rated also get paid?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
Not excactly, but his/her overall ratings on mylot does get changed, if he/she is continously rated as positive.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 08
I have just rate you a positive. I seldom rate people in their discussion or any of it. Its doesn't bother me at all cause i don't think it influence anything. If its really will increase a person rating i might start to rate people today. I doesn't mark any best response cause i seldom get that too from people so i am not into it too but if its reaally good response then i will mark him or her. It depends...
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 08
Thanks for your fair, frank and honest reply I am pleased to know that you rate every one positive. I know you are a very nice, caring and positive person. I have rated your response as positive (+).
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