Do you like change?

I don't mind change. Change can be a good thing. You just have to be able to go with the flow sometimes...

I usually have problems adjusting with big changes. I think that would bother me too if my husbands schedule wasn't set and routine. :( But I can usually deal with changes like a new job or school or something.

Change is imminent. A person who doesn't change will surely be left behind, but one doesn't have to change because someone wants them to change or so that others may like him/her. Life is a dynamic factor and it keeps on changing day by day. So we must change with it to be comfortable. It's just that we might not be so happy about the change, but in the long run we will realize its effects, which obviously will be good. I have been exposed to some serious changes around me and I have to say that even if I was not comfortable, I got through about it and very much fine now. bourne

I know what you mean. I have had many changes this year. Now thankfully I can get my schedule together. It will take time you will get used to it if he doesn't have to change his work hours again. I will also have a lot of time on my hand and I don't know what I am going to do with myself.

Hello lilcee! A saying said that "the only constant here in this world is change" so whether we like it or not we have to adjust to it. Sometimes, I don't like changes too. It's hard to adjust sometimes but when I married, everything's change and I have to adjust to it.

It depends on what kind of changes. Actually we are bound to changes. Sometimes changes may be positive for us and some may not. But for me i see to it that whatever changes i made it is for the betterment of myself. Something i can be proud too. Usually i change with my own physical attributes like clothes, i prefer wearing something that is fit for myself. As for my attitude i am not going to change anything because i believe with the attitude i have i am satisfied with the way i interact with other people around me.

I'm actually fine with changes, I can adapt to changes quite easily. Perhaps I'm used to stay outside when I was young, I always have to change the environment I belong to, meet new friends, etc. Perhaps this helps me to adapt to changes easier. Also, I always think that if changes are making things better, then it's good for myself, I'm improving. ^_^

change is good sometimes but i like things to stay the same too so i guess iam in between.

[i]Hi lilcee, I am very flexible and can adopt right away with the changes, I know it's hard at first but when we have nothing to do, we learn to just go with the flow! LOL! I would say, you're a very good wife since you're there for your hubby whatever the schedule is, eating with him even if it's too early or what, keep it up[/i]!

Haha. Don't know what to do with yourself at 7 now? I like change. I've even been accused of craving it. I once worked as an elementary school teacher and I was very aware that the job fit my psyche very well. Each September I was able to have a fresh start and a new direction. I fear I would begin to stagnate with a schedule too rigid.

hello lilcee, All of us is dealing with changes. Sometimes, it's hard to adjust but we'll be use to it soon. It's just okey to have changes for me, if it's for the better. It need a lot of sacrifices sometimes to work out. Our mind must be open so it's just easier dealing with it.

It all depends on what is going to change. Change can be a good thing and change can be a bad thing.

no change is no progress,i feel like changing in my life and my job.i have been working in my company for 8 years without any achievement and progress.i must quit it to look for a better one for me with a better salary and buight future.

I do have problems with changes. I dont like abrupt change though. I need to slowly accept it and totally embraced the change or else it would weigh me down. But somehow i like changes too in other hand. Its just I need to know what is the effect bad or good of the change thing.

I like changing,because of that we can learn new things everyday i suppose.Even though it is stressful,we can face it for 2-3 days,after that we slowly get adjusted to it.After that,we like the changed life only hehehe.It all depends upon as how we thinks friend.Even though we face problem i would be happy after some time. Hehehe... Have a nice day

in general i do not do well with change but i do acclimate myself rather easily. i like to have a routine but i also like to break the monotony too so sometimes change is good and i enjoy it. i guess what i am saying is i do not do well with major, life changing things.

Same with you, I also hate changes because it makes me stress and my head is aching so much.. I sometimes freak out especially if I forgot the changes had made.. After I graduated college, everything in my life had change. The way I deal with my life and the way I deal with other people. When I'm still living in our country, I used to deal others just the way I want too but now that I went to other city I always deal with others the way they want for me to be able to have friends and for me to belong in the group and I hate it sometimes because its seems I'm not on my self.. It seems that I'm someone else but I don't have a choice because dealing them like my friends in our places is different.. They might not like it! So, changes is very difficult to handle especially if you are already in that situation for many years.. I think everyone hate changes but changes is always part of our life since there's no permanent in this world..

Hi ya lilcee Normally I would say that a change is as good as a rest but this is a little bit to much of a change. I do like change and adjust well. It's nice to change your furniture around or change the colour scheme in your house, it's nice to change your job for something more challenging but to have to change your meal times around has got to be really tricky. I guess in time you will get used to just as you had to when it changed the first time around!!

I'm not that keen on change myself although I accept that change is a part of life! I guess I have to become adaptable as well as flexible so that I become comfortable with change. It does sound as though you are going through major change in your household! I have some sense of security and I guess I feel a little threatened when change is around the corner as I don't know what to expect! Andrew

Hi Lilcee =) ehm..based on ur story, it seems like u always waiting for ur husband to eat, ur such a nice wife =) but is it wrong if u eat before him, n when its time for him to eat u just serve and accompany him ? lol thats just a question tho, i still like u for waiting ur husband to eat so u can eat together =) if me, i do need a time to adapt with changes around me, watever it is..but im also a quick learner so it wont take a long time for me. sometimes, i do struggle with the changes, like im trying to refuse it n just wanna do it my way. but then again, i realize that the only thing that is never change is the change itself..so, that way i can accept and adapt with the change soon..