I'm Just Not In The Mood~~LOL

I am with you. In matter of fact I am not going anywhere. I will just stay home and work on old files. My friends are going to go places tomorrow but I am not going to join the crowd....

Been there, done that, own stock in the tee shirt factory....

I'm rarely in the mood for anything, anymore... must be getting old.

I get like that Pye and would much rather be in the comfort of my own home..yes I have backed out of a couple of parties or places I've been invited to as I have plain and simply not wanted to go...bb littleowl

Hi pye, Sometimes when you don't feel like going and you do go you'll be surprise how much you have enjoyed yourself, it happened to me before. I am goint to one on ~Saturday becuse no one can make it tonight. Happy Halloween with whatever you are doing. Pye, Bright Blessings and I'm thinking of you. Tamara

hi {{Pye}} oh yeah, maybe that's why I don't get invited anywhere huh?? who wants a grouchy old crabby woman at the party?? ( that would be myself) I'm referring to there...(G)! Heck there days when I don't even want to talk TO ANYONE on the phone, now how crabby is that??? Pretty darn bad I guess; if you don't want to go, I would just stay home then and don't beat yourself up about it, its not worth it, they'll either understand or they wont right?

i also had ever feel like you before in the past... i am so lazy and not in the mood to attend a wedding or b'day party that i am invited to by a person whom i don't really know that well... i prefer to stay at home as well when that happens rather than wasting my time and making myself feel miserable in the party because i won't enjoy it... take care and have a nice day...

The closest I have gotten to that type of reaction is just not being excited about a party but I did go. Usually I am excited all day before a party , but one time I wasn't excited , I was numb.

We were invited to a party by my Mom's church, and I've just gotten over a cold..so the whole week I debated it. I really didn't want to go, but Mom wanted us to show the old fuddy duddies how to party. So today I decided, "Well, it'll make Mom happy. I might as well"...then my brother caught the same cold I had, and she decided we wouldn't go and leave him out. So...meh. I've always been much happier just doing my own thing for holidays really. Settle down with a lovely movie with some snacks and a favorite drink to spoil myself (in this case: cider -- which is something I haven't been able to have for YEARS and have desperately missed -- and hohos, aka swiss rolls. And I'm watching Resident Evil, lmao). But then, I'm not much of a people-person...not terribly social. So I guess this isn't really that big a thing, or a surprise really. What people always seem to think though, is that just 'cause one's not in the mood to party on a holiday and want to stay home...they think the person's not having a good holiday! But actually, this has been the best halloween I've ever had. Everyone's got their own brand of fun!

I know what you are saying, I have felt that way many times. There have been times I had to drag myself to an event because I said I would go.

Yes...I usually love the holidays but sometimes I am just not in the mood for the partying. Unless I'm with someone who really pushes me to go regardless of my mood, I sometimes back down. I really really love halloween so I usually do get pretty into it. This year I had to work but still had fun seeing all the costumes etc. New Years Eve is the one that I tend to go back and forth with...more often than not backing down. I just really don't like that particular holiday. People get way too drunk and there always seems to be too many fights etc. I usually either volunteer to work that night or have a very small get together with close friends.

I dislike any type of holiday party and generally end up staying at home with a nice cup of hot tea and a good book. I even skipped my G-sons 6th birthday party this year because i just dreaded the thought of the whole thing. I truly think it is simply the noise that i dislike so much, when i was younger it didn't seem to bother me but alas i am no longer younger!LOL

Probably way too many I am not a big party person, so that's why. As for Halloween, it's just another day to me. I do buy candy just in case a brave kid wanders down the driveway to my back house. But, it is just Friday to me

Yes, I have. Parties aren't fun if you go because you have to, not because you want to...no matter who is hosting it. Stay home, enjoy the movies and a relaxing Halloween. Appologize to your friend, explain that you weren't feeling up to it. There's always next year, since you said she throws these every year. If she's a good friend, I'm sure she'll understand.

I have been through this several times also. I am just not in the mood for things like that either. I would rather work online or around the house instead.

yea,once in awhile. if i'm really tired or i just don't feel good,i'll call it,even if it would have been fun.you gotta listen to what the body says sometimes.

Yes I have, I hate it when it happens though but to be honest most of the time I never feel like going out and socialising anyway. It is worse at this time of the year as well when it goes cold and all I want to do is snuggle up in the warm, not get ready to go on a night out!

oyewacket yes I have done that too, as I am a homebody content to be at mycomputer and in my own bedroom. You know you would enjoy the party but yet you are not in the social mood, you just want to loaf at home and watch something good on the boob tube instead. lol.

Hey pye! Yup! I get like that sometimes! I just rather do whatever and not be bothered! I don't know why, but I just feel like being lazy and not going wherever it was that I was invited to go even though I know it will be fun! So, yes I know what you mean! And once I make up my mind there is no way to change it! So what movies were you planning on watching? I'm too busy trying to make my last minute pennies to stop until the midnight hour when it's last call for mylotting October closeout! So I will be in front of the computer until then! Hope you enjoy the movies!

Yea, but not parties -- more like Dr. appointments and stuff. Sometimes my grandma's house too.