Why am i a Women, Shouldn't I be a Men?

@adihindu (1922)
India
October 31, 2008 3:02pm CST
Why?
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18 responses
@chaska (170)
• United States
31 Oct 08
Why do you question your gender? Do you have interests that you feel are more pertinent to a man? Do you prefer certain hobbies that more men usually like? I am a woman that enjoys a lot of things that could be considered what a man would like to do. I like woodworking, installing appliaces, repairing things. I also love to do things that I feel both men and women both like to do such as painting, drawing. Why do you question?
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@owlwings (41921)
• Cambridge, England
31 Oct 08
Presumably you are a woman because you have two X chromosomes. If you were a man you would have one X and one Y chromosome. Inevitably this would lead to you being slightly weaker in the early stages of life (statistically, more male babies are conceived than female but more male babies die before, during or just after birth, so the proportion of males to females is approximately 50/50 a year after birth.
@arunmails (3012)
• India
2 Nov 08
It is the nature...., you can't change the nature and the god creation...., it is the god's plan that you want to be women... So, don't worry about why shouldn't I be a men.....
@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
1 Nov 08
Being a woman is good, why will u wanna be a man?? I think it's due to u are borned in the wrong country and thus u wanna be a man instead ^_^ Actually woman has got alot of priviledges and advantages in things ^_^ They are always loved and protected, being cared for, and pampered ^_^ They need not worry about too much things, and that, women will always be special to men ^_^
@kholid78 (341)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 08
Hi Adihindu Before I answer it, please forgive me but let me know : What happened with you? There's any mistakes with your anatomy? Shouldn't you feel grateful about whatever you are?
@cocooreo (706)
• Malaysia
1 Nov 08
As what we learned in science classes, this is due to the X and Y chromosomes.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
1 Nov 08
Sometimes...me too think that...coz being woman ..u have to face so many sufferings...u have to be very very strong at times, and still sometimes u feel that the pain is too much to carry....but ya...there are some benefits too...the most beautiful experience of being a mother...i would have missed this experience if i was not a woman...gud discussion...
@dpk262006 (56761)
• Delhi, India
1 Nov 08
The answer is very simple, it is because nature and God decided in the very beginning about you that you are going to be a woman. Some of things are not in our hands or in our control, it is in God's hands, so whatever God gives us, we have to accept it gladly.
@pryce_mbg (716)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
you are a woman for you are created as one. you have a mission in this world being a woman and has to accomplish something. you are blessed being a woman and loved by others.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
1 Nov 08
I have no idea really. I think we are what we are. We were not intended to be a man, I guess.
@cream97 (29164)
• United States
31 Oct 08
No, you are a woman.. If this is what God intended for you to be, then that is what you are meant to be. That is the way that I look at it. Once you are born that is what was meant for you to be. But, if you change it, it will be your choice. It was destined for you to be a woman..
@celticeagle (123592)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Oct 08
Two X's will do it every time! Why would there be a question? Being a woman is wonderful. I wouldn't want to be a man although I have been curious. We are what we are for a reason and there is no changing it. If you are gay or something along those lines then you need to work it out from within.
@missybear (11393)
• United States
31 Oct 08
Why do you want to be a man. I'm happy to be a woman.
@savypat (20245)
• United States
31 Oct 08
So tell me why you think you should be a man? You know it takes both to keep the human race alive, so that means some of us must be women. At least at this time in history it's better to be a woman than any other. Even in the most opressed states there is some hope. So find things to enjoy about being a Woman.
• United States
31 Oct 08
Well you couldn't be men, because men is plural. You could be a man with an operation. :)
@Ohara_1983 (4119)
• Kuwait
31 Oct 08
Why your a woman because God give you a mission in this world, he give you a hormone & make you a woman because he want you to take good care of your family & give them a best mom in the wold.:)
@urbandekay (18308)
31 Oct 08
You are women? What all of them? And you think you were meant to be men too? I am happy just being a man. all the best urban
• India
31 Oct 08
If you were born a girl then god meant for you to be a girl not a boy. Though for some individuals it is possible he made a mistake and you can have it corrected. The term for a person born into the wrong body is gender dysphoria and leads many men and women to have this corrected through medicine as well as eventual surgery to become transgendered. If you think you are then you should talk to someone you trust and explain to them what your feelings are about this. A therapist who counsels persons of transgender can help you take the steps then to become the boy or girl you want to become that you should have been born as.