What do you miss?

Cornish Pasty - pasties
@Humbug25 (12540)
December 7, 2008 7:55am CST
I am originally from Cornwall, England but now I live in Devon just a few hours from my hometown. I really miss being so close to the beach, going for a long winters walk by the sea listening to the waves and sitting down looking out to see and daydreaming. I also miss pasties! Whenever my mum comes to visit she always brings me a few so I can put some in the freezer for a later date. I also make sure I visit the local bakery and getting my fill of them before I have to go back home. How about you? What do you miss about your hometown if you no longer live there?
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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
8 Dec 08
I do not miss my home town but my family is all still there and I do miss my family but I cannot afford to go visit them as they are so far away. My brother has just been diagnosed with prostate cancer and it would be nice to be able to pop in for a chat and just connect.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
9 Dec 08
Yes we keep in touch but its not quite the same as being there. Still we do what we can.
@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi there sharra1 I am sorry to hear about your brother it must be so difficult for you living so far. My brother's wife gave birth to their first son just over a month ago but they are in Kuwait and the rest of the family are in the UK but we have skype that we use to keep in touch with each other. I wish your brother a speedy recovery! Thanks for your response
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@xbrendax (2662)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Hi! I was born in the United States, but my relitives came over here through Ellis Island from Cornwall England. I have been to Cornwall twice in my life and I love it! I love the fishing boats, the quaint little shops and pubs, the coble stone streets, all the fat, healthy cats, the fish & chips in cones, the scones and pastries, cream soups, rock buns, saffron buns, mutton stew etc.. I loved walking out to the little island (when the tide is right) and even those very noisy seagulls! I felt like it was my home even though I was born in America. I guess the old saying is true: You can take the girl out of Cornwall, but you can't take Cornwall out of the girl!
@xbrendax (2662)
• United States
9 Dec 08
Ah those delicious pasties! Send me a beef one will ya?!! Ha Ha Ha!! You're right, it wouldn't make it here in one piece even though they are still delicious (day old)! When we got there, (me and my sister), we stayed with reletives in their tiny apartment not far from the beach and you are right again, that little island was called: St. Michael's Mount! Wish I was there now, even though it'll be very chilly and cold, I wouldn't care! Bring on the pasties and ale!
@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi ya xbrendax Wow what a small world. You are talking about all the things I take for granted down there. Where abouts did you go when you visited? I think the island you are talking about that you can walk to when the tide is out is St Michael's Mount and funnily enough I took my kids there the last time we were down in Cornwall which was October. I am looking forward to going to Cornwall for the New Year and I'll be able to catch up with my friends. I would offer to send you a pasty but I don't think it would make to you in one piece! LOL Thanks for your response
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Hey there humbug25, I made a similar topic about missing Arizona a while ago in fact I think it was called what do you miss, dont worry I dont care it dosent bother me, besides your is slightly different then mine, anyway back to the topic my home town was in the east, and it use to snow in the winter and I miss seeing snow fall its been ages since Iv seen snow because it dosent snow were I live now.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi apples99 I do remember that discussion of yours as I remember telling you that I had been to the US and Arizona. Boy that was ages ago!! Sorry I would not intentionally copy anyone's discussion but it is slightly different, I think, isn't it? LOL Thanks apples
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Don't worry buddy besides your topic is a bit more interesting then my old one lol.
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
8 Dec 08
I miss my family.. I haven't seen them for a month now.. but i have plans of visiting them on the weekend.. i also miss some close friends wayback in college..the last time i talked to them was ages ago..
@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi ya gracie04 You'll have to get in touch with them again! Thanks for your response
• Australia
8 Dec 08
Well, let's see. I miss the rain and the miserably cold winter days, and the summers which are so hot you can't move between sunup and sundown. And I miss the noise of the traffic and the billowing clouds of car exhausts. And I miss the streets you can't walk down at night for fear of being beaten up or killed. I miss the crowded city streets and the ancient trams and buses, and the traffic flow which would run second to a snail at some times in the day. Not much, really. Lash
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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
8 Dec 08
Oh very funny. Yes I miss those as well.
@Elvali (68)
• China
8 Dec 08
Well,maybe it is the people and the food that attract me much if I move to another place.The people there are very friendly and food is so delicious and snacks are so particular that you may not find them easily in other cities.And if I no longer live there,I may be sad for a while because it is the place I was born and grow up.I think I will forget my hometown wherever I live in in the future.I have to face the fact that after my graduation,I maybe live in the city I work which is far from my hometown.But I cannot tell at this time.
@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi Elvali Well at least you will still be able to go and visit! Thanks for your response
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
7 Dec 08
I live in 5 minutes drive by car away from my hometown. I do miss my teenage friends. Some of the grew up and still live in the same area. I miss bumping into them on Sunday's when we go to the mass or buy the newspaper. However as it is a 5 mins drive it is not really far away from my hometown.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi ronaldinu That is nice that you still live so close. Everytime I go 'home' I always expect to bump into to someone I knew from before but I never seem to, it's bizarre! Maybe they are all like me and have moved away! Thanks for your response
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
7 Dec 08
I miss a lot of things since living here to farm, but when I go home I will miss my farm and my corn. What is a man to do? Cheers!!
@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi underdogtoo That's always the way eh? Thanks for responding
@benhilo (871)
• Tripoli, Libya
7 Dec 08
Missing from days gone by, is the courtesy and respect that we gave one another while walking down the street in your neighborhood. Missing aslo the the moral and values that made it a great play to live. Thats what I miss!!
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@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hello benhilo Yes I agree with you though I live in a really nice town now too. Thanks for your response
@rkotaker (60)
7 Dec 08
Bet you miss the hunky cornish men to!!!! Ya i guess as you get older and in more of a routine with families and work you miss all those freedoms you had as a child. I miss those summer holidays when you would get up and go out cycling and exploring the local area for the day just popping in for dinner and then clearing off out again until tea. Amazing how times have changed now youd be afraid to let children out of you sight for more than 20 mins.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi rkotaker In your dreams!! Hey and you may have treated your mum's house like a hotel when you were a kid but I sure didn't!! Hahahah LOL Love ya really Cheers rkotaker
@lilcee (2703)
• United States
7 Dec 08
I miss my brothers and sisters. Most of them still live around my hometown. I also miss the snow at Christmas time. Other than Christmas, I'm OK with the warmer weather we have in Florida. But at Christmas, I like the snow.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi ya lilcee If I was guaranteed snow at Christmas in my hometown I would be there every year!! We don't get much snow in England, very rarly actually but when we do I am like a kid again making snowmen and having snowball fights!! Thanks for your response
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
8 Dec 08
maybe i will my neighbors and all my sorroundings, the beautiful breeze the sunrise..ohhh everything...i love my place my hometown place..
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@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi ya becnh83 I am never up erly enough to see the sunrise, I am more of a sunset kinda girl! Thanks for your response
• China
8 Dec 08
I have to say you are better than me. I am a college student living far away from my home town.It is the second year i leave my hometown.I can go home when we have holiday which we call summer holiday and winter holiday.I have to take train which will spend me two whole days.It is really not a good experience for me.I have to change my train and take buses,what is worse,i have a bus sick which will make me throw up.And i don't have too much money.ahah,i really miss everything in my hometown,the snakes,the air,the friend,and my dear families.It is said tho moon is rounder in hometown than in other place.I miss it no matter where i am.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi there mary_moli and welcome to myLot Well maybe one day you will be able to go back their to live once you have finished college. Take care and happymylotting
@sunny0806 (248)
• China
8 Dec 08
I miss my young friends. I left my hometown 20 years ago. I have lost contact with them. I don't know if we can recognize each other when we see again.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
8 Dec 08
Hi there sunny0806 Maybe you could find them on Facebook or something? Thanks for your response
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
7 Dec 08
May I be as bold as to ask what part of Cornwall you resided in my friend? I have had a lot of beautiful holidays in Cornwall, staying in Newquay, my favourite place was Mevagissey, I loved it there. I guess it's quite expensive down there! I would love to live by the sea. I actually live now where I was born, after moving 6 times no less! Mind you I haven't moved far, from Kent to London to Essex and back to Kent again. I may be moving again next year but it depends on the jobfront etc!
@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi wolfie34 You may ask, I don't mind. I was brought up in the Falmouth/Penryn area. I hate Newquay in the summer it is filled with huge seaguls trying to eat your pasty, big no, no!! I once sat inside a car to eat one on a boiling hot day with the window wound right up and there were four seaguls stood on the car, two on the bonnet staring at me and my friend. Newquay is always full of drunk students in the night time too so it's not a good place for families in certain places. My mum now lives in Truro and that is where I go when I go and visit. I still have 2 friend that I always visit when I am down and they live in Falmouth. Cheers wolfie
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Some years ago I moved from the middle of the country to the eastern seaboard Well almost to the sea or ocean. I'm about one and one hours from the ocean. The middle of the country has wide open spaces with rolling hill and fields. here where I live now the trees block the view of almost everything. When driving from one small town to another you can see the fields of beets (grown for sugar) and the corn fields waving their tops in the breezes. If you drive past a pasture you can see the golden and rust colors of fall and the grasses waving and they look like the rolling waves of the ocean. I miss seeing the sun sets from start to finish. Here you can only see the stat of a sunset because of all the trees. I also miss seeing a storm coming. Out there you can see for a long ways and here all you see is trees as you drive along the highway. I also miss seeing the waving grains as it ripens. The one thing I don't miss is the cold. I also miss seeing family
@riyasam (16556)
• India
7 Dec 08
oh,i too do not live far away from my parents home.just a 2 hour drive.but i used to live in close vicinity of my school and i do miss the students chatter.my kids do make up for my loss.only difference is that at times,they make me lose my patience.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi ya riyasam I know exactly what you are talking about on all parts! LOL Thanks for your response
@p1kef1sh (45681)
7 Dec 08
I miss your Mum coming by here and dropping pasties in MY freezer Humbug. LOL. There's a shop on the Lizard............Yummy! I grew up beside the River Thames and I do miss the river at times. There's something almost magical about the stillness of the river early on a summer morning. Then you slowly start to notice that there is life. Duck and moorhens. The bark of a fox and majestic swans moving out from the bankside. A brownish vole cleaning his face and the languid flight of a skein of geese. Such memories.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi ya p1kef1sh Are you thinking of Philp's Pasties? They are the best, and believe me I have tried a fair few in my lifetime LOL You're memories are great and very peaceful, something you don't expect to find in London! I was almost there with you p1key Cheers for that
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
7 Dec 08
I had my childhood in the beautiful place of Lingig Surigao del Sur, Philippines. Now I am living in Davao City. What I miss in our hometown is the seashore because it's really near to our place. I also miss my childhood friends and miss those days where we played beside the sea. I also miss my parents and siblings. Oh, one more thing! I miss the foods!!!
@Humbug25 (12540)
7 Dec 08
Hi ya aisaellis22 I think it is good to miss things so that when you get to go there again it makes the visit so great! Thanks for your response