Elvali

@Elvali (68)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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which life rockss??its single or comitted or married life??

gunagohan @gunagohan (3413) • India 10 Feb 09

which life is really good ???single's life...means roaming every where alone or with friends... married life- care for partner comitted life-taking ur girl\boy friend every where u go and spend for them... im 19 and im single...

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Elvali Well,I'm also in your team and I feel good.I'm used to living in this way even I feel a little bit inconvenient sometimes. I can;t say I love to be alone all the time,but till now,I'd like to be single and I have to.Because I have so many other things to...

11 Feb 09

How Do You Usually Celebrate Your Birthday?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28954) • Canada 31 Jan 09

Those who have read the last two discussions I started will know that today, January 30th, 2009, was my 27th birthday. My husband and I had a great time! First we went to Stone Road Mall, where he bought me a caramel apple,...

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Elvali Well,I usually forget my own bisrhday,but my friends do not.They often give me sutptises and make me happy.Personally,I don't feel like the traditional way people celebrate their birthday,it doesn't male any sense.\ Tge simpler,the better to express their...

31 Jan 09

Talking it out.

Sheepie @Sheepie (3112) • United States 9 Dec 08

You may or may not remember the discussion I wrote about my enemy. Well, in short, my enemy is just one of those "mean girls" in my high school. She's always kind of been someone who I would definately avoid since 6th grade. But...

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Elvali Maybe you're right to talk it out and find out what the real problem is.If she is indeed this kind of "mean girl",and intends to do this untolerable things to you and your friends continually,you must take action to show your anger on her and tell her don't do...

10 Dec 08

How was your life this year 2008 ?

zatak07 @zatak07 (699) • India 7 Dec 08

Superb ! horrible..senatational or just fine ?? frens now we are at the end of the year 2008 with less than a month, so let us contemplate how we've spend those days , i'm sure you must have expirience something whether good or...

2008

life

will and grace

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Elvali It is like a dream for me this year,I just cannot believe all the things I have encountered are real.I'm still in the dream and couldn't figure out what is true around me.It was my second time to get on a police car.I lost one of my bestfriends and I almost...

8 Dec 08

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Go shopping with your boyfriend?

Elvali @Elvali (68) • China 8 Dec 08

Well,I always go shopping with my girlfriends,they have constructive advice for you and you will feel at ease to buy clothes or have fun together.But if you go shopping with your boyfriend,you will never get the answer you want,on...

constructive advice

feel at ease

girlfriends

never get the answer you want

time

tired

Lies or honesty?

Elvali @Elvali (68) • China 8 Dec 08

I often consider it natural to tell lies for people.But under what circumstances you should tell lies and do you think a white lie is better than miserable facts? Please share your experience with us,friends.

better than miserable facts

natural

under what circumstances

What is your favorite animal?

BloodShyne @BloodShyne (792) • United States 7 Dec 08

And if you could have it as a pet would you? My favorite animals are lions there the king of the jungle the ultimate hunter preditor and my zodiac sign:)...as for haveing a lion as a pet I think it would be awesome....until I...

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Elvali Hehe,my favorite animal is little pig and I really want to have it as a pet at home.I just think it is very enjoyable and interesting to play with such an animal.Of course,it is not like the ordinary pig we see in sty and eat.It is a pet pig which cannot grow...

8 Dec 08

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What do you miss?

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 7 Dec 08

I am originally from Cornwall, England but now I live in Devon just a few hours from my hometown. I really miss being so close to the beach, going for a long winters walk by the sea listening to the waves and sitting down looking...

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Elvali Well,maybe it is the people and the food that attract me much if I move to another place.The people there are very friendly and food is so delicious and snacks are so particular that you may not find them easily in other cities.And if I no longer live there,I...

8 Dec 08

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Somethings a woman should never tell,please demystify this statement !!!

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 7 Dec 08

My mother says that there are something’s a woman should never tell, do you agree with this statement and ooops I just realized I have found myself in a bit of a dilemma ,because I was just about to ask you what these things are...

female mysteries

strokes

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Elvali I don't think so.In some aspects,women are more sensitive to discover something that men cannot tell.I believe people misunderstand this concept because women usually act more emotional and that doesn't mean women are not as smart as men.Women just hide their...

7 Dec 08

Do You Play Badminton?

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 4 Dec 08

Badminton is my favorite sport. I like to play badminton because it is fun and challenging. Badminton requires a person to react fast and make decision fast to win the game. I am constantly improving my skills in...

badminton

sport

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Elvali Yes, I play it and I like to play all kinds of sports which make me sweat,especially in summer.I like this feeling that I play tired and sweat and then have a shower.

7 Dec 08

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What's in a Hug

RamJey @RamJey (89) • Singapore 6 Dec 08

What's really in a Hug? I remember reading that studies show that giving someone a hug gives the receiver some assurance and comfort. Kids always love to be hugged by their parents and loved ones, and the same goes for the adults...

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Elvali Hugs are somehow a very good way to show your love or affection to someone.It is a polite to hug people in most western coutries but it is considered a way to show romantic feelings between men and women in some countries.Maybe just because their thoughts are...

7 Dec 08

Honestly...I Have NO Friends at ALL

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 6 Dec 08

Why is it so hard for people to believe that I have NO friends to my name?.. It ain't like I'm famous or something, I'm just me, nothing exciting. I had 5 friends in Iowa for three years when I was only 8 years old, one of...

best friend

friends

zero

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Elvali Theoretically,I have several best friends,but they study in other cites.In college,I find that it is very hard to make real friends there.But you should have some friends to do things together,thus,you are not alone.But as for me,I often do things on my own...

7 Dec 08

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Are you a sensitive person?

gicolet @gicolet (1702) • United States 4 Dec 08

They said that sensitive people are those who smile and laugh a lot and those who are tough are those who are always quiet and cool. Are you a sensitive person? Are your feelings easily get hurt? Do you get upset very easily? Do...

sensitive people

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Elvali Well,I think I'm always sensitive and I don't like this me because it is easy to be hurt by some trifles which in others' eyes are not indifferent.Sometimes,I smile and laugh a lot in public but be quiet and upset shortly after smiling.That's me.I feel sad or...

7 Dec 08

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“I wanna grow old with you…”

shiloh_222 @shiloh_222 (5479) • Philippines 7 Dec 08

this is the title of the song that adam sandler sang in the wedding singer. It always make me smile. I really wish to grow old with a special someone. This song this tug my heartstrings since it speaks of love based in reality…...

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Elvali It's very romantic to sing this song to your love.I really appreciate people's happiness and love.And I never stop dreaming that I will meet my prince-charming one day and live a happy life forever.I want God to help me fulfill the dream.I think that this song...

7 Dec 08

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Flirting or harassment?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 3 Dec 08

Flirting or harassment?: A local radio advert aims to educate women about harassment at work. The conversation went something along these lines. A boss invites one of his workers for a drink, when she refuses, he says to her that...

harassment

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Elvali It reminds me a famous movie in our china called A Flirting Scholar.That's very funny and it contains many ironies.But nowadays,there are some men who have talents and are gentleman-like in public but indecent under the table.Now it seems that it is very...

4 Dec 08

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How to Enjoy Life?

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 3 Dec 08

Hi, I am making some extra income online. Now, I have some savings that are enough for me to buy the stuff I like such as mobile phone, laptop and DSLR camera. But I am planning to use the saving to invest in stocks to make more...

enjoying life

extra income

stocks

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Elvali Well,I think the most effective way to be happy and enjoy you life is to give more than what you take.I think the less requirements of others and himself he has,the happier he will be.If you want to enjoy your present life,you can do everything you want to...

4 Dec 08

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Do you DREAM when you are sleeping all the time?

alyssa_c @alyssa_c (440) • Philippines 3 Dec 08

I am usually a dreamless sleeper but ever since I got pregnant I found myself having dreams each night: some were funny but most of the time it's just plain weird! Last night by far was the weirdest. My dream...

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Elvali I always have dreams that are very strange and funny but feel so real the moment I wake up.Sometimes,the dream contains almost all the elements in daytime.For example,the people around me and the things happening around me and my friends in daytime.The dream...

4 Dec 08

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Quite the birthday surprise for an 80-yr-old!!

Wendy @jerzgirl (9412) • United States 3 Dec 08

This guy got the birthday card of a lifetime! No, not from President Bush or Willard Scott. He got a birthday card from his 3rd grade teacher!!!! Can you believe it!! Check it out - it's a neat story!...

elementary teachers

flashback

memories of youth

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Elvali Well,it's good to know this guy got a very meanful present for his birthday and this is his lifetime gift from his elementary teacher.I think that's the biggest compliment for him.Fortunately,almost all my elementary teachers are still work in the primary...

4 Dec 08