It's All In Fun...
By twoey68
@twoey68 (13627)
United States
November 16, 2008 9:46am CST
I’ve seen different movies and such where one partner handcuffs another partner for intimate purposes. They even make special fur covered handcuffs for the occasion. In a recent program, a woman handcuffed her partner and then had a seizure and passed out. The guy didn’t have the key and was left there helpless.
I would never, ever let anyone handcuff me. It would be just my luck that there’d I’d be in nothing but my birthday suit and they’d keel over and I’d be left there for days with a dead body till someone showed up to check on me…oh, and what a way to be found!! I’d much rather just not go there. If I was into something like that I think I’d rather use cloth where it could be untied in an emergency.
Would you let someone handcuff you? What if they dropped dead and you were left stuck that way? Could you imagine your mom or dad (or kid) walking in and finding you like that?
[b]~~IN SEARCH OF PEACE WITHIN~~
**AGAINST THE STORMS, I WILL STAND STRONG** [/b]
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27 responses
@redyellowblackdog (10629)
• United States
16 Nov 08
Let my partner handcuff me? Are you kidding? My partner regards me as to good with my hands to ever consider restraining them.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
16 Nov 08
no, I have never been into playing games, I always get too shy for that
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
16 Nov 08
I am with you on that one. Murphy's Law would surely catch up to me in that situation and get me with an absolute vengeance. I am a coward about putting myself into compromising situations. Just do not do that. I think I totally hate to be out of control. That is the same reason I do not like roller coasters. I guess either situation is okay for those who enjoy it, but I would be the one who would get stuck, somehow.
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@inked4life (4224)
• United States
16 Nov 08
I haven't been cuffed but have been tied up and have to say that I didn't really care for it. I like the sensation of touch too much as well as the feeling of being in some sort of control both of which were removed with the binding. That was a while ago though so I may have to try again.....like to keep things spicy...LOL
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@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
16 Nov 08
Nope, I am pretty sure I would never do that. Not with handcuffs anyways, there is no way out of those. Maybe with a handkerchief or something like that where you could get yourself out, but not handcuffs. I have a bit of a panic disorder, if I think I don't have total control of my body I have an anxiety attack. Plus like you said you never know, something could happen to that other person, and then you are stuck. I would die if my kids caught me like that, or pretty much anyone for that matter.
@mojcica (1511)
• Slovenia
16 Nov 08
Handcuffing is something I wouldnt be able to do. I can not submit my self, I need control, and taking that away from me would left me a total nuthead lol
If someone handcuffs you it means he has a control over you and there is nothing you can do about it. It might be interesting to some point, but as I said I would probably freaked out, panic. This is just not my thing no matter how interesting it might look.
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@Yestheypayme2dothis (7874)
• United States
16 Nov 08
I would never allow someone to do it to me...I could say more but on this place your words are never safe.
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@BarBaraPrz (51819)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
16 Nov 08
Interesting that you should start this discussion two days after I saw a pair of earrings (at Value Village, no less) that were tiny little handcuffs, one side open, the other with a hand in it...
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@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
17 Nov 08
Oh that would be a sight wouldn't it? 
. My family would be shocked thats for sure, because they all think of me as the good girl, the one that wouldn't ever do anything like that or anything thats dangerous..lol. I don't know what people get out of stuff like that, all that bondage stuff, I'm not into it either. I wouldn't ever let anybody handcuff me either. Lets not go there....Have a good day
. My family would be shocked thats for sure, because they all think of me as the good girl, the one that wouldn't ever do anything like that or anything thats dangerous..lol. I don't know what people get out of stuff like that, all that bondage stuff, I'm not into it either. I wouldn't ever let anybody handcuff me either. Lets not go there....Have a good day1 person likes this
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
17 Nov 08
they were stupid for having real ones!! i have furry ones but i dont really care for them.. i find them uncomfortable still.. im not one to like to be restrained or dominated though.. not my style
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@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
16 Nov 08
LOL I have let myself be handcuffed before, but not to a bed or anything. Just my hands. But, I must admit I didn't care for it - I don't really like that helpless feeling. And yea, it would be my luck that something like that would happen to me too.
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
16 Nov 08
Yeeeeah, no! I don't have control over too many things in life, I am certainly not too keen on giving over that kind of control to someone......not even someone I trust! And, as for someone walking in and finding me in that position.......
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@rjl1989 (190)
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16 Oct 09
I'd like to try it, although i wouldn't use handcuffs, i'd use a tie or pantyhose or something like that, which i could undo myself, but would take a minute to get off, so i couldnt get out immediately. The furry handcuffs unclip in a second which is much easier than using the key, so i wouldnt really feel very restrained knowing i could take them off anytime i wanted.
@jstory07 (148730)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Sep 15
I would never allow that. I would be afraid something would happen to.
@KarenO52 (2950)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I remember reading a Stephen King book, I can't remember which one, but there was a story where a husband handcuffed his wife to the bed at their remote cabin in the woods, and then suffered a fatal heart attack. Like most Stephen King stories, the situation went from horrible to much worse. After reading that, even though it was a fiction, I would be too freaked out to ever allow anything like that to happen.
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
18 Nov 08
If I ever did this it would be away from my family.Were
my kids could not walk in.I would also have a key around
one of my wrist,so I could open them if something happen.
Even if you tied your wrist,it could be hard to get them
untied.I guess there is really no safe way to do this.
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
17 Nov 08
It is really crazy to be handcuffed! There is no such thing in my town! Only some prisoners will be handcuffed!
Have a great day!
@Nahsik (205)
• India
17 Nov 08
The very same situation
about which you have
talked has happened with
my very best friend,
Jack!!
He was just passing by a street and the incident took place!!
Well and i was the one who found in that state!!!
It really made me scared for a second but the next moment i was runnung home with my friend!!
