Be positive always in life

@Roseo8 (2947)
India
October 10, 2008 2:56am CST
If we have a positive attitude and take hardships and set backs in life as events heralding a better tomorrow,we can take life's challenges more easily.If you look around you ,you will find that, from a bush with thorns comes the beautiful rose . from a broken heart comes powerful prose from a cramped cocoon coems a butterfly new from a tough mountain climb comes a breath taking view. Does this attitude work with you? Please share your views.
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@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 08
Wow, u got a lot of responses to this First Discussion Not bad, u must be Happy bird today and see u get work now, reply all the posts and Enjoy Take care
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Oct 08
Ah...this is my second new discussion......And I was wondering why I was seeing you twice in this post...Yes I am going to be very busy...and guess what I got a Br on my first day itself...Not bad going na.....Ok I am going to keep myself busy as you suggested......bye.
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@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 08
Yeah u r right, its 2nd discussion, first was inviting Mylottian Well what would happened if u dont catch such faults??? And sure its nice start and u know i always appreciate and admire u. keep it up. wish u all the best Take care
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
I would like to thank you Cupid ,because you are the one who inspired me to start this discussion about attitude.Ihope to get more inspirations from you...he..he...for my future topics.......
@dpk262006 (56730)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 08
What a fantastic post!! I fully agree with you that we must adopt positive attitude towards our life so as to move ahead successfully. I try my best to be positive in every field, be it my family relations or be it my colleagues in office or be it a new project. Positivity makes out thinking pattern wider and helps us accomodate many new thoughts and ideas in our life. The example of the rose which you have given amply highlights the position.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
Wow .....its really difficult to keep up a positive attitude always in life,Dpk..No wonder you are always a cheerful person,finding something nice and sweet to say to all your friends,and always encouraging others,come what may.And thanks for appreciating my choice of black rose,as my avatar pic..Hope to see you tomorrow for Mayka's birhtday bash..........Let's make it a memorable one for her..
@dpk262006 (56730)
• Delhi, India
13 Oct 08
Thanks for your kind words about me. Mayka birthday would have become memorable due to dear Cupid's discussion!!!
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
13 Oct 08
Yes actually I was watitng for Mayka to start a new discussion today,to wish her.But surprisingly she didnt and it was infact cupid who saved the day.......Kuddos to him.....And have a good day Dpk...
@williamjisir (22900)
• China
11 Oct 08
Hello Rose, my dear friend. It is a very nice topic of yours about being positive always in life. Yeah, a positive attitude towards life is the very basic element that keeps our life going on happily. I enjoy being positive in life for the pleasure it gives me. I would never let negative mind get occupied in me. Take care, Rose, and enjoy your time.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
How r u,W.J.S?.....Yes its easy to talk of positive attitude in life,but very difficult to implement it all the time.And its wonderful to see that you are nearing 10,000 mark soon...Wow..I hope I will be lucky enough to be the first one to congratulate you when you reach that mark........And look at me ,I am on 20........I need just a few Zeros to beat you....Ha ...ha...see how positive my attitude is? Yes W.J.S I really intend to enjoy my tenure in mylot.....Have a good day......
• China
28 Oct 08
Hello Rose. I will be very happy to see my post reach ten thousand, but it will take quite a few months before that as I do not have that much time mylotting every day. Yet I still try to do some mylotting every day to make it go forward. I thank you so much for your nice comment, my dear friend.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
28 Oct 08
Hi there W.J.s,Its ages since I saw you around.I guess you must be busy in college,and I havent seen any new discussions.he..he..infact I went through your profile and most of the recent discussions are the ones which I had answered in my prvious avatar,8 months back...he..he....Any way have a nice day and wish you happy mylotting ,my dear friend....
@Pose123 (21662)
• Canada
11 Oct 08
Hi Rose, Having a positive attitude is the only way to go and it helps us get through the rough spots in life. I like to start each day with some powerful positive statements, and for me it helps a lot. Blessings.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
Heoo pose 123.I would like to start my answer to your discussion ,with a positive attitude.will you add me as your friend.It will help me a lot...Thanks.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
sorry...Its "hello Pose".....
@paid2write (5202)
10 Oct 08
You have put it in a beautiful way. I have turned my way of thinking around to be positive at all times. The more I do it the easier it is for me to stay positive. I don't see problems, I see new things to be experienced. I welcome changes in my life, good and bad. I enjoy new challenges. I don't think of my past as being full of bad times, I know that living through those experiences has given me my inner strength. I know that there is no such thing as a wrong decision, because life is full of new opportunities. My mistakes have given me wisdom and help me make better choices. It works for me.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Oct 08
My goodenss,paid2write........each and every word you have written reflects my own sentiments and views on the subject, and life in general.....I thnik we are going to have some wonderful discussions together......
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@ptrikha_2 (16884)
• India
15 Oct 08
Yes;our life experience also helps us in achieving a better frame of mind . Our wisdom increases and we try to be better at handling stress and negative emotions .
@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
yes, thinking and keeping a positive outlook in life will help you surpass challenges and problems everyday. Keeping the faith helps too. When you think positive and not let any negative thoughts in your mind, it makes you feel lighter and motivated to do better in everything. For me, that is.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
10 Oct 08
Hello Jammyt,thanks for sharing my views.Yes I am keeping a positive attitude,and am sending a "add as friend" request to you.I am hoping we will have a beautiful friendship which will make mylotting a real treat for both of us..have a good day.....Rose
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@ptrikha_2 (16884)
• India
15 Oct 08
Thanks a lot for your encouraging words .
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• Philippines
21 Oct 08
As much as possible i hold on to the positive aspect of things. But sometimes, i wallow depending on the gravity of the situation. Trying to be with the company of positive people like most of my friends and other members here tends to push me to stand after a fall. Thanks guys! You are heaven sent.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
6 Jan 09
Yes chloe I agree........Positive vibrations can give a great boost to our ego......
@kalianju (138)
• Nepal
21 Oct 08
yes, think positive and there will be all positive,
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
6 Jan 09
@pumpkinjam (6859)
• United Kingdom
11 Oct 08
If only that could be true for everybody. I know I try hard to keep positive but, when you are positive about something and suddenly have that one thing taken away on top of several other bad things happening, it can get so frustrating that it just becomes impossible to be positive. It can work up to a point but, for some people, thinking positive serves only as a means to make them feel worse about situations when they do go wrong.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
15 Oct 08
hello pumpkinjam,I have received many comments here which will help you to create and nmaintain a positive attitude....I hope you will also benefit from these posts...good luck....
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
I always have a positive outlook in life. Even at times when i was weak and i felt there is little hope that i ever get out from all the problems i have to go through. I still believe that someday i will find solution to every problem and everything will turn out fine. I always asked for Gods guidance. I know that with faith and determination nothing is impossible to achieved. And yes i have prove that. For this past years i have received so many blessings after the storm.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
15 Oct 08
Yes there is always sunshine after the rains....may you always have aappiness in life....Good luck
@tikei18 (359)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
I'm also a positive person. i always look at the bright side. I know every problem has a solution. It's just there, all you need to do is learn it by yourself. Some people think that there is no solution in their problem. That's why, others think that it is better to die than to suffer. They are afraid to suffer. Suffering is part of our life. It makes someone stronger. Whenever i have a problem, i think that God wants me to learn something out of it. And i know there is a solution. God Bless and Have a nice Day!
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
13 Oct 08
Yes many pessimistic people have responded to this discussion...I hope they will derive some goodness from positive minded people like you........
• Spain
10 Oct 08
I am naturally a positive person, so I am lucky. I am the glass half full, but my partner is the glass half empty. I always think that even when times are tough, there must be something better around the corner.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
15 Oct 08
May your attitude always stand by you...Good luck
• Spain
10 Oct 08
I am a naturally positive person, so I am lucky. My partner is the total opposite, he is a half empty glass and I am half one. I always think that I should just make the best of things, and hope that better days are just around the corner.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
good luck to both of you....
@patzel88 (3311)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
to think positive we can achieve and surpass the hindrances in our life. we have problems that we are not aware do damage our path if we motivate. many of us got failed because they think that they could not escape from the reality.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Oct 08
Yes negative thinking can often act as hindrances and prevent a person from achieving his or her goals........
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@super_jj (1417)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Wow! Great state of mind.I am quite a positive person myself and i do think life's challenges become less of a burden if we look at them with a positive attitude. Life becomes more enjoyable.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
10 Oct 08
its true friend...A positive attitude not only makes life enjoyable,it also makes life easier to handle,and helps us to face all the negative aspects of life with optimism and hope for a better tomorrow...have a nice day.......
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@cortney09 (1346)
• United States
14 Oct 08
I wish that I could have this attitude, but I have to admit, that I am not always able to do that. I am working on being able to do that. I am getting better at that than I used to be though.
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@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
10 Oct 08
Hi Ms Roseo8 Hope u must be doing well, Nice Start of Reborn life at Mylot. For sure positive approach is always better and only postive approcal can lead u on nice way in life either is personal life or professional life. When u r dealing with thing with positive and constructive approach then u can look into vast horizon and u can find various ways too. while with pessimistic approcan ur vision and thoughts are narrowed down. So i am sure positive and constructive approach work for every one Take care
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
Hello Cupid,yes I would like to continue our friendship with a positive and constructive approach,and your name "Cupid" is proving to be a big hindrance for the same,and is narrowing down my vision and thoughts.Do you have a positive and constructive solution to this predictamnet of mine,cupidjee?
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 08
Hi Mithra i really appreciate ur intentions and trust me, i have same intentions for u, rather more than that, and i wonder why my name is Cupid " Big Hinderance""" and i wonder why NAME is Narrowing ur VISION and THOUGHTS??? and i wonder whats ur vision and thoughts focus??? Ans what will be u doing if i CHANGE my NAME???? As Far As Me, Just keep in touch and inspired and i am sure ur thought and vision will be broadend
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
13 Oct 08
Well ,I was hoping you will ask me to address you by some other pet name or somehing,but I guess u have it reserved for only your special friends,and it appears I do not qualify to be in that list...Ok Cupid will do then..........Though I am uncomfortable using it 'cos it rhymes with stupid.......
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
10 Oct 08
Hi Rose I am optimist and I have taken sorrows and joys in y stride. Life has been amazing and the change in attitude did the wonders. Now, I do feel that there would be sun shine after the dark, there would be happiness after the storm. I earnestly believe that its just a matter of our outlook and how we look into things. There are happy people and there are cynics - we have to choose how to be and live life like that. I am a happy person outright and kudos to life's gross moments that have make me re discover myself.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Oct 08
Yes Mimpi dear...I do agree with you...Life is indeed a good teacher and if we remain good students,we can definitley have an upper hand in deciding and shaping our future.We have to learn to swallow life's bitter pill,hoping it will help to erase the negative aspects and pave the way for a better and happier tomorrow...Good luck to you dear,and god bless.....May happiness follow you where ever you go........
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
11 Oct 08
Thanks Rose for your wishes. I do hope that you be happy always. Love you for all your support and even though I can hardly keep in touch, you are always on my mind. I am blessed to have met you. Love and huggles.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
I reciprocate your feelings.......And guess what?I was in Kolkata in August..Actually I was proceeding to the north east on a holiday with my family,and had an overnight stay in Kolkata in transit........But we opted to stay in the airport itself...And I did think of you,but didnt know how to contact you.....And it was a hastily planned holiday too.....But I regret I lost a chance to meet you in person......
@mayka123 (13391)
• India
10 Oct 08
I always try to have a positive attitude. In fact I would like you to see a discussion that I recently started http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1731179.aspx?p=2. It conveys almost the same thoughts.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Oct 08
Ah...I went through your discussion.....Didnt I say we are going to vibe well?...But you appear to be a poetess too...I am not good at poetry.........Somehow I am not able to vibe well with poems...ha..ha...
@mayka123 (13391)
• India
11 Oct 08
Yes we are going to vibe very well. And we have a lot of common friends here on mylot so it looks like our choice of friends too are the same. You may not like writing poetry but I am sure you enjoy reading them...A lot of my latest discussions have been poems that I write whenever I am in the mood.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
Hi Mayka,I never said I dont like poetry.Its just that I cannot write any poetry myself,how ever much I try. Yes I am looking forwards to your birthday bash when I can meet many of our mutual friends.Its going to be a real treat........
@Sreekala (32783)
• India
10 Oct 08
I really appreciate your way of thinking and congrats for passing a positive message to all the mylotters. Life is a challenge and all we have to face it. If we are able to think in a positive way we can easily win. You said this thing in a very nice way. Rose is a beautiful flower but it have thorns around and you have to be very careful while plucking it. When we face some difficulties then also we can gather the courage to face the same. I am trying to think always positively and trying to find out the positive attitude of others. Thanks for the wonderful post.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Oct 08
Hello Sree.......Thanks for all your nice words.Well you have summed up my avatar very well....Infact you have even pin pointed the very reason that has prompted me to chose rose as my avatar. Hope to get to know you better.See you tomorrow at Mayka's birthday aprty...bye.....
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@Sreekala (32783)
• India
13 Oct 08
Hi Rose, I will call you here like it only. You are right when replying to you; your avatar was also in mind. Thanks for understanding me very well. Take care, have a nice day.