how do you decide ? and how do you choose?

oh my friend i been through simliar problem this can be fixed if he is willing to fix the problem.facts has to be faced like accusing you of cheating most the time they are cheating and feel gulity.you have get to couseling to help talk this out why is he so mad at you whats the real reason have you asked him. when you get down to it walkthetalk,something is going on with your husband 9 times out 10 it,s not about you.get down to the bottom of the problem you may not like what he has to say but at least he will be telling you the truth.i hope you feel better soon

You have chosen the good decision for you and your daughter. You're a brave person. If it would happen to me I would feel the same and would do it too. A partner in life or a good man to be with is easy to find, but your daughter and your life only comes once in a lifetime. So that's great that you are living your own way of life, and you have your freedom back as well. Blessings.

You need to be the person you are for yourself, And what makes you happy. You do what you feel inside is right for you and your daughter.

Missed you here and was wondering about you and now I know...well I have always called you pretty and who cares what he says..I think you have to do whats right for you and if you left then you felt that was it..Only you can decide whats best for you and your Daughter and I feel you have started in the right path.. Huggs and Love you

I know the anguish you are going through at this point in your life. I went through this process some 28 years ago when I decided to leave my wife of 10 years and move on with my life. The sole question you need to ask yourself is: "Will my life (and children's) be better with your partner or without them?" It is always sad when the answer comes up that your life is going to be better off without your spouse. That is what I had came up with as an answer. I had three daughters, ages 8, 3, and 1. I love them and it was very hard to leave. But even their lives would ultimately be better (although I am not sure how they view it now). Some other considerations: Is your husband under a lot of stress at his work? That would be a cause of him talking really bad to you. Accusation of cheating? OK, I am a male, a husband, a father, and a grandfather. My life experience has taught me that usually it is the accuser that is actually guilty of the accusation. In your case, I really hope not. Good luck, milady. p.s. Visited your profile. Your husband has one thing right: you are quite attractive! I offer my best wishes.

Hey my bestest friend~ I'm so sorry. I knew that if you were gone that something was really wrong. I told you I kept checking your profile to see when and if you had signed in. I am going to send you an email. I just wanted to stop by here to let you know that I think you definitely did the right thing and I am glad that you did it! I'm glad that you and your daughter are together and things are better between you both. That helps alot! You can tell me more when we talk. I really did miss you and I am glad that you are back and ok! I have no doubt that you will be better off and I know how strong you are! You have proved that over and over again! I will talk to you later!

It sounds like you are making your life and your daughter's life better. I agree, you can't change yourself just to please someone else. I wish you lots of luck. Stay strong.